i have been fantasizing about doing a bbc and have been exploring it in fantasy with my bf. it wasn't long before i talked him into progressing to watching it on porn vidoes with me as well. of course he thinks it was his idea (lol). gradually with a bit more coaxing he is agreeing to explore trying this as a couple with the understanding that he will watch and not participate. how are these kind of things usually arranged? what should i expect as far as being able to meet a black guy willing to do this with us. is an online forum the best way or would i be better off going to a club or something? any expereince or advice is appreciated. btw we live in the DFW area of Texas. thanks!