What do you not like about interracial or cuckolding

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I'm not sure why this isn't addressed here but non-sexual aversion and avoidance of a group and/or activity is a major component of sexuality. This is particularly true of men.

That means most of us here probably have a lot of things we don't like or are ashamed of about interracial and/or cuckolding. I'm guessing that applies to most of the people here, whether or not want to admit it or feel free to talk about it.

What is it for you? I'll be honest, for me a major component at the beginning was racism. It still is but not as much. I guess it's mainly misconceptions motivating that but it mainly goes like this: Most white guys I've gotten to know have been beat up by and seriously bullied by black guys at some point growing up. Often as adults too. I've seen black boys display lessened but similar aggression towards white girls. I've also seen black guys as not caring as much about women as white guys and being less interested in how they feel. They seemed more likely to leave a woman with their ******* and even if they stay, it's typically for a shorter period and they have less to contribute financially and seem even less likely to contribute to the baby's rearing and upbringing. When women of any race have mixed *******, they're kind of designated for life by most black men as "belonging" to them as it's unmistakable where the ******* came from. Since it's usually an embarrassment for guys to take care of other guys ******* even of the same color, it's harder for these women to get a serious, loving guy of their own ethnicity after that. It's also clear that, whether or not it's purely because of racism, black men have a tendency to get in trouble more often, adding more unnecessary complication to it all.

So to me it didn't make a lot of sense and personally was really angering and a little depressing when an attractive non black girl I liked went for black guys. When you're daydreaming about doing things with them and taking care of them not long before, it's not very good for the spirit. So it still can feel like a personal insult, and can even cause a little stomach sickness when I see a women responding positively to black men's attention especially when they've seen them act aggressively before that.

The other aspect for me is cheating. I value monogamy, love and the health of my relationships. Most guys do. So willingly allowing cheating is a very racy, scary and embarrassing idea. It challenges my concept of myself as a man and how other men and those I love would view me. It's not something I want outside of the temporary sexual excitement.

What about interracial cuckolding do you not like?
 
To be honest, I am not one to be cuckolded, nor could I be (by a female, that is) as I never married. It doesn't mean I didn't try, but after the third attempt I gave up on women. Of course, the fault/s did not lay with them alone. I can look back and perceive why I failed them. As I have got older, I have come to both understand and accept that I am bi-sexual, with a leaning more towards men as sexual partners. The experience is far more exciting and meaningful. The ethnicity of the man was never an issue, and without wanting to come across as being promiscuous, the biggest cock that I have ever taken was a white guy. It was both painful and mind-blowingly pleasurable. He had me mewing like a kitten. Other partners (and there haven't been many), less-endowed, still gave me great pleasure; one of which was a black guy. What I will say as an aside, is that the black guy fucked me from the hips, which some white guys don't do, which makes for awkward lovemaking.

Even with a sanction from the 'cuck', the wife or girlfriend going off to have sex with another man is cheating, and you cannot slice it any other way. Something in their relationship has broken down, and I would suggest 'commitment' and 'sexual empathy' towards one another. If you truly love your partner...you don't cheat on them, nor do you urge them to do so. You either work through the problems together, or you go your separate ways. Then one is free to find a different partner. For me, cuckolding is both a twisted and racist agenda, especially in the interracial cuckold arena, where the black man is reduced to nothing more than the size of his penis. He is more than that, much more, and those that service the wives of the cuckolds will no doubt have their reasons and rationale for doing so.

Taking up the cuckold lifestyle is a perilous endeavour. New and dangerous sexual triggers become embedded as both the wife and the husband habituate to the lifestyle, creating an ever-growing distance within the relationship that must have been at one time, a loving and committed partnership. It's a catastrophic tragedy as it allows a deeper rot to set in within the relationship.

Clearly, this is just my opinion.
 
Most of the so called bulls are just scared little boys hiding behind a wall of bravado And can't really bring the heat. It's been a real bummer. In 4 years of playing we've found one bull who was any good.

second would be the whole "raw is law / bbc always goes bare" nonsense. In fantasy it's great. In porn with everyone tested, fine. In reality there are too many creepy crawlies out there to make the risk / reward proposition worthwhile. Glove up fellas.
 
My least favorite part is the judgment of others that find out about our lifestyle. We do not advertise our lifestyle, but it has gotten out. Most people are totally cool, and either mind their own business and don't talk about it, or are just curious and ask questions in a friendly way. We have come across some others that are active in the lifestyle themselves.

Not everyone is cool with it though. The problem is not so much the IR aspect as just some people still have 1950's view on women's sexuality. They judge my wife for being a "slut". Worse than that, some of the men think that because my wife is active in this it is open season on her. I have had a few confrontations over the years from some guy grabbing K's tits or ass thinking that because we were a cuckold couple that she would fuck anyone. We have had to clear some things up for them.
 
An interesting topic. I agree with @londoncple that it has been difficult to meet a girl and explain my sexuality, to be that of a cuckold. It has written off so many potentials far too quickly. But life is short, and the older I have gotten, the more i feel i need to get things said in the early days of dating.

And yet...... so many of the same women find it easy to cheat and break up. It is like they give up on a relationship because every aspect is not to their fairytale level demands. Sad, but it seems to be a common and unrealistic dream so many women have. Finding one dream man to take care of all their different needs equally well.

I actually believe the word itself has too much of a wimpish and negative stigma. And like so many things today, it is in need of a re vamp. We cuckold men should be proud. I hope that day comes.
 
How hard it is to re-wire white women to give something a go that we all know they will absolutely love

that is really a good one….my wife says she now regrets not cuckolding me from early on, not listening to the signs I’ve always thrown out and for refusing for a couple years when i really discussed open, candid and seriously with her, an open sexual lifestyle for her only in our relationship and to do it with black men…..her love for sex with her black bulls is off the charts and once they first one impaled her she knew she’d never stop fucking black men and that I opened Pandora’s box, she is a true slut that loves fucking black cock. She’s talked a few friends into bbc too, it took some work as none of them had ever been with a black guy but like my wife, all 5 of them so far have LOVED the sex and regularly fuck black guys. One is 58, single and dating a 61 year old white guy, she told him recently and he’s perfectly content with it so long as it’s just sex….unlike me he has no interest at this time to watch but told her to have fun and get all she wants, that life is short so go enjoy it.
 
I just don't understand white women saying that they want to totally be submissive to black men and let them to control their lives. They say they love the confidence and control that black men have yet when white guys do the same thing they complain saying they're too rough and Im not going to let a guy control me. I also don't understand white girls going BBC only when they could have variety of hung guys. Variety is the spice of life. I wouldnt turn away a woman with small tits or a woman that has loose a pussy yet these white girls put so much stock in big black penis size that they actually worship them and basically a sex slave to be treated like a piece of meat just to get their sexual high. I'm not saying all white girls because I talked to several white girls that don't do this but enjoy BBC. They just play during sex then can leave it, none of that totally serving their so called masters or daddies 24/7 following orders while being treated like a piece of meat.
Don't get me wrong I too love seeing white girls fucking BBC and love the over the top dirty talk and teasing during sex only. I believe that the cuckold husband or boyfriend should be highly respected by the wife or girlfriend not giving the bull so much credit or power. The power belongs to the couple not the bull. Cucks are stronger men than the bulls mentally and emotionally so they should be thought of highly and well respected.
 
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For me it was the loss of respect I feel from my wife now. We got into swinging five years ago and found it very hard to find guys as equally attractive and in physical shape as me, so she was always losing out. Many couples in the lifestyle are wealthy older men with sexy younger wives. A couple in the lifestyle told us they were into bringing in a bbc. My wife has always been curious to try a big black cock so we looked into it. Her first was actually a guy that had met up with our swinger friends in the past. Her pleasure to me is more important than my own. Met him and she had a great time. Then we found another guy she really bonded with. The sex they had was incredible. Way better then we ever had and I’ll be honest, that hurt. Then their feeling for each other grew and they started to go on dates and meet alone. This is where I felt my heart crack and something changed in both of us. We both started to drift apart and treated each other differently. She stopped seeing him after a few months but he still wants her back. No we live together more as roommates then lovers or husband and wife.
 
For me it was the loss of respect I feel from my wife now. We got into swinging five years ago and found it very hard to find guys as equally attractive and in physical shape as me, so she was always losing out. Many couples in the lifestyle are wealthy older men with sexy younger wives. A couple in the lifestyle told us they were into bringing in a bbc. My wife has always been curious to try a big black cock so we looked into it. Her first was actually a guy that had met up with our swinger friends in the past. Her pleasure to me is more important than my own. Met him and she had a great time. Then we found another guy she really bonded with. The sex they had was incredible. Way better then we ever had and I’ll be honest, that hurt. Then their feeling for each other grew and they started to go on dates and meet alone. This is where I felt my heart crack and something changed in both of us. We both started to drift apart and treated each other differently. She stopped seeing him after a few months but he still wants her back. No we live together more as roommates then lovers or husband and wife.
So sorry to hear that.
 
For me it was the loss of respect I feel from my wife now. We got into swinging five years ago and found it very hard to find guys as equally attractive and in physical shape as me, so she was always losing out. Many couples in the lifestyle are wealthy older men with sexy younger wives. A couple in the lifestyle told us they were into bringing in a bbc. My wife has always been curious to try a big black cock so we looked into it. Her first was actually a guy that had met up with our swinger friends in the past. Her pleasure to me is more important than my own. Met him and she had a great time. Then we found another guy she really bonded with. The sex they had was incredible. Way better then we ever had and I’ll be honest, that hurt. Then their feeling for each other grew and they started to go on dates and meet alone. This is where I felt my heart crack and something changed in both of us. We both started to drift apart and treated each other differently. She stopped seeing him after a few months but he still wants her back. No we live together more as roommates then lovers or husband and wife.
Shows you what cock can do
 
For me it was the loss of respect I feel from my wife now. We got into swinging five years ago and found it very hard to find guys as equally attractive and in physical shape as me, so she was always losing out. Many couples in the lifestyle are wealthy older men with sexy younger wives. A couple in the lifestyle told us they were into bringing in a bbc. My wife has always been curious to try a big black cock so we looked into it. Her first was actually a guy that had met up with our swinger friends in the past. Her pleasure to me is more important than my own. Met him and she had a great time. Then we found another guy she really bonded with. The sex they had was incredible. Way better then we ever had and I’ll be honest, that hurt. Then their feeling for each other grew and they started to go on dates and meet alone. This is where I felt my heart crack and something changed in both of us. We both started to drift apart and treated each other differently. She stopped seeing him after a few months but he still wants her back. No we live together more as roommates then lovers or husband and wife.
definitely one of the dangers of entering the lifestyle (among health concerns and whatnot). i’m not saying you yourself didn’t do this, but couples looking to explore this side of sex need to have a relationship/marriage that is ironclad and stronger than steel, or have boundaries that are clearer and hard and will be respected by husband, wife, and bull(s). Because, for example, if a wife claims she’ll only just have sex, and then proceeds too form emotional attachments, that’s a breach of boundary/respect. Or if the husband never revealed to wife that he’s actually bi, and is using this an excuse to scout for dick, that’s also a lack of respect. It ain’t easy stepping into this at all, especially for the couple. I’m sorry to hear that happened to you man
 
I just don't understand white women saying that they want to totally be submissive to black men and let them to control their lives. They say they love the confidence and control that black men have yet when white guys do the same thing they complain saying they're too rough and Im not going to let a guy control me. I also don't understand white girls going BBC only when they could have variety of hung guys. Variety is the spice of life. I wouldnt turn away a woman with small tits or a woman that has loose a pussy yet these white girls put so much stock in big black penis size that they actually worship them and basically a sex slave to be treated like a piece of meat just to get their sexual high. I'm not saying all white girls because I talked to several white girls that don't do this but enjoy BBC. They just play during sex then can leave it, none of that totally serving their so called masters or daddies 24/7 following orders while being treated like a piece of meat.
Don't get me wrong I too love seeing white girls fucking BBC and love the over the top dirty talk and teasing during sex only. I believe that the cuckold husband or boyfriend should be highly respected by the wife or girlfriend not giving the bull so much credit or power. The power belongs to the couple not the bull. Cucks are stronger men than the bulls mentally and emotionally so they should be thought of highly and well respected.
the women enjoy the wanton sexuality yet may feel limited or restricted in their other relationships. They love the sex but still have issues with the images of being seen as sluts or whores . Things continue to change as we see more and more sexually active women , married and single.
 
How hard it is to re-wire white women to give something a go that we all know they will absolutely love
One size doesn't fit all, different strokes for different folks, a one-man woman, not my brand of vodka, thanks, but no thanks, you like black dick then you bend over, etc
 
Finding a quality couple is hard for a bull as well.

Due to my lifestyle, I have to have 100% trust in the couple that the only sex they are having is between themselves and me. So many in this field fish and that's fine, do them but I can't do them. That's the hard thing I found and flakes. More flakes than you realize in this lifestyle.
 
Just the fact that my wife was cheating with another man. It did not surprise me that it was a black man since she had been commenting for months about her friend telling her how much more virile her black boyfriend was. She went behind my back and got pregnant by him and then there was no more hiding her cheating.
 
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