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how do you avoid the std's? that is one of my fears (oral)
That's a good question and I'm curious as well. I imagine testing before any sexual activity would clear things up but how many men want to test themselves for some random bj.
Most of the guys on are married and only want a blowjob because most aren't getting anything at home
No, that's not true at all. What? Most of the guys on Grindr are not married and only looking for blowjobs. Men on there are for sure are looking for blowjobs but no, most of them are not married men. Some indeed may be married and looking for something extra on the side but most are single/dating. Open relationships are somewhat common in the gay community so maybe that's what you meant?
 
That's a good question and I'm curious as well. I imagine testing before any sexual activity would clear things up but how many men want to test themselves for some random bj.

No, that's not true at all. What? Most of the guys on Grindr are not married and only looking for blowjobs. Men on there are for sure are looking for blowjobs but no, most of them are not married men. Some indeed may be married and looking for something extra on the side but most are single/dating. Open relationships are somewhat common in the gay community so maybe that's what you meant?
Married or not..there is a risk..how do you mitigate that? Because , let's be honest..many times it's not somebody we know
 
how do you avoid the std's? that is one of my fears (oral)
So I’m blessed to be genetically highly resistant to viruses. It’s the only reason I’m still alive tbh I was part of the original study that eventually led to prep. I only had crabs and cryptosporidium, although I have developed ulcerative colitis and esophogitis and I’m sure both my genetic resistance and my adventures have contributed to those, they’re manageable.

I have always gotten tested regularly and I look for the kings who have proof that they’re clean since I’m not interested in safe play I want raw nasty verbal breeding and the kings who are gonna give me that aren’t street hustlers or prohibited chemical addicts, they’re either straight married and creeping, bi or gay tops who don’t suck and aren’t interested in dick at all, or actual professional ******* and porn stars. Those are my preference since they are almost always clean with proof and they know exactly what white bitches need and just as importantly, know how to be discreet and when to leave.

I think the main reason I’ve managed to avoid anything else was that I’m empathic and can sense deception, crazy, dangerous, violent and other suspect energies and would always look directly into their eyes, tell them I was cool with whatever but wanted to know upfront what I was getting into and ask if they had anything infectious contagious or anything else I should know about and then play it out accordingly. Ive said no in a few cases but I’ve never really had any major issues. I’ve been ripped off a few times but I write those off as cost of doing business and of course I learned from each experience and tightened up my game over time so when I play, it’s set up with all positive intent, well thought out and takes every possible step to ensure the maximum possible enjoyment and minimal potential for a negative outcome.

The karma follows the intent so when you set out to create a special experience and know the potential pitfalls and what makes for the best possible outcome, well there’s really nothing as incredibly satisfying.
 
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Married or not..there is a risk..how do you mitigate that? Because , let's be honest..many times it's not somebody we know
That’s true and I have sucked literally hundreds of bbcs in glory holes back alleys and club bathrooms lol. I do always inspect the goods before I get to work and I believe that’s the key. Yes it may be dark and you may be lit up but really looking at the dick giving it a good once over before putting it in your mouth is how you make sure you will be able to continue enjoying it in the future so do yourself that favor and get a dna test- you might find out that you aren’t as susceptible as you thought.

Doxyprep is the final answer here though. Take it after risky behavior and ward off the bugs!
 
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