Cuckold Frustrations

[Jiggajank]

I'm truly amazed at the outpouring I've received since posting this. So many meesages from secret, frustrated cuckolds - many of them young, impressional white men who struggle to come to terms with their budding cuckold sexuality.

Another young man says this:

"...everyday it seems like white girls are more and more coming to terms with black cock and either cuckolding white boys behind their back or seducing them into it. It’s more than overwhelming, it’s like every white boy will inevitably get “the question,” from his girlfriend, who can’t resist her desire and curiosity for BBC.

...my heart pounds when I think about confessing my secret desires to a woman. Would she still love me? Would she hate me? Would she even consider indulging that part of me? Will the cuckold in my soul ever stop howling?"

I think so many of us can identify with this. The early stages of cuckolding - cuck fear - are where most cucks go to spend the rest of their lives.

I advise you, young man, to keep feeding your desires. Don't starve your lusts, but do learn to control them - and don't let them scare you.

 

[Jiggajank]

 

[FairfieldCpl]

In complete candor, I am a well hung guy that can always please my girlfriend. We are not really in a cuckold situation but are however hedonists and occasionally enjoy a sexual foray with other partners. That being said, our frustration is the fact that her BBC lover doesn't fuck her enough! For career reasons, he does not live in our area and we have to wait until he visits for her to enjoy some really naughty IR sex...!

 

[Voyeur]

Isn't sexual frustration, humiliation, jealousy, and envy of the black man's larger cock the thing that cuckolds crave? That's because the process of dealing with these emotions forces them to come to terms with them and recognize that at a deeper level, they richly deserve to be frustrated, humiliated, jealous, and envious. And that down deep, they feel guilty for generations of racism. They can then transform their sexual deprivation into a higher form of sexual pleasure in knowing they're pleasing their wife or girlfriend, who subconsciously always desired to be fucked by a black man anyway.

The true bond of love and intimacy will be the white man's giving his woman to a black man so that she can receive the sexual pleasure she deserves. He, in turn, will receive what he deserves: the knowledge that for him, the highest form of sexual pleasure he merits is to happily watch his beloved have passionate sex with a black man, and selflessly support her sexual need to have black lovers

 

[Jiggajank]

Isn't sexual frustration, humiliation, jealousy, and envy of the black man's larger cock the thing that cuckolds crave? That's because the process of dealing with these emotions forces them to come to terms with them and recognizes that at a deeper level, they richly deserve to be frustrated, humiliated, jealous, and envious. And that down deep, they feel guilty of generations of racism. They can then transform their sexual deprivation into a higher form of sexual pleasure in knowing they're pleasing their wife or girlfriend, who subconsciously always desired to be fucked by a black man anyway.

The true bond of love and intimacy will be the white man's giving his woman to a black man so that she can receive the sexual pleasure she deserves.

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I agree, Cuckolding can be far more complicated than given credit for. It's more than just wanting another guy to fuck your wife. It's about wanting a strong black bull to take control of your sex lives, if even only for an evening, and push you to explore parts of yourself that you suppress. It's a cornucopia of tensions, Insecurities... And deeply felt lusts.

 

[sheetmusic]

I can't say that I've ever felt any of the cuckold angst you're talking about. You have to be happy with who you are AND be with the right woman. Once you have those two things, the last step is total surrender.

 

[Jiggajank]

 

[Jiggajank]

I can't say that I've ever felt any of the cuckold angst you're talking about. You have to be happy with who you are AND be with the right woman. Once you have those two things, the last step is total surrender.

It's different for everyone. Some people spend a lot of time in the Fear and Reluctance stages of cuck development. Others skip through quick to the Acceptance stage.

 

[lovesexfun]

for me its an excitement.

 

[lovesexfun]

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ohh this is so hot

 

[VenusQueen]

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[Jacktone]

Many years ago whilst in my teens it aroused me when I saw Black guys taking the white girls.
And so it has been ever since.

 

[JenNWayne]

My latest interview about interracial cuckolding https://goddessworshipping.blogspot.com/2020/04/exclusive-interview-with-venus.html

Beautifully written

 

[M&GMWCVA]

My take from an older man in years but suffering from 20 years (give or take, lol) arrested development. This was a response to a potential Bull that recommended taking her out on dates if I was ok with it to get to the next level.

She has come a long way....she is a high paid executive for a company you would know, and from a fairly conservative/religious family. Her marrying me was probably a revolt against that (oh and I got her pregnant our senior year of University too-lol). We were swinging into the first year of our first baby ( 'xxxxxxxxxxxxx)then life happened and we got away from it and never got back.

She says that this is MY fantasy, not hers, but she gets seriously turned on from the fantasy talk and has not complained about the interracial only porn, that I like (and explain to her) because of the contrast of skin on skin. She knows I want to see her fucked by a good looking well built black man like yourself.

I have been doing all the right things that have been put out in literature from varied sources( Amazon Kindle has a large Cuckold library, medium, blogger, here, others, more..) As to exposure I was an Army Brat and all my best friends my whole life were black (xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx) and my ******* is an exceptional athlete that got a full ride to college as a xxxxxxxxx. Our house was the safe place and we were the cool parents throughout our lives (recall we xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx recruited by Harvard and me an athlete and weight lifter all our lives.)in our house it is the norm to see pictures of 20 people with 4 white faces, my boys and X and I, lol from that time.

Do I want to share my wife sexually? Without question, Does it worry me that she may have to start a more emotional relationship than sexual in order for me to realize that fantasy regularly? Yes it does, but like you I see no other way.

 

[Goddesskat]

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[Goddesskat]

I can't say that I've ever felt any of the cuckold angst you're talking about. You have to be happy with who you are AND be with the right woman. Once you have those two things, the last step is total surrender.

agreed, it tool me a long time to be comfortable with this but i found the right partner and that all changed how i feel and see things and now i have no concern as we are both on the same page.

 

[Circumhead]

I've spent a lot of time lately (living that quarantine life) engaged in thoughtful discussions on topics of interracial sex and cuckoldry, and I've started to notice a large uptick in young white males struggling with budding cuckold urges and strong fixations on interracial sex involving hot white women and hung black men. One young white college student in Middle America explained his turmoil to me this way:

"...i'm afraid of my feelings about Big Black Cock. I can't get the thoughts out of my head about a hung black guy with intimidating balls and attitude entering my life and having sex my girlfriend or future wife.... I'm so fucked up."

Another 20-something white male with a professional career and hidden desires nobody knows about said this after a few hours of anguished discussion:

"Im totally addicted to interracial porn and cant stop.... I have alot of Cuckold thoughts... dont want to avoid this, I dont want to feel shame, I want to embrace it, I want to submit."

It's clear that cuckold frustration is very real, and increasingly more common as more young white males are exposed to the truth about black cock and interracial relationships. One even filled told me about a recurring dream of his:

"I... had another dream, comparing my small weak little balls and my modest white penis against a black bull’s Big Cock and heavy nuts. He just held his cock in [name withheld]'s hands and ran her tongue over the tip, looking me in the eye, as his enormous balls throbbed. Powerful feelings took over as I watched her and felt my little penis and balls to compare, bringing me deeper into my sick fantasy."

To them, I can only encourage that they continue to explore their feelings and not be afraid; not be afraid to envision the hot white girls in their lives having sex with black men; not be afraid to let their eyes linger teasingly on an image of black cock; not be afraid to consume large amounts of interracial porn and allow it to alter their sexual DNA.

Do you have cuckold frustrations? Share them here. You're among friends. Just don't run from the truth.

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My wife and I are struggling with the quarantine, we're trying to observe the rules. my told me she liked variety when we married 10 yrs ago. she went extreme back to black in the last 4 years. now the supply is cut off, she's horny. Is there something we can do with black men. She's told me she'll go nymph, black only as soon as it's lifted

 

[CuriousSwinging]

In my early 30s and only get off to interracial porn. It’s been like that since I was 17 when I first saw a huge bbc fuck a white woman on a porn site online. Even when having sex with my wife, I only cum when I think about her being filled by a bbc harder, deeper, and fully than I ever could. I know before we dated she had been with a black guy, biggest dick she ever had. So big she said she wasn’t sure how it was going to work. (That’s about the only info I got from her, we were talking about past relationships and I asked what’s the biggest she ever seen - I missed a golden opportunity right there to tell her how hot I think that is). She was blacked back in college by a D1 athlete. I think about her face and the pleasure she felt when his tip began spreading her soft white pussy to when she took him inside her fully. The moaning and orgasms she must have had.I want her to have that again. I want to see her experience that, to be a part of it. I try to tell her how I feel, but when I try the words don’t come out. I’m extremely frustrated because I want to tell her, but also embarrassed by this fantasy and worried how it would feel to really happen. Working up the nerve to tell her, the way I see it that’s the only way out of this frustration.