Is there any good suggestions by anyone that went down this road to get my loyal white wife of 11 years (not into porn) involved in this lifestyle without having a conversation about it as I feel would freak her out and ruin it? Any guidance suggestions from anyone please. Also if you glance my about page I detailed more
Suggestions getting wife into lifestyle?
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Hotwife fun77
Couple
The lifestyle is based on Communication if your uncomfortable or can’t talk about it you guys are not ready!!
Trying but hard to express
Hotwife fun77
Couple
If you guys aren’t close enough to be able to discuss anything you’re not ready I cannot express this enough
Until you develop that
She’s your partner supposedly your best friend ?
Yes, very much so.
Hotwife fun77
Couple
Then talk to her and listen to what she says and to what she wants it’s a partnership
HotAndMarried
Couple
Make her feel wanted, appreciated, prove that your relationship is strong enough to let a second man join without taking damage and just let her know its ok to be herself and when she is horny you can just speak up about how you want to try a threesome with another man, that you know it would satistfy you and how you noticed its making you incredibly horny.
Make sure she doesnt think its a trick to involve other women if thats not what you want and tell her how you love her more than anything in the world, that you would never leave her and that she is and will always be the fullfillment of your dream of a wife no matter what she decides.
If you had some talk before having sex let it rest for a week and go visit a sauna where she can imagine things and just drop a little reminder
When at some point in the future and more sexy talk she agrees to try opening up to the idea, thank her, you can get her an online dating app where she can be hit on in a safe surrounding, use it together with her, try making it fun, be too harsh at some times and directly ask for a dick pic, laugh at how you behave like teenagers, be slow with others, try to chat yourself sometimes and show how horny people would be for her, help her take some sexy photos and send them to people, have lots of sex with each other and start dirty talking about how she is making you sooo horny right before she orgasms. Be understanding if she cant have sex at some times though she seems horny because this will most likely be alot more arousing to you. To her its the situation that will turn her on solely for quite some time.
Also dont rush into sex with people online as they are no good partners very often and should someone not show up for a date its bad to her confidence.
Whenever it seems like its hard finding the right partner online you make clear that you didnt like the kinds of people you just met though the situation was fun and that you would rather like to do things outside, leave the house more often, go to clubs or whatever you liked doing in the past as a couple, meet real people and suggest keeping open to the idea of sex when someone will be there that both of you like.
At some point when the idea is well established that you want to try invite another man to your sexlife you can try showing her a hotwife challenge which is slowly pushing the limits in a very sexy way and just ask her what she could imagine herself doing and where the limits would be. While watching some challenges she will see how popular the idea of a hotwife is and that lots of people tried that. After she knows you want her to be a hotwife, which is a great title, you buy her an anklet and explain what it means.
By now she should have regained her desire for playfulness and daring sexual behaviour So you can talk about how horny the idea of her as a hotwife is making you because it is daring, a bit intimidating, perverted, somehow wrong, tingling your stomach, exciting, sexy and delicious. Enjoy the feeling together. When she starts dirty talking about this you just go along with it and its most like gonna happen Make sure not to let any mood swings on your side down on her because she joined your fantasy like after you came. Just take your time growing into your idea. You may think you are ready but you have to learn your role just as much.
Once she has started doing hotwife stuff, dresses sexy and wears an anklet, has had occasional encounters and you behaved like an understanding husband that still loves her you can just start suggesting her having sex in the next room while you cant join no matter what and how hot that would be. Just start suggesting doing what a cuckold does and she will know what makes you horny about that as it started making her horny as well.
As you can see, you dont even need the word cuckold at all which isnt a good title. Start Calling yourself a cuck only when you are a cuck, you have a bull and a hotwife and when its a compliment to your sexlife.
Good luck
Make sure she doesnt think its a trick to involve other women if thats not what you want and tell her how you love her more than anything in the world, that you would never leave her and that she is and will always be the fullfillment of your dream of a wife no matter what she decides.
If you had some talk before having sex let it rest for a week and go visit a sauna where she can imagine things and just drop a little reminder
When at some point in the future and more sexy talk she agrees to try opening up to the idea, thank her, you can get her an online dating app where she can be hit on in a safe surrounding, use it together with her, try making it fun, be too harsh at some times and directly ask for a dick pic, laugh at how you behave like teenagers, be slow with others, try to chat yourself sometimes and show how horny people would be for her, help her take some sexy photos and send them to people, have lots of sex with each other and start dirty talking about how she is making you sooo horny right before she orgasms. Be understanding if she cant have sex at some times though she seems horny because this will most likely be alot more arousing to you. To her its the situation that will turn her on solely for quite some time.
Also dont rush into sex with people online as they are no good partners very often and should someone not show up for a date its bad to her confidence.
Whenever it seems like its hard finding the right partner online you make clear that you didnt like the kinds of people you just met though the situation was fun and that you would rather like to do things outside, leave the house more often, go to clubs or whatever you liked doing in the past as a couple, meet real people and suggest keeping open to the idea of sex when someone will be there that both of you like.
At some point when the idea is well established that you want to try invite another man to your sexlife you can try showing her a hotwife challenge
which is slowly pushing the limits in a very sexy way and just ask her what she could imagine herself doing and where the limits would be. While watching some challenges she will see how popular the idea of a hotwife is and that lots of people tried that. After she knows you want her to be a hotwife, which is a great title, you buy her an anklet and explain what it means.By now she should have regained her desire for playfulness and daring sexual behaviour
So you can talk about how horny the idea of her as a hotwife is making you because it is daring, a bit intimidating, perverted, somehow wrong, tingling your stomach, exciting, sexy and delicious. Enjoy the feeling together. When she starts dirty talking about this you just go along with it and its most like gonna happen Make sure not to let any mood swings on your side down on her because she joined your fantasy like after you came. Just take your time growing into your idea. You may think you are ready but you have to learn your role just as much.Once she has started doing hotwife stuff, dresses sexy and wears an anklet, has had occasional encounters and you behaved like an understanding husband that still loves her you can just start suggesting her having sex in the next room while you cant join no matter what and how hot that would be. Just start suggesting doing what a cuckold does and she will know what makes you horny about that as it started making her horny as well.
As you can see, you dont even need the word cuckold at all which isnt a good title. Start Calling yourself a cuck only when you are a cuck, you have a bull and a hotwife and when its a compliment to your sexlife.
Good luck
Amazing thoughts love your genuine sincere way. Thank you so muchMake her feel wanted, appreciated, prove that your relationship is strong enough to let a second man join without taking damage and just let her know its ok to be herself and when she is horny you can just speak up about how you want to try a threesome with another man, that you know it would satistfy you and how you noticed its making you incredibly horny.
Make sure she doesnt think its a trick to involve other women if thats not what you want and tell her how you love her more than anything in the world, that you would never leave her and that she is and will always be the fullfillment of your dream of a wife no matter what she decides.
If you had some talk before having sex let it rest for a week and go visit a sauna where she can imagine things and just drop a little reminder
When at some point in the future and more sexy talk she agrees to try opening up to the idea, thank her, you can get her an online dating app where she can be hit on in a safe surrounding, use it together with her, try making it fun, be too harsh at some times and directly ask for a dick pic, laugh at how you behave like teenagers, be slow with others, try to chat yourself sometimes and show how horny people would be for her, help her take some sexy photos and send them to people, have lots of sex with each other and start dirty talking about how she is making you sooo horny right before she orgasms. Be understanding if she cant have sex at some times though she seems horny because this will most likely be alot more arousing to you. To her its the situation that will turn her on solely for quite some time.
Also dont rush into sex with people online as they are no good partners very often and should someone not show up for a date its bad to her confidence.
Whenever it seems like its hard finding the right partner online you make clear that you didnt like the kinds of people you just met though the situation was fun and that you would rather like to do things outside, leave the house more often, go to clubs or whatever you liked doing in the past as a couple, meet real people and suggest keeping open to the idea of sex when someone will be there that both of you like.
At some point when the idea is well established that you want to try invite another man to your sexlife you can try showing her a hotwife challenge
By now she should have regained her desire for playfulness and daring sexual behaviour
Once she has started doing hotwife stuff, dresses sexy and wears an anklet, has had occasional encounters and you behaved like an understanding husband that still loves her you can just start suggesting her having sex in the next room while you cant join no matter what and how hot that would be. Just start suggesting doing what a cuckold does and she will know what makes you horny about that as it started making her horny as well.
As you can see, you dont even need the word cuckold at all which isnt a good title. Start Calling yourself a cuck only when you are a cuck, you have a bull and a hotwife and when its a compliment to your sexlife.
Good luck
HotAndMarried
Couple
No problem
People call it a lifestyle for it should be lifestyle.
It adds quality to your amazing marriage and should feel that way and definitely not like a broken marriage or a weak husband in general. You can do it!
People call it a lifestyle for it should be lifestyle.
It adds quality to your amazing marriage and should feel that way and definitely not like a broken marriage or a weak husband in general.
You can do it!
Cleprcouple
Couple
I love to turn my innocent girlfriends into bbc slutts
Cleprcouple
Couple
Tell her about the things that turn you on
Cleprcouple
Couple
Cleprcouple
Couple
That’s her first time
This is it. Not 'what I want you to do' but 'what I like'. Don't make it into an obligation. How you say it is more important than what you say. You need enough confidence in yourself to be ok with what you like. Then it is a no Brainer to share that information.
How do i just say this out loud, is there another waY
As a for instance I watched jessica Jones with my girl and when the black man and white woman broke the bed fucking I said 'damn that was hot and that skin contrast is sexy.' You like stuff. She is your partner. Tell her you like stuff.
I follow you but how can does it lead to this?
I'm not sure what your question is but I suspect you don't follow me. You share. She responds. It does not necessarily lead to anything. Because she is an individual. She makes up her own mind.
Pillow talk.
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