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you don't know what I'm discussing with my therapist and what he tells me to do and what not to do. I'm treating this site as a mean to get advice and information, I'm not using it to jack off. Do you see me posting on sexual threads? No. I'm literally just trying to discuss dating and you're on...

Porn is its own subgenre of sexual addiction and is different from what people commonly think about when they think of "sex addict". It doesn't pose the same issues. Social isolation, porn-induced erectile dysfunction, low mood and motivation from a fried dopamine reward system, etc. Porn...

Thank you. Kinky women who might not necessarily being into it but at least openminded enough to not judge me for my fantasies I exactly what I'm looking for. I might try my hand at bumble and hint at being on the kinkier side of things. :giggle:

I never said I was into sissy/bi/chastity/pussyfree/dom/sub stuff :censored: In fact, I'm into none of that. But I have no issue dating in a more "normal" setting, I just want to know I'm dating on the kinky realm. Most "true" cucks/stags I noticed develop their fetishes deep into their...

In my other thread, I explained that I've been trying my hand at kinky dating through FetLife or at least getting acquainted with people openly kinky through fetlife. I just fear investing into someone truly vanilla. I don't wanna lead people on what I want from a relationships or get myself stuck.

I never said I was a sex addict. I'm a recovering porn addict. The issue I have is with associating arousal with porn and the isolation created from typical porn addiction. My issues are fairly different from a sex addict. I have no mate to begin with. I've been member of my local SA group and...

Hey. This a weird ass thread to make and I'm not expecting too much since most this site seems to be single white dudes laying out their fantasies with one hand while furiously yanking their dicks with the other but here we go. I'm mostly tryna squeeze out some info and advice from married men...

No I don't think there's anything inherently harmful in wanting this dynamic either. I think that it ultimately is good to provide that level of freedom to my potential partner as it helps balance out the rigid family/social obligations of everyday life by providing that option to seek...

Hey there :) I feel like this is definitely the wrong place but I assume there are plenty of couples and black men in the lifestyle here so figured some of you might read me in between trying to get laid or bussin a nut to somebody's pictures lol I'm a recovering porn addict and obviously a...