worst idea… do not surprise her… if you want it to be more than a one night stand and her resenting you for it.. when I first met with my wife’s first bull, I was thinking about doing the same thing. He told me that it never works out like that.. you need to be honest with your woman when she is ready you meet at a bar for a ******* and see where it leads, but don’t expect she is gonna jump right in bed with him. You have to take it slow..