Wiser words were never spoken. I've written about my experience with this, and we talked about many of the things you suggest, but never about the "Ooops" factor. She was on the pill, and though I know it's not 100% effective I never got her preg so how could anyone else? When she told me she...
I agree with you. I was the one that suggested, and got her interested in sleeping with black me and then when she got pregnant was shocked, angry and afraid, but felt that since it was my idea to begin with I had to make the best out the situation.
Yea, I mean, had I known she'd get pregnant, and had we known for sure that it was his baby and not mine then we, or I would've laid the groundwork for the sperm bank fuck up, but because we weren't sure we had to keep to the script that she was pregnant with my baby until, well, she gave birth...
I agree with you on that, but to a point. When it begins to tear apart the family unit then sometimes it's best to separate and divorce and keep things as amicable as possible. The last thing needed is a biracial baby, who themselves will have questions, being raised in an environment where...
The most obvious was the reaction from our respective families. Next were our friends and coworkers. Last are the looks, and sometimes the things folks will say in public, but not what you'd think. No one says anything negative, but the assumption is that my wife's baby is adopted by us so...
The law doesn't care what the circumstances are about how the kid came into the world, just that it's here and needs support. Unless we signed something ahead of time (we didn't) that'd be the only way he might not have to pay. I think he knows that, so he hopes that by giving us a little of...
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