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[hungteacher]

I find I just tend to want to strangle the idiots that are disrespectful of their wives or girlfriends whom they just want to assert their fantasy on rather than listen and expand / explore the fantasies their wives have. Mine started off saying she didn't have fantasies, but it just wasn't true. And found woth enough patience and safety....yeah, they're there and they're wild!

LOVE the comment and thank you.
Yes, women have more sexual capacity than men. Think about it. A woman can have multiple orgasms, she can take more than one cock. Men have to HOLD off from cumming in order to LAST and have stamina. If I dont have regular consistent sex, which I have not since CV19 was in full swing, its hard to have stamina of 2-4 hours. Thats my longest so far, I penetrated a woman for 4 hours straight. It only happened twice and it was with the same woman. But she did EVERYTHING I asked her to do and she understood what kept me hard. In fact, it became a game to her in her mind, when she could feel me getting soft inside her, she would do the tricks I told her about and she said, it was the best feeling she ever had feeling a hard cock engorge will pressed against her cervix...she said she had never felt that before and she liked that I was going hard and soft inside her over the 4 hours.

We both were shocked at the time when I finally came inside her. We had to do MATH, and were like, OMG!! did we just fuck for 4 hours straight?

 

[petco]

I appreciate your comment, but that is simply not a true statement based on fact. You are just giving us your opinion.
Thank you for it, but please be careful with how you phrase things. We do not want to discourage people from participating.
I have been coaching men, women and couples sexually for about 20 years now. I honestly cant believe how time flies. But I got started early in the game. Its been a weird transition into the older man role now. Which I love, because I like the kink aspect of Daddy Dom. Its in my nature to be caring and fatherly anyway.

But I have spoken to more women than most of the cuckolds on here have combined. Truthfully, women are 10x more open minded than men are in general. The biggest difference between men and women I see is women are much more aware of what is happening around them. Women are less prone to making a complete fool of themselves. Its also not culturally acceptable for women to make fools of themself. We excuse men who are stupid, by saying "boys will be boys" but in reality men make 100x more mistakes than women do. Women don't get second chances, men do. So women are more cautious, but make no mistake, caution does not equal close-minded.

I have spoken to more women who tell me about their bfs or husbands who are practically priests in bed. And I mean, not interested in any body parts on their gf or wife. The women have to beg the men for sex. BEG!!! And when they ask, can we have an open relationship or marriage, they FREAK THE FUCK OUT! WOW!! That's women being closed-minded?

Try removing the societal restrictions on women and see what happens. Men created the system, control the system and then punish women for wanting to change the system. Read your history before trying to make an opinion into fact. All opinions are welcome, but please clearly state, this is just my opinion before making a statement.

If you do - WE WILL HONOR YOU and your opinion.

thank you for your honest comment .
of course it was my point of view _ based on my expiriences in germany and china .
i agree that a lot of more women have such phantasies than men . a lot of men still treat their wifes as property .
and social pressure on women to fulfill the expectations is much bigger than for guys . society is more willing to forgive a man . ( as example _ he s womanizer but if she enjoy the same she got the stigma of a slut ).
but for cuckold or stag it s the similar situation _ majority will call him a wimp .
for both everything which is not accepted by society in general , makes it hard to find likeminded people .

i appreciate the idea of having a possibility to talk about these things and to learn from each other .

to know that you are not alone with your phantasies and fears would be very helpful .

 

[nancyscuck]

Thank you all for helpful comments. I have been a wannabe for many years as I have a shy and reluctant wife. I attribute this reluctance to me being a very weak male, my inability to be able to follow up and show her the way, encourage her to be more flirtatious etc. My ability to properly fuck her stopped many years ago as I am a fast cummer and lack confidence. It’s how I started to eat my own cum as I would go down on her after cumming so quickly. I always seemed to leave her dissatisfied which led to even more of loss of confidence. Throughout this process I have accepted my weakness and now look forward to some humiliation as it excites me sexually. So yes I could use some guidance/support getting strong enough that would provide her the opportunity to feel comfortable enough to take the next step she deserves.

 

[hungteacher]

Thank you all for helpful comments. I have been a wannabe for many years as I have a shy and reluctant wife. I attribute this reluctance to me being a very weak male, my inability to be able to follow up and show her the way, encourage her to be more flirtatious etc. My ability to properly fuck her stopped many years ago as I am a fast cummer and lack confidence. It’s how I started to eat my own cum as I would go down on her after cumming so quickly. I always seemed to leave her dissatisfied which led to even more of loss of confidence. Throughout this process I have accepted my weakness and now look forward to some humiliation as it excites me sexually. So yes I could use some guidance/support getting strong enough that would provide her the opportunity to feel comfortable enough to take the next step she deserves.

thank you for your comment.
I think you bring up a very good point. "I attribute this reluctance to me being a very weak male, my inability to be able to follow up and show her the way, encourage her to be more flirtatious"

This is a real issue for a lot of gfs and wives. They would be willing to fuck a bull, but your insecurity and your lack of self confidence makes her question whether or not this would BREAK you emotionally and psychologically. A lot of men do not see how amazing your women are, like they take care of you more than you take care of them. And I understand, you are saying "I want to do more for her, I want her to be satisfied."

What I am telling you and what my former hotwife, who I trained is helping men understand. IF YOU SAY YOU WANT THIS...you need to start doing some self improvement. You should not FOCUS on sex. Thats not going to be your role anymore going forward. Men like me will fuck your gf and wives for you. But then what will YOU DO? So you need to mentally prepare yourself RIGHT NOW for the future. Its not fair to your woman that you don't become an AMAZING supporter and not self improving is being a COWARD! So its time for men to be BRAVE and start moving forward.

 

[nancyscuck]

thank you for your comment.
I think you bring up a very good point. "I attribute this reluctance to me being a very weak male, my inability to be able to follow up and show her the way, encourage her to be more flirtatious"

This is a real issue for a lot of gfs and wives. They would be willing to fuck a bull, but your insecurity and your lack of self confidence makes her question whether or not this would BREAK you emotionally and psychologically. A lot of men do not see how amazing your women are, like they take care of you more than you take care of them. And I understand, you are saying "I want to do more for her, I want her to be satisfied."

What I am telling you and what my former hotwife, who I trained is helping men understand. IF YOU SAY YOU WANT THIS...you need to start doing some self improvement. You should not FOCUS on sex. Thats not going to be your role anymore going forward. Men like me will fuck your gf and wives for you. But then what will YOU DO? So you need to mentally prepare yourself RIGHT NOW for the future. Its not fair to your woman that you don't become an AMAZING supporter and not self improving is being a COWARD! So its time for men to be BRAVE and start moving forward.

Yes so very true! At times I marvel when I see more dominant men take charge with wives/girlfriends and see how they may positively respond. I am envious and disappointed in myself I cannot be more manly so my wife could feel more comfortable to see others. I also feel this submissiveness would also allow me to be a good cuckold. Just have to feel that point of balance between being strong enough to encourage her and able to then submit to her and her lover. This is a very powerful feeling.

 

[hungteacher]

Yes so very true! At times I marvel when I see more dominant men take charge with wives/girlfriends and see how they may positively respond. I am envious and disappointed in myself I cannot be more manly so my wife could feel more comfortable to see others. I also feel this submissiveness would also allow me to be a good cuckold. Just have to feel that point of balance between being strong enough to encourage her and able to then submit to her and her lover. This is a very powerful feeling.

thank you for replying again.
I think how you're feeling is going too far. And I get it. I understand how you could feel the way you feel. But let me quote you again and then hopefully make a point.
" I am envious and disappointed in myself I cannot be more manly so my wife could feel more comfortable to see others. I also feel this submissiveness would also allow me to be a good cuckold."

Please do not be disappointed. That's the opposite of being a cuckold. Yes, I get it. Its hard to observe other men seem to talk to women in a much different way. But its just how we are wired. Im wired one way and you are wired another. It does not make me better or worse than you. We are just opposite sides of the same coin. Im heads and you are tails. If that makes sense. We both have the same goal. We want to make your wife feel amazing, I want to fuck her like she's never been fucked before, and you want to love her like she's never been loved before. Do you see how thats a symbiotic relationship?

I need you, just as much as you need me. And your wife gets to enjoy us both for her pleasure.

You downgrade your contribution and over inflate my contribution. Im just providing sexual pleasure. I have the easy part. You are providing support, love, security, trust, relationship, friendship. I mean, you are 100% more important than me to your wife. Remind yourself of that.

When you meet a Legit Bull, we know our role. We dont want to mess up the relationship part, we just want to slide in and fuck your wife like she deserves and then go home. I got stuff to do. You know??

 

[nancyscuck]

thank you for replying again.
I think how you're feeling is going too far. And I get it. I understand how you could feel the way you feel. But let me quote you again and then hopefully make a point.
" I am envious and disappointed in myself I cannot be more manly so my wife could feel more comfortable to see others. I also feel this submissiveness would also allow me to be a good cuckold."

Please do not be disappointed. That's the opposite of being a cuckold. Yes, I get it. Its hard to observe other men seem to talk to women in a much different way. But its just how we are wired. Im wired one way and you are wired another. It does not make me better or worse than you. We are just opposite sides of the same coin. Im heads and you are tails. If that makes sense. We both have the same goal. We want to make your wife feel amazing, I want to fuck her like she's never been fucked before, and you want to love her like she's never been loved before. Do you see how thats a symbiotic relationship?

I need you, just as much as you need me. And your wife gets to enjoy us both for her pleasure.

You downgrade your contribution and over inflate my contribution. Im just providing sexual pleasure. I have the easy part. You are providing support, love, security, trust, relationship, friendship. I mean, you are 100% more important than me to your wife. Remind yourself of that.

When you meet a Legit Bull, we know our role. We dont want to mess up the relationship part, we just want to slide in and fuck your wife like she deserves and then go home. I got stuff to do. You know??

Thanks again for wonderful guidance and support. Yes I understand how the relationship is symbiotic.
Part of my disappointed is in other parts of my life I have enjoyed success but in this part I get confused on being able to communicate these desires. One other item is I tend to read everything on cuckolding some of which I find confusing.
Moving forward I will do my best to be stronger so she will feel more comfortable.

 

[hungteacher]

Thanks again for wonderful guidance and support. Yes I understand how the relationship is symbiotic.
Part of my disappointed is in other parts of my life I have enjoyed success but in this part I get confused on being able to communicate these desires. One other item is I tend to read everything on cuckolding some of which I find confusing.
Moving forward I will do my best to be stronger so she will feel more comfortable.

Thats why we created this group and a community. It is confusing. You are not alone.
Try and download the cuckolding guide a former wife I trained wrote. Its a really good primer and might help you talk to your wife as well.

 

[petco]

thank you for replying again.
I think how you're feeling is going too far. And I get it. I understand how you could feel the way you feel. But let me quote you again and then hopefully make a point.
" I am envious and disappointed in myself I cannot be more manly so my wife could feel more comfortable to see others. I also feel this submissiveness would also allow me to be a good cuckold."

Please do not be disappointed. That's the opposite of being a cuckold. Yes, I get it. Its hard to observe other men seem to talk to women in a much different way. But its just how we are wired. Im wired one way and you are wired another. It does not make me better or worse than you. We are just opposite sides of the same coin. Im heads and you are tails. If that makes sense. We both have the same goal. We want to make your wife feel amazing, I want to fuck her like she's never been fucked before, and you want to love her like she's never been loved before. Do you see how thats a symbiotic relationship?

I need you, just as much as you need me. And your wife gets to enjoy us both for her pleasure.

You downgrade your contribution and over inflate my contribution. Im just providing sexual pleasure. I have the easy part. You are providing support, love, security, trust, relationship, friendship. I mean, you are 100% more important than me to your wife. Remind yourself of that.

When you meet a Legit Bull, we know our role. We dont want to mess up the relationship part, we just want to slide in and fuck your wife like she deserves and then go home. I got stuff to do. You know??

very well said .

 

[Feelitout]

I think it would be a definite plus. I feel a lot of women like my wife have questions that she’d feel better having other women friends answer. I also feel talking with experienced couples help you keep your mind from running off into fantasy land and stay grounded, along with talking about things we may have never even thought of that might come up when starting out.

 

[hungteacher]

I think it would be a definite plus. I feel a lot of women like my wife have questions that she’d feel better having other women friends answer. I also feel talking with experienced couples help you keep your mind from running off into fantasy land and stay grounded, along with talking about things we may have never even thought of that might come up when starting out.

We would love if she made her own profile, or you guys verify as a couple. And list her questions.
Also, tell other cuckolds and women about this thread.

 

[hercuckold]

I've been in conversation with an experienced bull on hhere (I'm sure he'll make himself known if he wants) and he's suggested I post about my friendships with other cuckold couples.

Since my wife met her bull we've helped introduce 2 couples to the lifestyle (one full on, dived in head first the other picks it up and down a bit) and I've become good friends with the cuckold husbands. We help each other talk through the wtf?! moments we have and the angst most cucks seem to get.

I'm also currently talking on the phone and online with a cuck wannabe who's wife has asked to speak to my wife to discuss how things work for her.

In all cases the big step has been when the men took a step back and encouraged their wife to live the fantasy that they have and not the fantasy the cuckold has. Let the wife/girlfriend find her own way with the husband's support rather than him pushing down his own fantasy world.

Do any other cucks talk to and support other couples or singles?
Would be interested to read your comments.

This is very informative. Thank you for sharing. I am trying to make that jump with my wife so that she will give in to her black cock desires. I wish someone would reach out to my wife and “spark up” a conversation about wife fucking BBC. Based on the porn we have seen I know she’s at least thought about it. Just wish we’d take the next step. I want her to experience it.

 

[hercuckold]

I appreciate your comment, but that is simply not a true statement based on fact. You are just giving us your opinion.
Thank you for it, but please be careful with how you phrase things. We do not want to discourage people from participating.
I have been coaching men, women and couples sexually for about 20 years now. I honestly cant believe how time flies. But I got started early in the game. Its been a weird transition into the older man role now. Which I love, because I like the kink aspect of Daddy Dom. Its in my nature to be caring and fatherly anyway.

But I have spoken to more women than most of the cuckolds on here have combined. Truthfully, women are 10x more open minded than men are in general. The biggest difference between men and women I see is women are much more aware of what is happening around them. Women are less prone to making a complete fool of themselves. Its also not culturally acceptable for women to make fools of themself. We excuse men who are stupid, by saying "boys will be boys" but in reality men make 100x more mistakes than women do. Women don't get second chances, men do. So women are more cautious, but make no mistake, caution does not equal close-minded.

I have spoken to more women who tell me about their bfs or husbands who are practically priests in bed. And I mean, not interested in any body parts on their gf or wife. The women have to beg the men for sex. BEG!!! And when they ask, can we have an open relationship or marriage, they FREAK THE FUCK OUT! WOW!! That's women being closed-minded?

Try removing the societal restrictions on women and see what happens. Men created the system, control the system and then punish women for wanting to change the system. Read your history before trying to make an opinion into fact. All opinions are welcome, but please clearly state, this is just my opinion before making a statement.

If you do - WE WILL HONOR YOU and your opinion.

Ok I need help. Please help. I want this for my wife. I don’t care about my fantasy I want her to fulfill hers.

 

[hungteacher]

Ok I need help. Please help. I want this for my wife. I don’t care about my fantasy I want her to fulfill hers.

Thats a good place to start.
The question is what does your wife know.
I just helped a cuckold "open" up to his wife. It was scary for him, but once he did, he was surprised that she listened to him.
The problem with starting a cuckold relationship for most men is you have no practice being open, honest and communication.
You could explain a spreadsheet better than you can explain how you feel. That's a huge problem.

 

[petco]

Thats a good place to start.
The question is what does your wife know.
I just helped a cuckold "open" up to his wife. It was scary for him, but once he did, he was surprised that she listened to him.
The problem with starting a cuckold relationship for most men is you have no practice being open, honest and communication.
You could explain a spreadsheet better than you can explain how you feel. That's a huge problem.

true . it is not easy . i do nt want to hurt her . or hurt her feelings .

 

[hungteacher]

So much discretion and trust is needed for these types discussions to work. Also a lack of ego , especially from the guys.

I'm always been reluctant when approached, but my wife is more open and drags me into their conversations.

whats the issue you face?

Yes there is a lot of ego involved. But all human beings are dealing with their ego. Its a universal struggle we all face.
The men that can handle themselves and understand they are "not" special, but may have gifts that others do not, are the ones that are more successful.

So cuckolds that understand they have a greater capacity to love a woman, provide for her and protect her -- need to meet a woman and get married and do those things

For bulls, the men that understand they are not gods gift, quite the opposite. We serve a purpose and that is to sexually satisfy women. That is it. There is nothing special about that. You are a sex toy at best. Bulls need to understand that Hotwives have husbands and families and lives and fucking us gives them energy and confidence to go tackle the world. I love to see one of my Hotwives kick ass in the corporate world. But they get to share one side of themselves with their hubby and another side with us.

 

[Patnyc2k]

@hungteacher - is filled with a lot of wisdom. You should listen to him

 

[hungteacher]

@hungteacher - is filled with a lot of wisdom. You should listen to him

Thank you

 

[hungteacher]

I can agree with these points in an idea situation.


Half the problem is self esteem issues I always struggle with. It's for me too open my feelings with others. The other half is dealing with people toxic people. Either toxic hotwife's that treat their husbands badly because they believe they can get away with it. Or passive aggressive bottom cuckold husbands that treat their wife's badly to make themselves feel better.

I dont know how to help you man. It sounds like you are just overwhelmed and might want to rethink your role in the LS. I meet toxic people everyday. They are out there and they are trying to destroy people's good nature. The only way to deal with toxic people is to make them "look in the mirror" Toxic people HATE me, with a passion. Thats actually how I know im talking to a toxic person. Honest people like me. Hotwives respect me. Cuckolds admire me.
Good people get along with me, because I treat people with dignity and respect. If you are running into toxic people who HATE your guts, that might be because they can't steam roll you or take advantage of you. TOXIC people hate people with intelligence. They wish we would be dumb and believe them. BUT that's never going to happen.
Keep your chin up and just move past it.

 

[Patnyc2k]

I would love to join the network @Neilson