Someone asked me in a DM why I was looking for a black bull for my girlfriend (and maybe me)
I went on a rant and I just felt I spent too much effort to not post it:
I mean it’s kind of the point of this site.
There’s probably all sorts of advanced psychological reasons for why someone has this fetish, like subconscious racism for example. It could also be that they simply find it hot without any particular reasons. People are attracted to all sorts of different things.
For me (the boyfriend), I remember liking femdom porn, putting things in my butt and being a bit bisexual since always and porn that focus on the stereotypes of black men combine all of that and was appealing to me.
Whatever it is I don’t really care and I distinguish between reality and fetishes. I don’t think any race is inferior to another to a degree that is worth caring about, but in fantasy it turns me on so that’s how it is.
How does this make you feel? You being on this site and asking “why black” makes me think this makes you upset. Pain and also psychological pain is something that a lot of people find sexually arousing so you’ve already explained one part of why it could be that someone has this fetish.
I went on a rant and I just felt I spent too much effort to not post it:
I mean it’s kind of the point of this site.
There’s probably all sorts of advanced psychological reasons for why someone has this fetish, like subconscious racism for example. It could also be that they simply find it hot without any particular reasons. People are attracted to all sorts of different things.
For me (the boyfriend), I remember liking femdom porn, putting things in my butt and being a bit bisexual since always and porn that focus on the stereotypes of black men combine all of that and was appealing to me.
Whatever it is I don’t really care and I distinguish between reality and fetishes. I don’t think any race is inferior to another to a degree that is worth caring about, but in fantasy it turns me on so that’s how it is.
How does this make you feel? You being on this site and asking “why black” makes me think this makes you upset. Pain and also psychological pain is something that a lot of people find sexually arousing so you’ve already explained one part of why it could be that someone has this fetish.