I think we need to come up with some symbols to make it easier to identify each other publicly without being a dead giveaway. Here's what I suggest. Wives who are down with cuckolding should wear a key on a necklace or anklet. The key is a great symbol because many of their husbands spend time in chastity. I also like the idea of the cuckold wearing a small lock on a necklace. That way most people will see it and have no idea what it means, but people in the life will know right away. Turtles would be another good choice. I'm not sure the whole story, but turtles are associated with cuckolding in Chinese culture. If you have any other ideas or suggestions please join the conversation