About a million times in my life I've secretly wished I was born a girl. If I had been -- I think I was supposed to be -- we'd be making plans already. I'm also a Chicago professional (3000 N & the lake), 42 and fit, but alas, I'm guessing I'm the wrong gender. Still, I hope you find exactly what you're looking for because whites on their knees serving and servicing black men is truly the natural order of things. (No need to reply to me and I won't bother you again.)