Purposely getting pregnant would only be with my husband, which can't happen. We have discussed the fact that even though I am on the pill since shortly after my first time with my bf its not 100% effetive. Nothing is. There is always that slight risk. So, on the off chance it should ever happen we would certainly welcome the baby, and being adults we would take the responsibility for our actions and be upfront with family, friends, etc. In fact, its our lives and we don't owe anyone any explanation.