I guess maybe some of it has to do with the type of relationship they have with their wife maybe? We’ve been married a long time and we started listening to a Female led relationship book and we both began to realize that she had been leading more than we realized in our relationship. It wasn’t until after I brought up this fantasy and cuckolding to her that we began to explore the FLR more and realized hey, this works for us as we’ve been mostly living it already and are pretty comfortable with it. Allowing her more sexual freedom because I am somewhat submissive to her already and desire her leadership and desire her to cuckold me just seems like a next natural progress. I think maybe some of the others that would desire to find and hook up with another Cuckoldress are maybe coming to the lifestyle for their own benefit and maybe not one of Compersion or from the standpoint of seeing their wife be more sexually fulfilled. Not trying to ruffle any feathers by no means, but maybe there’s a difference in these types of cuckolds. I guess I just don’t see it as being ..what’s the word, surrogate? I don’t know that a surrogate Cuckoldress would work for me. At the end of the day, we all have our own desires and what gets me off probably isn’t necessarily what gets someone else off.