Why does this BBC cuck life turn me on so much?
Guys, I’m a 32 year old white guy from the states, been living all over the world last 8 years or so. I’ve had a very active sex life from my teens and always had a girlfriend (current gf of 3 years, now my fiancé). Almost all perfectly loyal to me. Only ever had 1 real heartbreak and even in my younger years I always a bit of a player and had a side girl. The point here, I’ve always had stability and consistency both emotionally and sexually, and strong self-confidence. Then one day about 6 years ago I woke up to this fetish completely own my own, and started pushing my then-gf (now ex) to want to do this. Since then my interest and desire for this has only grown exponentially, to the point it’s the only thing that can turn me on, like many of you on here (I mean why and how else did we find a forum on the internet for such a specific fetish ).
I won’t touch on my story too much, but I’ve fully woken up the deeply wild nature of my fiancé (she’s Asian). She was really conservative and religious before me (those usually are the closeted psycho-sexual ones anyway right! ) and I was her first. So she’s naturally very committed to me. But I saw it in her and I knew exactly how to flip that switch and make her see her true inner nature. Now we’re both very open with each other sexually and it’s a very good situation, probably the best I’ve ever been in within a relationship. She’s 8 years younger than me and had no experience, so that let me guide her, and it’s been fulfilling. Our bond is strong, so is our trust. She didn’t have sex with any black guys yet but she’s been out with 3 just to meet up in public. She’s 100% into it but wanting to find the “right one”. Mind you this all has been driven by me, and it was I who consciously planted the idea in her head through porn, long talks, and lots of very verbal sex.
But I can’t help but ask myself...WHY am I so turned on by this? Why am I so okay turning her loose on all the black men she wants? It doesn’t make me feel insecure, it makes me feel MORE secure in my relationship. I love the idea of letting her have what she wants. Seeing her be a hyper slut turns me on like nothing else. Despite having so much positivity in my relationship and life, WHY does this turn me on so much and feel like it could be a completely normal way of life for my fiancé and I (and that I feel okay wanting that)?
Any thoughts?
Side note guys.... can’t say enough how much I appreciate this site and the open expression of so many likeminded people. You are all awesome people, It’s good to know this phenomenon is more common than it is be perceived to be! Keep living your best (sex) life!
Guys, I’m a 32 year old white guy from the states, been living all over the world last 8 years or so. I’ve had a very active sex life from my teens and always had a girlfriend (current gf of 3 years, now my fiancé). Almost all perfectly loyal to me. Only ever had 1 real heartbreak and even in my younger years I always a bit of a player and had a side girl. The point here, I’ve always had stability and consistency both emotionally and sexually, and strong self-confidence. Then one day about 6 years ago I woke up to this fetish completely own my own, and started pushing my then-gf (now ex) to want to do this. Since then my interest and desire for this has only grown exponentially, to the point it’s the only thing that can turn me on, like many of you on here (I mean why and how else did we find a forum on the internet for such a specific fetish ).
I won’t touch on my story too much, but I’ve fully woken up the deeply wild nature of my fiancé (she’s Asian). She was really conservative and religious before me (those usually are the closeted psycho-sexual ones anyway right! ) and I was her first. So she’s naturally very committed to me. But I saw it in her and I knew exactly how to flip that switch and make her see her true inner nature. Now we’re both very open with each other sexually and it’s a very good situation, probably the best I’ve ever been in within a relationship. She’s 8 years younger than me and had no experience, so that let me guide her, and it’s been fulfilling. Our bond is strong, so is our trust. She didn’t have sex with any black guys yet but she’s been out with 3 just to meet up in public. She’s 100% into it but wanting to find the “right one”. Mind you this all has been driven by me, and it was I who consciously planted the idea in her head through porn, long talks, and lots of very verbal sex.
But I can’t help but ask myself...WHY am I so turned on by this? Why am I so okay turning her loose on all the black men she wants? It doesn’t make me feel insecure, it makes me feel MORE secure in my relationship. I love the idea of letting her have what she wants. Seeing her be a hyper slut turns me on like nothing else. Despite having so much positivity in my relationship and life, WHY does this turn me on so much and feel like it could be a completely normal way of life for my fiancé and I (and that I feel okay wanting that)?
Any thoughts?
Side note guys.... can’t say enough how much I appreciate this site and the open expression of so many likeminded people. You are all awesome people, It’s good to know this phenomenon is more common than it is be perceived to be! Keep living your best (sex) life!