I try to live as, "To-Each-Their-Own", but arrogance, bullying, violence, real desires to humiliate and demean ( not just during a sex session) in real life, gets to me. Why can't people just have fun with this and not get all full of thoughts of "Revenge"? Nice to know you are mellowing. I need some of that.
I put a comment on your first thread to help. Mac