Any Advice to Convince Wife?

[whitepvnda]

True. But on the other hand, it's annoying to her that *I* have a fantasy that I persistently ask her to fulfill with *her* body, despite her repeatedly telling me that she doesn't want to.

We talked a whole bunch about it in couples' counseling, tbh.

Reading this though. If she's not into it she's not . Where my wife I know her inside out and I know she wanted to indulge in this deep down . If she's showing no signs you can't ******* it on her . It will ruin your relationship. Sometimes a fantasy is best kept a fantasy anyway . I mean the role play me and my wife do is enough if she said she didn't want to do it in real life I'd respect that decision. I know we will probably go through with it one day because we both want to but it's easy said then done ! . You have to be careful what you wish for . When you open Pandora box no going back. If I told my wife I don't want to do it anymore she wouldn't be happy. She gets so wet when we talk about it . She says to me you got me into it and I say I know ! But respect your wife's decision. If the IR porn don't work then that's it you have to accept she's not into it .the reason I kept going to convince her because she was giving me signs and body language when getting into. When we watched the IR porn her pussy was stringing with pre cum (a wet pussy never lies) when she watched it she said I like this am I bad and I said yes you are and it turned us both on that night so bad . Obviously as above comments say some women just won't be into it though I was lucky I guess

 

[hubbyfun4wife]

The key is to get her fucking somebody instead of you. The black cock will come.

this is true for our experience. My initial fantasy was to see my wife with a bbc. I couldn't come out and tell her because I didn't think she would be interested so I opted to reveal my fantasy of watching her with a big cock. We are high school sweethearts and her experience prior to marriage was very limited. After some super love making, I dropped the bombshell and of course she was shocked. First reaction was asking if I wanted that so I could fuck other women. I assured her it was all about her. She realized that by me talking about it, I got hard sooner than normal so we went another round and then she had all kinds of questions. The usual, but I stayed the course and made sure that she understood it was all about her and her pleasure that would turn me on and take our love-making to a new level. We had been married for several years so we definitely could use a boost at the time. It took a whole year to find someone that she approved of and once she experienced it, our relationship went to another level as predicted. She is very conservative by nature so it was a major step forward. after about 4 or 5 dates with different guys, I asked if she was interested in trying black cock. She was not interested. So 5 years after her 1st LS date, she was with a guy who came during oral foreplay and he was a 1 and done. She left very frustrated and that's when I told her that a black guy would not leave her hanging and she said she was ready to try it. It would take another few months to convince her completely. Alot of dirty pillow talk and her noticing me getting fully aroused when we talked about it. She finally agreed. When her first black guy asked her if she had a good time, she said hell yes!! are you available next weekend? lol She's been black cock ever since although we haven't played since the pandemic. So yes, Bigjohn60 is spot on. Get her into the lifestyle and then get her curious about trying black cock. Good luck

 

[franklyn17]

I recently opened up to my wife of 10 years about my interracial fantasy with her and black men. She’s told me in the past that she’s never been interested at all in black men which is why I kept it in so long. As you can imagine she was caught off guard. I told her all I really wanted was to have bbc dirty talk with her and possibly one day get a bbc dildo for her to tease me with and play with. About a month went by for her to think about it and she decided she still wanted nothing to do with it. It just makes her feel uncomfortable she says. I was very disappointed and I told her this as I thought she would at least do that because it was what made me happy. It seemed like a fair compromise to me. Should I just accept this fact and move on with life while I keep this fantasy to myself? Any advice is appreciated? Thank you

Yes don’t ******* her I had the same fantasy, and my wife wanted nothing to do with it. I kept trying different ways to get her interested like a big black dildo , and putting on interracial porn, nothing worked. She finally had a bit of a breakdown, and asked me why she wasn’t enough for me anymore, and said if I love her I won’t ******* her to do something she doesn’t want or need. I told her if she didn’t want it I’d drop the subject, I did and to be honest our sex life is better now than ever. I have a friend who talked his wife into it, and she said it was nothing great so it was a one and done but put a strain on their marriage. They are now separated and she is shacking up with another man who is white, and a former friend of his.

 

[rock]

In my case I didn’t want her to fuck anyone but a black man. If he wasn’t going to be black I wasn’t interested. From the first time I brought it up I always told her that you put any white woman in the right situation she will spread her legs for a black cock. It took several years but when she finally did it she spent the next 7 years black only and she figures she has fucked over 200 black men.

 

[Justforher]

I recently opened up to my wife of 10 years about my interracial fantasy with her and black men. She’s told me in the past that she’s never been interested at all in black men which is why I kept it in so long. As you can imagine she was caught off guard. I told her all I really wanted was to have bbc dirty talk with her and possibly one day get a bbc dildo for her to tease me with and play with. About a month went by for her to think about it and she decided she still wanted nothing to do with it. It just makes her feel uncomfortable she says. I was very disappointed and I told her this as I thought she would at least do that because it was what made me happy. It seemed like a fair compromise to me. Should I just accept this fact and move on with life while I keep this fantasy to myself? Any advice is appreciated? Thank you

I just saw a book on this page that was about learning how to get your wife's and girlfriends to do so

 

[Justforher]

Yes don’t ******* her I had the same fantasy, and my wife wanted nothing to do with it. I kept trying different ways to get her interested like a big black dildo , and putting on interracial porn, nothing worked. She finally had a bit of a breakdown, and asked me why she wasn’t enough for me anymore, and said if I love her I won’t ******* her to do something she doesn’t want or need. I told her if she didn’t want it I’d drop the subject, I did and to be honest our sex life is better now than ever. I have a friend who talked his wife into it, and she said it was nothing great so it was a one and done but put a strain on their marriage. They are now separated and she is shacking up with another man who is white, and a former friend of his.

It also took me long time with my ex wife and then the perfect situation came up and she had no other choice but to say yes to me and as soon as it started to happen she was completely taken over by his HUGE BBC and she absolutely loved every second of it right from the very beginning. And my current girlfriend it took me over two plus years of trying and then she said yes to me and even more than my ex wife she absolutely went crazy with him and wants more than I do sometimes.

 

[franklyn17]

It also took me long time with my ex wife and then the perfect situation came up and she had no other choice but to say yes to me and as soon as it started to happen she was completely taken over by his HUGE BBC and she absolutely loved every second of it right from the very beginning. And my current girlfriend it took me over two plus years of trying and then she said yes to me and even more than my ex wife she absolutely went crazy with him and wants more than I do sometimes.

Good for you but it’s a dead issue here, and I guess I should be happy. My wife said she loves our sex life and has no want or need for BBC. The one couple we know who did try it(they are swingers) did it once. The wife said it was ok but no better than the white men she’s been with.

 

[LalaAtl]

Send her picture of black cocks 0

 

[1hotwife999]

I recently opened up to my wife of 10 years about my interracial fantasy with her and black men. She’s told me in the past that she’s never been interested at all in black men which is why I kept it in so long. As you can imagine she was caught off guard. I told her all I really wanted was to have bbc dirty talk with her and possibly one day get a bbc dildo for her to tease me with and play with. About a month went by for her to think about it and she decided she still wanted nothing to do with it. It just makes her feel uncomfortable she says. I was very disappointed and I told her this as I thought she would at least do that because it was what made me happy. It seemed like a fair compromise to me. Should I just accept this fact and move on with life while I keep this fantasy to myself? Any advice is appreciated? Thank you

Just keep talking to her about it and how much it excites you. Don't be pushy, but more like being excited about a gift you hope to get one day.

 

[BillWhite]

My wife always says no but when presented she takes advantage.

 

[Justforher]

My wife always says no but when presented she takes advantage.

Explain more to me

 

[whitepvnda]

Good for you but it’s a dead issue here, and I guess I should be happy. My wife said she loves our sex life and has no want or need for BBC. The one couple we know who did try it(they are swingers) did it once. The wife said it was ok but no better than the white men she’s been with.

Could definitely imagine my wife saying that saying its no different. We enjoy the role play though. It makes our sex life even better . Don't care if we make a reality of we don't in the future doesn't bother me . The role play gets the adrenaline going

 

[franklyn17]

Could definitely imagine my wife saying that saying its no different. We enjoy the role play though. It makes our sex life even better . Don't care if we make a reality of we don't in the future doesn't bother me . The role play gets the adrenaline going

I agree with you there it has made our lovemaking hotter. Have a Happy Thanksgiving

 

[Justforher]

I just said to a friend of mine that she hangs out with me and we party together and she likes asking me a bunch of questions about this lifestyle. And I told her sometimes the hunt and pursuit online Is just as much fun.

 

[Justforher]

Could definitely imagine my wife saying that saying its no different. We enjoy the role play though. It makes our sex life even better . Don't care if we make a reality of we don't in the future doesn't bother me . The role play gets the adrenaline going

What is similar my current girlfriend finally said yes to me so I could set her up with her very first BBC for me and she was disappointed about a few things afterwards. She loved how thick his BBC was but he really didn't have any length at all and she really expected to see him be really long also. As soon as we leaving his place she immediately said to me that for her next time she wanted two BBC's together waiting for her so she could really feel and get the experience she wanted to feel.

 

[whitepvnda]

I agree with you there it has made our lovemaking hotter. Have a Happy Thanksgiving

You too

 

[Black-Johnson]

Yes, show that fucking bitch a real Black dick & see if her cunt is wet !

 

[europa9922]

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[curious28]

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[profhotwife]

Yup, I'm there too. I desperately want my wife to cuck me (with a BBC, of course) and have tried every possible way to convince her, and have (over time) come to understand that she's just simply never gonna do it. But as you said, it's up to her. It's her choice. That doesn't mean I'm not allowed to mourn the loss of that dream, from my end. I am, and I do. But not every dream comes true, and what I *do* get out of my wife and soulmate far outweighs the absence of this one particular thing that I *don't* get.

This has to be about safety. I'm not just talking about getting pregnant or an STI. But emotional and marriage safety too. I didn't make it a secret to my husband that I had a "thing" for black guys. He's known that for years, and we used to joke that if I ever had a realistic chance to be with Idris Elba that I had a free card to do it. But I never thought in a million years that I would really take a black lover because I didn't really think my husband would be okay with it.

But some years ago we did start to use it as part of our lovemaking and foreplay. And, yes, we did start to watch some porn together. And I was really starting to get interested in maybe trying it, and he said that as long as I was being smart and safe, and as I long as I wasn't sneaking around and keeping things from him, he could be open to it as well.

Long story short, I ended up being with a young black man for over a year, and it was mind-blowing. But I really had to feel like it was safe for me to do that with my husband.