I'm seeing this girl WHO was a nurse in Uganda, and ended up being pregnant with one of the locals, Actually she had a white boyfriend when she was in Uganda who she broke up with, when I asked her about it she told me that she just couldn't resist the local men, and one night she was dancing at this bar, and met the ******* of her *******.. Long story short im her boyfriend now, but when we go some where it's obvious that i'm not the ******* of her baby, and I feel kind of owned when people look at us, and especially me.. I also feel that she misses the ******* of her baby, he was kind of a bully, but he still have some physical power over her.. Well my questions.. is it normal to fell owned in that situation ? And how should I react if the ******* of her baby shows up ?..