My Filipina wife, Maricel, is about 30 years younger than me. We’ve been married for 6 years since, after living together in Davao Philippines for awhile, I brought her to the US on a fiancée visa.
My libido has waned over the years, but Maricel’s has always been in overdrive. I’m happy with sex about every 3 weeks, but Maricel is almost always in the mood. And though Maricel never said so, I could tell that she was sexually frustrated.
About 3 years ago, Maricel took a class at a community college and struck up a friendship with Adam, who’s about her age. Since Maricel loves dancing, and I don’t, she started by asking if I’d mind if Adam took her to a local disco to go dancing, so I gave my blessing. For a couple of months, Adam took Maricel out to dance, etc.
One day, Maricel had tears in her eyes and told me that Adam had kissed her and they had made out. (She was never a secretive type.) She asked me if she should stop seeing Adam. Instead, I told her that as long as she never kept secrets from me, and as long as I was always her first priority as her husband, I had no problem with her having Adam as her “special friend.”
To make a long story short, Maricel’s relationship with Adam has morphed into boyfriend/girlfriend. Adam and I are friends, and he’s very respectful of our marriage, but he’s at our house frequently and makes love with Maricel about 4-5 times a week. He sleeps over most weekends, and even has accompanied us on vacation.
I am never “denied” sex with Maricel, as she is as devoted a wife as ever. As I said, I’m happy with sex about every 3 weeks or so, but Adam has certainly filled the gap. He is definitely Maricel’s primary sex partner, almost like a second husband. This works out well for all involved.
Anyone else have a wife with a boyfriend who is her primary sex partner?
My libido has waned over the years, but Maricel’s has always been in overdrive. I’m happy with sex about every 3 weeks, but Maricel is almost always in the mood. And though Maricel never said so, I could tell that she was sexually frustrated.
About 3 years ago, Maricel took a class at a community college and struck up a friendship with Adam, who’s about her age. Since Maricel loves dancing, and I don’t, she started by asking if I’d mind if Adam took her to a local disco to go dancing, so I gave my blessing. For a couple of months, Adam took Maricel out to dance, etc.
One day, Maricel had tears in her eyes and told me that Adam had kissed her and they had made out. (She was never a secretive type.) She asked me if she should stop seeing Adam. Instead, I told her that as long as she never kept secrets from me, and as long as I was always her first priority as her husband, I had no problem with her having Adam as her “special friend.”
To make a long story short, Maricel’s relationship with Adam has morphed into boyfriend/girlfriend. Adam and I are friends, and he’s very respectful of our marriage, but he’s at our house frequently and makes love with Maricel about 4-5 times a week. He sleeps over most weekends, and even has accompanied us on vacation.
I am never “denied” sex with Maricel, as she is as devoted a wife as ever. As I said, I’m happy with sex about every 3 weeks or so, but Adam has certainly filled the gap. He is definitely Maricel’s primary sex partner, almost like a second husband. This works out well for all involved.
Anyone else have a wife with a boyfriend who is her primary sex partner?
