Can my gf become a hotwife over time

Cucklicius

Cucklicius

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Hi all :) so i have been with my gf for 10 years now and i have developed the fantasy of sharing her with a BBC a while ago. Recently, i have been slowly introducing my fantasy to her and at first she was very receptive to it. In fact, for a while, we watched a lot of ir porn together, bought 2 black dildo wich she loved and even almost met a black guy with who we had been sharing pics with. Unfortunatly we never got trought cuz we got both scared. However, now my gf is rejecting the Idea. Indeed, we are now in a eventful Time of our lives (planning wedding, House and children) and she have now second toughts with the Idea of being shared. In addition, this covid situation isnt helping and therefore she have a lot on her mind. I was wondering if you think that she could change her mind over time when we are settle in and less stressed.

Cucks have you ever experienced that with your wife or gf ?

Wifes have you ever felt the same way and got back to reconsidering the Idea of being shared with BBC ?

Bulls have you ever fucked a wife that have been following the same progression ?
 
Honestly, if my wife and I had tried cuckolding when we were younger we would probably be divorced. Women don't get married because the man is a good lover. The get married to a man they believe will be a provider and protector. There is a point in the relationship when you know with out a doubt she loves you and is committed to you and the marriage. Also when you have reached a point in your maturity level that her happiness and love is what makes you get up in the morning. Then maybe you can bring up the cuck topic again.
 
Cuthach said:
Honestly, if my wife and I had tried cuckolding when we were younger we would probably be divorced. Women don't get married because the man is a good lover. The get married to a man they believe will be a provider and protector. There is a point in the relationship when you know with out a doubt she loves you and is committed to you and the marriage. Also when you have reached a point in your maturity level that her happiness and love is what makes you get up in the morning. Then maybe you can bring up the cuck topic again.
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That's a matter of probability. Sometimes it comes down to a couple meeting with a bull who can be patient with their anxiety. Most people assume that cuckoldry is all about the husband letting the wife have her sexual pleasure with whomever. But it's about the erotic bonding that matters.

Any bull can fuck a married wife. But few can get to keep seducing the wife/couple's mind to make them want to give in to their erotic desires.
 
Ya can bring a horse to water, but you can't make it *******.
You can bring a bitch to BBC, but you can't make her............
If she don't wanna, she dont wanna.
But that doesn't mean you have to stop fantasizing about it.
 
tdv said:
Ya can bring a horse to water, but you can't make it *******.
You can bring a bitch to BBC, but you can't make her............
If she don't wanna, she dont wanna.
But that doesn't mean you have to stop fantasizing about it.
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Fantasizing gets you nowhere; rather, it gets husbands caught.

I've met with many husbands who carried on with their fantasies, only to get undone with they neglect keeping their fantasy in check. Their secret(s) got found out, and they ended up being embrasssed when their wives realise their sexual urges playing out in real life.

What I recommend isn't for husbands to tell their wives about this lifestyle, but rather suggest. If she says no, then it's fine. As long as they make an attempt.
 
10 years is a very long relationship. I hope you both are and will be happy together. It might be relevant emotionally though to ask why it's taken a long time to tie the knot? Anyway, the two of you shared an interesting fantasy together. It might be she was willing to comply as long as it was just to keep you happy and she didnt mind, but the idea of going all the way through it doesn't appeal to her.

You can continue to enjoy the fantasy, and reestablish the fantasy sharing and role play as before. Ultimately it's her decision though. Does she have any trust issues that might have been damaged by knowing all about your fantasies? I hope she isn't holding that against you. You have to respect her boundaries, but she also has to respect that you have naughty fantasies you've shared with her (and she's cooperated with).

Ideally for you maybe in time she'll get back on board this fantasy. You'll have to be content with it maybe not happening, and also that in future she might not be as tolerant of your fantasy as she used to be. She may want the sense of security she gets from knowing you're not going to try and share her. So maybe you two should at least have a little talk--if you think you'll ALWAYS have these fantasies, then make sure she's at least okay with her husband always having a soft spot for the idea of sharing her with other men, even if she gets the veto on that ever becoming a reality.

Who knows, maybe in the end she decides she wants it too?
 
You're never going to be completely fulfilled until you live this BBC fantasy. I'd rethink this marriage. There are a TON of women who LOVE this lifestyle. Why compromise?
 
CoolDuo said:
You're never going to be completely fulfilled until you live this BBC fantasy. I'd rethink this marriage. There are a TON of women who LOVE this lifestyle. Why compromise?
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A lot of varying advice here but CoolDuo offer the best advice and tell it like it is. I would say think really hard. If you've been together 10 years then marriage could ruin your relationship with or without the cuckolding issue. I would very seriously have the talk with her that you should both try everything before you get wed and have children. Because yeah these shouldn't really change anyting, but they do. They really do.
I have been exactly where you are some 15 years or so back. It went wrong and her sudden change of sexual interest put a huge divide between us. And no matter how hard i tried to convince her that a Bull was a good idea, she would not go there.
Truth be told, most women find it far easier to cheat than enter the cuckolding lifestyle. Im not suggesting this would happen in your case, but BBC bedroom talk and actually going ahead with it are two very different things. I wish you well i really do, but from what youve said here i really feel for you and have my doubts re your future happiness.
By all means message me to talk more privately.
 
Cuthach said:
Honestly, if my wife and I had tried cuckolding when we were younger we would probably be divorced. Women don't get married because the man is a good lover. The get married to a man they believe will be a provider and protector. There is a point in the relationship when you know with out a doubt she loves you and is committed to you and the marriage. Also when you have reached a point in your maturity level that her happiness and love is what makes you get up in the morning. Then maybe you can bring up the cuck topic again.
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that is right!
 
PawgCelia223 said:
10 years is a very long relationship. I hope you both are and will be happy together. It might be relevant emotionally though to ask why it's taken a long time to tie the knot? Anyway, the two of you shared an interesting fantasy together. It might be she was willing to comply as long as it was just to keep you happy and she didnt mind, but the idea of going all the way through it doesn't appeal to her.

You can continue to enjoy the fantasy, and reestablish the fantasy sharing and role play as before. Ultimately it's her decision though. Does she have any trust issues that might have been damaged by knowing all about your fantasies? I hope she isn't holding that against you. You have to respect her boundaries, but she also has to respect that you have naughty fantasies you've shared with her (and she's cooperated with).

Ideally for you maybe in time she'll get back on board this fantasy. You'll have to be content with it maybe not happening, and also that in future she might not be as tolerant of your fantasy as she used to be. She may want the sense of security she gets from knowing you're not going to try and share her. So maybe you two should at least have a little talk--if you think you'll ALWAYS have these fantasies, then make sure she's at least okay with her husband always having a soft spot for the idea of sharing her with other men, even if she gets the veto on that ever becoming a reality.

Who knows, maybe in the end she decides she wants it too?
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damn that is hot love to get to see snd hear more from you sexy people and also love to join!
 
Cucklicius said:
Hi all :) so i have been with my gf for 10 years now and i have developed the fantasy of sharing her with a BBC a while ago. Recently, i have been slowly introducing my fantasy to her and at first she was very receptive to it. In fact, for a while, we watched a lot of ir porn together, bought 2 black dildo wich she loved and even almost met a black guy with who we had been sharing pics with. Unfortunatly we never got trought cuz we got both scared. However, now my gf is rejecting the Idea. Indeed, we are now in a eventful Time of our lives (planning wedding, House and children) and she have now second toughts with the Idea of being shared. In addition, this covid situation isnt helping and therefore she have a lot on her mind. I was wondering if you think that she could change her mind over time when we are settle in and less stressed.

Cucks have you ever experienced that with your wife or gf ?

Wifes have you ever felt the same way and got back to reconsidering the Idea of being shared with BBC ?

Bulls have you ever fucked a wife that have been following the same progression ?
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Hi there

This sounds like my ex wife. She did have BBC when she was 19 yo. We were not really serious then. I found out years after we were married.

We discussed the topic and moved on. It came back up again when she was 37 we had had our last baby the year before.

I asked her if she was open to being shared which at first it was a flat out no. We discussed more and her security in life was holding her back. She liked big cock and always wanted more. Also she was worried how I would react if she asked if I would share her with other guys.

now the fact she had thought about it was hot and worrying. Now I’m on the back foot I say let’s do it and she’s more than up for it.
We joined swinger sites chatted with guys emailed and swapped pics of her which we got a lot interest .

she was stunning for her age 5’2” amazing pert tits and was petite. So she was always going to get a lot of interest.

now I was worried as some of the guys were really good looking and really well hung. She had a favourite a guy from stretford near where we live .

we arranged a meet but I backed out. The guy was cool about it Christine not so. She was not happy she had built herself up and was let down.

we discussed and she assured me that for her it was just sex so we arranged to meet again. This time I knew she was determined she was getting fucked. Bought some amazing lingerie sent Scott loads of pics of her in it.

the day came and we met Scott , he was a great guy . He knew it was unsure . When Christine went to powder her nose he said I know you are unsure but I am sure you know she’s getting fucked today. I knew In my heart he was right.

we had got a room at the pub we were at ,Christine came back with a spring in her step and said to us are we going up I looked at her and her heart sank. I said you go up with Scott I will wait here. She kissed me and just turned and left. I agreed with Scott I would do this.

they eventually came down nearly 4 hours later . She was glowing about nervous of my reaction. I was cool we discussed on the way home . She said he was a good size nearly 8” but girth was massive.



she asked if I wanted to see pics and clips of them . I didn’t at first this guy has had serious shafted my wife in every hole which was gutting a lot I’d never fucked her arse. I asked her was it good , I obviously knew if they were up there for hours. I asked her if the anal hurt which she said yes . But he just kept fucking her arse and she confessed the orgasm from the anal were amazing

So your dilemma is if she want to play think long and hard because backing out has consequences.
 
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