What made you do it for the first time
As a couple, we haven't had the long-planned, long-discussed, long-agreed to adventure. Just yet. Life crisis came up many times, stress, drama, major ******* nearly the whole time.
Over our time, she has very very rarely let slip hints (jokes, partial-stories, little mini-confessions) her love of being a traveling popular party girl blonde PAWG in cool cities and countries. Many of them very strong Afro/black communities especially, including what opened her up to be uninhibited and straight up wild.
She's very secretive especially asked questions about bbc, or was for years.
She's been slut shamed badly, inc. publicly humiliated by insecure spoiled-ass white boys to her face.
Fun fact: interracial sex is a universal desire, white women are especially open to it (but men too) but the group who gets harassed badly for it the most, by far?
White women.
So its been a slow, careful build of love, hot sex, porn, trust, communication, establishing there's no judgement.
Many layers of why we both desire to adventure together, especially giving her the gift of her superconfident blonde PAWG uninhibited freaky pleasure fiend popular girl self back at least for a weekend.