31 yr old pretty brunette white wife

I loved all the engagement here but I am also surprised by so many people assuming they can make a call what will happen or what Shelly or I should do.

People incorrectly assumes all women are similar, they will give into the situation, they all will do the same thing. NO it’s not true. They need to adjust to situations differently. I told Shelly today, she has all the time in the world to do what she thinks is right.

If it’s tonight, I am happy. It it happens after 6 months and she prefers that, I am happier.
Lots of people living their own fantasies vicariously through you I’m afraid. Look forward to tomorrow’s instalments of the Shelley and David Show 👍
 
I am 34 and my wife Shelly is 31 yr, social, brunette wife with beautiful tits and nice rounded ass. Someone who catches a lot of attention. We have been living in Atlanta and recently moved to Savannah and moved into a condo. We plan to spend summers here while moving back to Atlanta during fall. The condo is beautiful, with beautiful views but is also old (1970s). It is in a condo complex with amenities such as swimming pool, jaccuzzi, fitness room, etc.

We are on second floor (there are only two floors) and in our 3rd week around 11pm we heard a loud noise of woman while having sex. The walls are thin so we can clearly make out an intense sex going on downstairs. It lasted for about 20 min with continuous sound of a woman asking for more "yes, yes..omg omg". I met the downstairs guy a week before, he was mixed, divorced and moved here about 1.5 yrs ago. He lives alone and clearly has some friends with benefit. Shelly wasn't too impressed as it bothered our ******* but we had little options.

I am ok size (7inch) but I do not think I took Shelly to that levels...I can clearly see the guy giving intense pleasure to his girl. I think he must be 6'4, very athletic build and drives a big motorcycle. I clearly thought Shelly didn't appreciate the noise, in fact she told me that this is not a way to live in a decent social neighborhood. However, it did occur to my mind if she as at all jealous of that woman

Fast forward 2 weeks, I was coming from a client visit and I saw Shelly chatting with the downstairs neighbor close to the fitness center. I parked my car at a distance and saw them chatting for good 45 min. I do not know why but a got a big boner seeing them together. Here is my little wife chatting with a big guy who only recent made a woman cum really hard and Shelly being witness to it. The most important thing, she never told me about that chat.

I have no doubt that she isn't cheating on me or anything like that..but I am trying to read her mind..what's going on there and if she ever thought of being in that bed instead of that other woman? Will it ever happen?
If she spoke with him for almost 45 minutes and she didn't tell you be sure she want him. If you make the step and speak with her and you are open and let her be with that man is ok if not it will be difficult for you because she can cheating you.

A woman speaking with a man 45 minutes who fucked a person 2 weeks ago and your wife listening all the scene if fucking will surely go to him. More she didn't tell you about this.
If you want to go in this Lifestyle is so easy now. Just to want.
 
The one thing I am pretty sure of is Shelley got a really good fucking last night. If she didn’t stay with Marcus when she got home you can bet David was as horny as hell after his day and would more than make up for it. Either David was lying upstairs listening to the goings on downstairs or maybe vice versa. 👍
 
Here is an update;

He is a smart ass and playing to win her than just getting her to bed. They stayed at the wine bar until 1:30 am. He knew that she was very tired, ready to crash and also has some hesitation so he told her that he will want to come to his place when she no doubt in her mind. Of course she loved it. However, he asked her if she can join him for Labor Day BBQ today with some of his family friends to which she readily agreed.

I think he has got her pulse now and when she called me this morning she was all his praise.

I told her that I am continue to give her space and, if needed, stay in a motel tonight. She told me 3 times how much she love me.

more to come ..
 
Here is an update;

He is a smart ass and playing to win her than just getting her to bed. They stayed at the wine bar until 1:30 am. He knew that she was very tired, ready to crash and also has some hesitation so he told her that he will want to come to his place when she no doubt in her mind. Of course she loved it. However, he asked her if she can join him for Labor Day BBQ today with some of his family friends to which she readily agreed.

I think he has got her pulse now and when she called me this morning she was all his praise.

I told her that I am continue to give her space and, if needed, stay in a motel tonight. She told me 3 times how much she love me.

more to come ..
Are you worried at all that he seems to have intentions beyond just getting her in bed? The way he is pursuing her, there is a very strong possibility he wants her for himself as a girlfriend as well. And so far she has not resisted any of his attempts to do so short of getting in bed with him. Choosing to be his day date with family is an interesting choice.

I get the intense turn on it must be. But there should also be a little bit of concern as well. Playing with fire is hot, but it is still fire.
 
Are you worried at all that he seems to have intentions beyond just getting her in bed? The way he is pursuing her, there is a very strong possibility he wants her for himself as a girlfriend as well. And so far she has not resisted any of his attempts to do so short of getting in bed with him. Choosing to be his day date with family is an interesting choice.

I get the intense turn on it must be. But there should also be a little bit of concern as well. Playing with fire is hot, but it is still fire.
It’s unlikely as I know we have a strong bond but everything is possible
 
It’s unlikely as I know we have a strong bond but everything is possible
Just remember that he is a man. Not necessarily a bull. This entire situation may be foreign to him and all he knows is how to win a girl. Not how to be the third, or the guy on the side etc.

I would love to know what her thoughts are as to what she expects from today. Not tonight after the barbecue, meeting the sex. But from today as being his date.
 
Just remember that he is a man. Not necessarily a bull. This entire situation may be foreign to him and all he knows is how to win a girl. Not how to be the third, or the guy on the side etc.

I would love to know what her thoughts are as to what she expects from today. Not tonight after the barbecue, meeting the sex. But from today as being his date.
With Shelly it will never be just a fuck. She looks for emotional connection before getting anyone close to her

I will chat with her in a bit
 
Here is an update;

He is a smart ass and playing to win her than just getting her to bed. They stayed at the wine bar until 1:30 am. He knew that she was very tired, ready to crash and also has some hesitation so he told her that he will want to come to his place when she no doubt in her mind. Of course she loved it. However, he asked her if she can join him for Labor Day BBQ today with some of his family friends to which she readily agreed.

I think he has got her pulse now and when she called me this morning she was all his praise.

I told her that I am continue to give her space and, if needed, stay in a motel tonight. She told me 3 times how much she love me.

more to come ..
So did he take her last night?
 
It appears to me, and by the looks others as well, that he is not just seeking to have sex with your wife. Instead he is looking to take your wife from you. To make your wife, his wife. Introducing her to his family is a big step. Take the next few steps with care.
I'm not sure about him making her his wife, just taking her from David and having her for his own, along with others. I'm thinking he's a player, and David is throwing her to him.
 
My thoughts are a little different and maybe naïve but.
I think he likes Shelly, likes her company and wants her to be 100% ready.
I think he might want a long term FWB that trusts him. He doesn’t want her to have any regrets. As he knows he can take her to new places sexually
Agree and nothing like having booty on call just nextdoor whenever you want it. But again don’t overthink it. Think about how many boy/girlfriends it takes to find a life partner and then consider the chances it will become other than a FWB relationship. But be prepared for the novelty factor to mean she will spend a lot of time with him to start with once they are fucking if he is as good as you anticipate. It will cool down after a while to a more normal level like most relationships.
 
Too much space bro, you staying at a hotel is bad. Its telling her your not ok with it. You need to be at home after it happens to reassure her your still there. The family date is bad for you. Hes playing for keeps. your gonna lose your girl.
Like I said before, a choice is coming. We may all enjoy the cuck story, butI think you are about to lose your woman. Danger Will Robinson, Danger.
 
Read all the above messages and a few thoughts coming to my mind

1) I like how people here genuinely care and providing all the suggestions. Thank you

2) Having said above, they all are making decisions based on limited info shared above. No one knows Shelly better than her hubby, that is me..lol..This isn’t a last 2-4 weeks thing but Shelly and I chatted about it for months now. We had many pillow talks. We also try to know a couple of guys in the past but their desperation came across immediately. One of them even offered her money to slee p with her …LOL. One of them offered to take her to Vegas on their first meeting

3) Shelly is not a one night stand girl. She needs emotional connection and I agree that comes with a risk. I was able to slee p with her only 3 months of dating, we didn’t kiss for a month. This is more than the porn movies where a guy brings a bull in hotel for 2 hrs.

I had a long chat with her and we both have decided where and how we want to take this. He is in her mind right now and I want to keep it that way.
 
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