Can't stop fantasizing about my GF with BBC

[CuriousBF]

halp

 

[frankfortbull]

Just tell her I sure can help her

 

[Manddclarksvil]

You should tell her. Its unhealthy to keep it in and I'm sure she will be glad you did

 

[Tweeder]

You should definitely tell her

 

[Drywall1982]

For whatever reason I get super turned on thinking of my girlfriend getting "blacked" and Ive had these fantasizes for awhile and they won't go away. My girlfriend has no idea about these fantasizes. I'm curious to talk to others to see what I should do. I'm torn between just telling her about them and seeing how she reacts or to just continue to keep them a secret. If anyone can help me out I'd appreciate any advice I can get.

When I was married I got my ex wife into it ,yes it took time and started by talking about it during sex (its a good time to speak about it and makes it easier but also more receptive to the woman) , then watching a little porn together and bbc dildo..

 

[hotcalicpl]

same here!

 

[helloshorty]

Ur girl sexy

 

[whitepvnda]

Tell her.. you got nothing to lose. I agree with above comments it's unhealthy to keep a fantasy to yourself. You must have good communication in a relationship

 

[kingofmoab]

For whatever reason I get super turned on thinking of my girlfriend getting "blacked" and Ive had these fantasizes for awhile and they won't go away. My girlfriend has no idea about these fantasizes. I'm curious to talk to others to see what I should do. I'm torn between just telling her about them and seeing how she reacts or to just continue to keep them a secret. If anyone can help me out I'd appreciate any advice I can get.

Let me know how it goes

 

[hungteacher]

For whatever reason I get super turned on thinking of my girlfriend getting "blacked" and Ive had these fantasizes for awhile and they won't go away. My girlfriend has no idea about these fantasizes. I'm curious to talk to others to see what I should do. I'm torn between just telling her about them and seeing how she reacts or to just continue to keep them a secret. If anyone can help me out I'd appreciate any advice I can get.

Welcome. I know everyone is giving you advice to tell her, but I think you should hold off on that.
Yes, being honest is the most important thing, but what most people won't tell you is that unless you are a high level communicator, whatever you "think" you are saying to your gf, is NOT what you are actually saying.
Being a good communicator takes a lot of time and practice and even then the best communicators in the world get it wrong sometimes.
I dont think you want to break up with her, thats why she is your gf, so I would try and express why you want her to have sex with a BBC first, on this site, and then maybe once you figure out why, you can start to explain it to her.
She will have a million questions and when you cant answer them, she is going to think you were joking.

 

[whitepvnda]

Drop hints . Get a black dildo . Try and ask her watch porn with you and put on ir porn

 

[airhorn]

Welcome. I know everyone is giving you advice to tell her, but I think you should hold off on that.
Yes, being honest is the most important thing, but what most people won't tell you is that unless you are a high level communicator, whatever you "think" you are saying to your gf, is NOT what you are actually saying.
Being a good communicator takes a lot of time and practice and even then the best communicators in the world get it wrong sometimes.
I dont think you want to break up with her, thats why she is your gf, so I would try and express why you want her to have sex with a BBC first, on this site, and then maybe once you figure out why, you can start to explain it to her.
She will have a million questions and when you cant answer them, she is going to think you were joking.

Excellent advice here. My profession involves technical writing, which can be relatively precise, and even we have to be aware not only of what we know the words mean but of how they will be read. Your subject is much more emotionally load and you can expect that what you say will not be what is heard... even if you both agree what the words were.

 

[boysex44]

For whatever reason I get super turned on thinking of my girlfriend getting "blacked" and Ive had these fantasizes for awhile and they won't go away. My girlfriend has no idea about these fantasizes. I'm curious to talk to others to see what I should do. I'm torn between just telling her about them and seeing how she reacts or to just continue to keep them a secret. If anyone can help me out I'd appreciate any advice I can get.

you can do like me, i also fantasize about it and i really want and would like to see my girlfriend also fucked by bbc, so i ended up talking to her about it! she didn't like it at first and lately I think she's been getting a bit interested in this idea!