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I’m curious about this answer also. I am with a bull not a cuck. To be honest it fascinates me . I’m curious because I can’t humilate someone and then let them touch me or be in a day to day relationship with them. I’m an alpha female personality so I attract men that want to be dominanted but I’m a submissive in bed so it doesn’t work. The porn I watch is mostly black men dominating white guys but I don’t fit the female dynamic in that scenario. Anyway I am following this thread for insight
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Really depends on the guy. Sometimes its about keeping things just in the bedroom- I know as a executive in a high stress job its nice for someone else to take control at some point in the bedroom. We mostly switch, and the added occasional BBC is just nice
I was married to a beta for 18 years. His submissiveness was a major turn off!!! Even though I’m a strong female personality I still need to feel secure, protected, and a beta just doesn’t do that for me. However I do value and respect a beta for knowing his wants and needs. To answer the porn question ,, I’m white my ex husband and current boyfriend are black so that interracial dynamic is my normal so nothing exciting about that to me.
I don’t understand either that’s why I was watching the thread. As far as watching porn of white women and black men ,, I prefer it the other way white guys with black women
That explains it. Thank you
Maybe we are all more complex than the neat little boxes of alpha and beta we like to fit everyone in. You like what you like. Enjoy the ride.
Lol I have a psychology degree too!! Didn’t help me much on the topic. I like your attitude. Let’s be friends? Message me?
I still want to hear from an alpha about this topic??
Well put. I love strong females because any woman wants to feel safe and secure around the men they are with. I am still seeing a strong woman for the last 7 years and she is bisexual. But in the bed I am the alpha and she loves that about black men. She has her girlfriends but I am the one that makes her feel like a woman.
Thanks I try not to be offensive to anyone.we all have our kinks and mine keep evolving. P.s. Go Chiefs Lol
I was with my ex-wife for 17 years, from 22yo and her 19yo, and I was still a virgin (she was far from it) when we met, so never knew how to even try to be sexually dominant, plus I have a small penis, so that didn't help. I had to either accept her cheating on me or part ways, that was the choice given to me. I decided I wanted to be with her ho matter what. So from then on, she ruled the the dynamic of our relationship, especially where it involved having sex with me. If I was honest, on a submissive scale of when we met, I was 50/50, but as the years went on, the more she was with other men (sometimes holed up in hotel rooms for whole weekends, that I would usually have to pay for) the more submissive I became to become 100% beta sub.
The more submissive I was, the less respect she started to have for me, even though she was part of the reason I became the totally submissive beta partner. Plus the men she chased and the ones that chased her, were always large, rough, heavy metal, biker types, she loved very rough sex, and they were the ones that ultimately provided it for her, while I was relegated back to relying on masturbation like I was before we met. We were lucky to fuck 6 times a year, and even then it always had to be with a condom.
When we finally divorced, she admitted it was a mistake being with a beta male, she just couldn't feel any sexual desire towards them, love she could, but sexual attraction, not at all.
I am truly sorry that must have been painful. I admit I too became rude and disrespectful to my ex husband because I needed something he couldn’t provide. At the time I thought he just was an asshole and he was the one cheating on me. I stayed faithful and sexually deprived. So when we divorced I swore I would never settle for lousy sex again. So I started researching my kinks. Now that your divorced are you trying to accept being a beta or trying to get your dominate side more active?
Go chiefs because I saw you were in KC and I am from there. Ok thank you!’ Sissy male for you got it. It seems like we need menus lol .
This site is for couples and white female looking for black males.
No this site is for everyone. We have lesbians, cuckholds, bulls, sissy’s, Doms etc,,, this site just has mostly couples looking for a third BBC but those couples tend to have a Bi male.
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