My wife's preference....
Entering into the vixen/stag lifestyle some ten years ago was anything but easy. My spouse was dead set against bringing anyone into the bedroom other than each other. It took a long time and a lot of negotiating to convince my wife that my interest was solely in elevating her level of sexual pleasure while I watched.
Fast forward to today. My wife has transitioned to actually celebrating the lifestyle and will admit that it is something she would never
believe could happen to her.
My wife will tell you that it is all about the great sex. The guys she has enjoyed in bed are not the marrying kind anyway. Just friends as she puts it. She would tell you that she puts the sex first even though society may frown upon it. My wife turned to black men, at my encouragement. when her sex drive kicked into high gear and her social inhibitions receded. This all took place around the time when our two ******* left the house for college. We became empty nesters.
My wife finds black men, in general, have more energy, style, and edge. They know how to flirt. "A black man is so damn sexy because he can make me feel sexy about myself." "Black men have confidence in their masculinity and their sexuality. Black men make my wife feel attractive, respected, and desired. My wife will let her guard down, let go of her inhibitions, and her need to be in control when she receives compliments from a black man. My wife would ask how many white men can treat a woman like a lady and ravish them behind closed doors?
My wife would tell you that she finds a black man with impeccable manners and charm to be irrestible. She will tell you that it is all about the sexual tension and passion that she experiences when a black man gives her an hour or so of his hard, black cock.