part of the aspect of the hotwife / cuck lifestyle is watching your wife with another male that is hung or just larger than the husband. there’s a common misconception that the husband is usually small, but in my case i am not. i’m actually well endowed, but i just enjoy watching my significant other with a man that’s well hung as well or larger. how many husbands here are the same ?
are the husbands hung or not ?
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Dsbakersfield
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I am actually very well endowed and super thick it is rare when a guy my wife meets is bigger then me, for us it is about so much more then the size she says black men just fuck better all around. I think it is more intense when a black man is making my wife cum more and harder with a smaller dick if I was tiny I could say well ofcourse look at his size but because of what I have I have to admit they just do it better and are more sexually appealing to my wife then I am.
I'm small. We prefer Hong bulls
subbyhubby69
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I am not small. Average length and decent girth. I am bigger than all three of my wife's boyfriends, which is kind of funny. She still prefers her boyfriends cocks to mine because they have more stamina and better technique. I last 5 minutes on a good day. Oh well, I guess that's why I am a Cuckold.
We tend to forget the mental side of sex which plays as much of a role to the number of orgasms and intensity of orgasms as dick size. There is something more stimulating about new - the intensity of something familiar will always wear off like the few car smell and your fresh Jordan’s you wear everyday.
It has always been that new sex and variation sex with different people was always been the most stimulating sex but you could only get this in the single life. This created a chaotic lifestyle filled with unpredictability, instability, disappointment and this can never be maintained - that’s why people “settle down” because most people actually yearn for security and predictability more than mind blowing sex. One we need, the other one is nice. but then familiarity ruins the passion of sex.
So what this lifestyle does is allow you to have the security, stability, and love but you can also have the intensity of passionate sex - physical and mental for women and mental for men
If you can handle all the emotional baggage that will come with this because you are going off script with what you yearn for - you can get both.
No FUCKING way I or my girlfriend can deal with all these negative emotions, feelings of betrayal, and adding another person into what we are trying to build (including our sexual intimacy) - so I opt out of this lifestyle and would rather try to create a passionate monogamous relationship - which we have been successful with with a lot of sexual knowledge and understand of ourselves and our bodies.
But I get how others can find this lifestyle SEXY AS FUCK. And if you can handle it, more credit to you.
If me and my girl don’t last, “I’ll be a BBC bull therapist and be willing to help you develop a strong relationship”.
I’ll even make a business card
Relationship therapist for interracial couples
Hahahahaha
Dsbakersfield
Male
I love it. I do agree this is actually not for most people. We tend to forget that we are on a forum that supports it and so it feels much more normal and mainstream. The truth is it is not a healthy choice for most and I love how you know it is hot and sexy but not something you can handle. This all started as fantasies of mine and was not about inter-racial sex, if you ahd told me then what i would okay with now I would have laughed at you. The BBC came only a few years ago and she did get hooked
So true to this. This is so important to understand.
Great post.....DSbakersfield - this has been really fascinating to learn. Learning about this lifestyle really satisfied my brain.
Im not shocked your wife is hooked....the orgasms created by this lifestyle gives out almost the same amount of dopamine as an addictive white substance.....
Donna, you always mentioned this.
Knowing how to use it is SOOOOOO UNDERRATED
Dsbakersfield
Male
Yes my wives best lovers didn't have the biggest cocks.
I think men need an education on sexual technique and sensuality. This education is coming off of porn and it sucks. I think a lot of men look at fiction story that is porn and say - “I don’t measure up to that”. All men should have the “elders” talk to them about sex and how to be good at it when they go to colleges.
For 1,000 of years, to be good at sex, you just needed to get a hard on....not anymore.
Let’s have one less conversation about Trump ruining or saving our country, who is the GOAT in basketball, and whose titties and ass add better and do our sons and daughters a favor and give them some education.
For 1,000 of years, to be good at sex, you just needed to get a hard on....not anymore.
Let’s have one less conversation about Trump ruining or saving our country, who is the GOAT in basketball, and whose titties and ass add better and do our sons and daughters a favor and give them some education.
I feel her....
You're a lucky guy, its something i've never achieved, having a woman/ wife 'love my cock' My wife tells me about her ex, and although they had a lot of issues, not once in 10 years she didn't, as she says 'melt around his cock'. He wasn't huge (7"+), but he was a big, strong, assertive guy... and basically, just fucked her very hard for as long as he chose too. She's had much bigger than him, but the combination of alpha personality, cock size and ability just always did it for her.
My husband? Bah hah hah hah hah. That’s funny. I used to think he was average size until I unzipped the fly of my very first bbc and unleashed that huge black meat.
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