27 old newly wed couple and husband knows i have a bull. How do i tell him im seeing several more guys and that me and my bull and i say i love you??

[naughtycouple3]

So me and my bull have been seeing each other for about 6 months now. My husband knew when we met all my guy friends were black in college and I was kind of a slut. I was faithful to him for several years while were dating until he told me it was ok if I had 1 last hook up at my Bachelorette party weekend trip. Just so happened the first night out I met a big gorgeous black man who took me back to my hotel room early. I skipped all the fun activities my moh had planned and spent it in bed instead. My fiance found out and after a serious talk decided I could see my new bull casually on the side as long as it just physical. When my husband and I got married he got promoted, I got laid off and instead of going back to work I decided to take over caring for the house. Since my bull works the night shift it basically turned into him coming over all day. When he couldn't I would end up hooking up with guys online. Me and my bull recently starting saying I love you, I also started letting him creampie me. I love my husband and want to stay married; but I love my bull and would like to have his and any other black man's baby who's bigger then 10 inches. How do I explain to my husband? How do I keep my life??

 

[fidmustang]

That’s tricky honesty is the best policy on that one dose your hubby know he is cumming in you

 

[vej54]

So me and my bull have been seeing each other for about 6 months now. My husband knew when we met all my guy friends were black in college and I was kind of a slut. I was faithful to him for several years while were dating until he told me it was ok if I had 1 last hook up at my Bachelorette party weekend trip. Just so happened the first night out I met a big gorgeous black man who took me back to my hotel room early. I skipped all the fun activities my moh had planned and spent it in bed instead. My fiance found out and after a serious talk decided I could see my new bull casually on the side as long as it just physical. When my husband and I got married he got promoted, I got laid off and instead of going back to work I decided to take over caring for the house. Since my bull works the night shift it basically turned into him coming over all day. When he couldn't I would end up hooking up with guys online. Me and my bull recently starting saying I love you, I also started letting him creampie me. I love my husband and want to stay married; but I love my bull and would like to have his and any other black man's baby who's bigger then 10 inches. How do I explain to my husband? How do I keep my life??

Honesty...cannot hide this....true test of your love by being truthfull to both men...

 

[naughtycouple3]

Thank you for the advice. I just overthink. I'm still processing the fact I don't want my husband to every really cum in me again. How would other husband's feel after hearing their wives tell them they only want mixed babys??

 

[fidmustang]

I mean he knows your still with your bill and that your bull is cumming in you so I would just tell him that you want a baby with your bull

 

[naughtycouple3]

When does this lifestyle start feeling normal?? I feel half crazy that I just texted my bull telling him I want to actually start trying for a baby

 

[fidmustang]

When does this lifestyle start feeling normal?? I feel half crazy that I just texted my bull telling him I want to actually start trying for a baby

You will always feel torn I believe loving two men like you do

 

[fidmustang]

When are you going to talk to hubby about this

 

[naughtycouple3]

Sunday I think. I start ovulating Sunday and on Monday I want to start trying to get pregnant I think...idk it's a big step!

 

[fidmustang]

Go for it you could always play it off as a accident since he is cumming in you and hubby knows it

 

[fidmustang]

What did your bull say when you told him you want a baby

 

[naughtycouple3]

We're texting right now. He loves the idea bur wants me to become more devoted to him if we do

 

[fidmustang]

Maybe get him to move in with you and your hubby sounds like he basically is already

 

[Joe T]

What does your bull think about you hooking up with other bulls online?

 

[naughtycouple3]

He's ok with it since I can be a little clingy. He doesn't mind if I leave him alone for a few days while I'm having fun with another guy. He just wants my undevided attention when I'm with him

 

[naughtycouple3]

Maybe get him to move in with you and your hubby sounds like he basically is already

That's the dilemma, my hubby has no idea he basically has. He thinks we're still casual

 

[Joe T]

He's ok with it since I can be a little clingy. He doesn't mind if I leave him alone for a few days while I'm having fun with another guy. He just wants my undevided attention when I'm with him

So he’s not shared you with his friends yet?

 

[fidmustang]

That's the dilemma, my hubby has no idea he basically has. He thinks we're still casual

Tell hubby you want it to be more than casual !! And that he is moving and and going to get you pregnant just lay it down.

 

[naughtycouple3]

Oh he has several times. They just weren't allowed to cum inside me

 

[naughtycouple3]

Just rip the band aid off and tell him what's happening?? I feel he's going to be very upset but I'm sure he would be either way finding out I'm pregnant