I'm just wondering if there are any cuckold couples here who also live a FLR type lifestyle outside of the bedroom.
Cuckold couples and FLR (Female-Led-Relationship)
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Do you actually live this lifestyle yourself or is it a fantasy of yours?
Daniel4444
Male
Yes, me and my wife lives in FLR
Holo2
Couple
Yes we do
Which came first for you, cuckolding or living by FLR principles?
We are a cuckold couple (10 years) and have tried FLR off and on. I need the bedroom kink of FLR in order to obey her outside of the bedroom. She's been hot and cold about the bedroom kink so it's been pretty inconsistent for us.
Which came first for you, the FLR or the cuckolding?
Right, I'm aware of that but there are couples that do employ both because they are complimentary of each other. I'm simply speaking to these couples, the ones that enjoy both lifestyles in tandem.
Holo2
Couple
The FLR.
For those of you who are interested, I'm doing a live broadcast tonight on the subject of FLR and my guest will be a gentleman who has written several books on the subject. You can find the link on how to listen on my profile.
CumGold
Male
I've been in 1 on and off for over 14 years. I love a wife led marriage so much and all the kink that goes with it. She does not and gets exhausted at the punishments, having to make decisions and not having an aggressive man around. We've evolved to where I just treat her like a queen all the time naturally and will defer to her if she pushes but nothing is said about FLR. It really sucks for me in the bedroom because I crave it but a woman does not want a weak, stupid, wimp of a man as a husband. She is extremely happy with this arrangement and can still find other more alpha type men and be comfortable at home also.
Daniel4444
Male
We start both at the same time. I still have sex with my wife and no humilation. Its just that she is the boss, she decide everything. And about the sex, Im not aloud to masturbate ever again. When she is not around, she lock me in. When she is home, Im free. Its a perfect life, we never disagree because she always gets what she wants. And I trust her decision because she made good decision. I mean she have chosen me ha ha ha ha
We intend to live a FLR ..but do not live together yet .. she was divorced. I widowed .
I would say ours is a FLR. She dictates any/ all sexual activity of course, which in all honesty, is very minimal, but she also earns more than I, so handles ALL the finances, including taking my salary and giving me a weekly allowance to live from. I do nearly all the house chores, I do school drop off and pick up, grocery shopping, most cooking, cleaning as well. So, its not your leather clad, kinky, stereotypical image of a FLR... but I would say i'd be lucky to make 10% of the decisions in our household, whether that be choosing a holiday destination, through picking a new sofa.
She is a very 'alpha' female and loves controlling most situations, this is just an extension of her dominant personality and my submissive one.
She is a very 'alpha' female and loves controlling most situations, this is just an extension of her dominant personality and my submissive one.
We have a FLR since our engagement
i agree and i suspect that when the man is a willing cuckold it is because the woman is dominant , even if the man does not realize he has submitted. I chat on a site for flr and some of the topics are about pegging, cleaning and cucking. Some women see cucking as a demonstration of submission just as they want their husband to suck cock to show it
We are an FLR couple. FLR is 1st and most important. Yes we are also a cuckold couple. Which she see her regular often. We also host parties, in which most of the time I am cooking, cleaning, and serving so my Empress can socialise and play.
Our FLR is the actually lifestyle and is what bonds us. We have been married 25 years and FLR almost 14 of those.
We did start the Cuckold lifestyle almost 16 years ago. And she has been BBC only the last 10
Our FLR is the actually lifestyle and is what bonds us. We have been married 25 years and FLR almost 14 of those.
We did start the Cuckold lifestyle almost 16 years ago. And she has been BBC only the last 10
The concept of flr is interesting because many men are dominated and led by women and then there are women who make the man accept being submissive. Why some women use their control to make the man accept being a cuck is hard to understand and then there are women who not only make the husband accept becoming a cuck but also the whole cock and balls of her lovers. For instance i can understand having a cum filled pussy licked but why have cum licked of the nipples or feet
