The 1st time I saw my wife with my friends hand inside her panties was bliss. A year later I watched her being stripped naked and played with by him. Then, a month or two later I watched them strip each other a fuck bareback for almost a full evening before I got my dick inside. A year later she got her first ever black. Now, many years later, he still comes around and now he fucks both of us.for a husband to see his wife take another mans cock in her mouth an suck it is wild but to be the husband that gets his white wife to fuck a black man is over the top
No, not at all. I couldn’t care any less.
While I totally respect him, the relationship and, the marriage, I tend to view her as totally detached and her own person with her own desires and level of comfort that more than likely, differ from his, if only slightly.
I’m solely into her, the rest of the universe may has well not even exist.
Great way to look at it. Her husband is probably okay with her desires so, in the end, everyone wins.No, not at all. I couldn’t care any less.
While I totally respect him, the relationship and, the marriage, I tend to view her as totally detached and her own person with her own desires and level of comfort that more than likely, differ from his, if only slightly.
I’m solely into her, the rest of the universe may has well not even exist.
Very well said and written. This is precisely the proper approach. What you describe is the perfect relationship amongst a couple and the wife's lover. Also, the nature of the relationship gives the wife more freedom to try things with her lover that she may never try with her husband.Wives for the following reasons...
1. more to lose so tend to take fewer risk
2. less likely to become emotionally attached
3. tend to be sterilized/fixed and less likely to become pregnant
4. with more to lose and likely to take fewer risk means less likely to contract and spread STDs
5. less of a time commitment; ie no dating or taking them out, just conversation and business
6. because of the above, less expensive
7. because, the majority of their sex life is with
a single partner, they look forward to, prepare for, and really appreciate a new male to experience
Dating single women is opposite of all of the above.
And again, from my experience, the desires of the wife usually differ, if only slightly, from those of her husband. I’m comfortable with husbands watching and/or joining, but wives tend to feel more comfortable, free, uninhibited, etc... when he leaves the room or isn’t around. She might think of him and his agony/pleasure or differences for brief moments. But if I’m doing my part right, she’s only thinking of me and her in that moment and I think I’m a better lover for being able to tune out every distraction and focus solely on pleasuring her.
Yes, the husbands usually are ok with the wife’s desires.Great way to look at it. Her husband is probably okay with her desires so, in the end, everyone wins.
I'm of the opinion that, if the husband is present, he should be passive and let his wife and her lover go wherever they decide between them, which could be a different place each time. Hubby can pleasure himself, if he would like. But this way, everyone wins.Yes, the husbands usually are ok with the wife’s desires.
I was referring to the wife may not be comfortable with all of his or wanting to act on them at a particular moment.
For example, some guys tell me to fuck their wife rough or hard, when at the moment she really wants it soft and passionate.
Some guys express that I should strip their wives naked and bend them over, or just grab them by the hair and shove my cock in their mouth. The wife may want to go at her own pace.
However, I’ve also had some very fun experiences where the husband directs all the action and the wife totally gets off on being his personal porn star.
Just takes being receptive to what her body is telling me.
I completely agree. Unless it’s a 3some, then not present at all is probably better for her and in turn better for the experience.I'm of the opinion that, if the husband is present, he should be passive and let his wife and her lover go wherever they decide between them, which could be a different place each time. Hubby can pleasure himself, if he would like. But this way, everyone wins.
But, even better, I think, is the scenario where the husband isn't present but waits elsewhere while his wife and her lover are together. This could be for a few hours, all night, a weekend or, perhaps, she goes off with her lover on vacation, as a couple (a fantasy that many wives share). All these are possible and equally exciting. This way, it's the wife and lover who decide the nature of the action. For hubby, perhaps his wife's lover can send him photos of his wife so that he can pleasure himself looking at his wife as seen through the eyes of her lover.
Of course, not all these scenarios work for every three way relationship but, certainly, some version of one can spice up any marriage. And who knows how things will evolve over time.
I also favor the idea of the wife taking a lover who is long term and occasional. This is much safer, healthwise, and also creates the trust needed to experiment with everyone's fantasies. Again, everyone should win.
Wives for the following reasons...
1. more to lose so tend to take fewer risk
2. less likely to become emotionally attached
3. tend to be sterilized/fixed and less likely to become pregnant
4. with more to lose and likely to take fewer risk means less likely to contract and spread STDs
5. less of a time commitment; ie no dating or taking them out, just conversation and business
6. because of the above, less expensive
7. because, the majority of their sex life is with
a single partner, they look forward to, prepare for, and really appreciate a new male to experience
Dating single women is opposite of all of the above.
And again, from my experience, the desires of the wife usually differ, if only slightly, from those of her husband. I’m comfortable with husbands watching and/or joining, but wives tend to feel more comfortable, free, uninhibited, etc... when he leaves the room or isn’t around. She might think of him and his agony/pleasure or differences for brief moments. But if I’m doing my part right, she’s only thinking of me and her in that moment and I think I’m a better lover for being able to tune out every distraction and focus solely on pleasuring her.