Stag/Vixen or Swinger. What is the difference?

It's become more separate through kink associations, cuckold is about the wife doing what she wants and the husband being more submissive and giving into whatever his wife and her bull want from him. This includes clean up, Chastity, degredation, and even gay submission.

Hotwife/vixen/stag, is about a couple who are equals in their relationship but where the woman is allowed extra martial adventures with consent from the husband. The husband however is not interested in sex with other women or in being submissive to her bull. He wants his wife because he knows how amazing she is, but he also knows it wouldn't be fair to hoard someone that amazing all to himself.

Slutwife is the third dynamic I've seen played out in this lifestyle where the wife is submissive to both the husband and bulls, the husband picks who fucks her and where and when, she's basically a toy for his amusement and whoever he chooses to let play with her.

Swingers are a couple looking for a couple or third to play with together in a typically vanilla straight forward sex atmosphere with no Dom sub dynamic and no dis-inclusion of either the husband or wife from play
 
EarthC137 said:
It's become more separate through kink associations, cuckold is about the wife doing what she wants and the husband being more submissive and giving into whatever his wife and her bull want from him. This includes clean up, Chastity, degredation, and even gay submission.

Hotwife/vixen/stag, is about a couple who are equals in their relationship but where the woman is allowed extra martial adventures with consent from the husband. The husband however is not interested in sex with other women or in being submissive to her bull. He wants his wife because he knows how amazing she is, but he also knows it wouldn't be fair to hoard someone that amazing all to himself.

Slutwife is the third dynamic I've seen played out in this lifestyle where the wife is submissive to both the husband and bulls, the husband picks who fucks her and where and when, she's basically a toy for his amusement and whoever he chooses to let play with her.

Swingers are a couple looking for a couple or third to play with together in a typically vanilla straight forward sex atmosphere with no Dom sub dynamic and no dis-inclusion of either the husband or wife from play
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I disagree that the Hotwife lifestyle is the same as the Stag/Vixen lifestyle.

Hotwife is geared around the lady.

Stag/Vixen is geared around the couple which is the same as Swingers. :lips:
 
We can agree to disagree, like anything lifestyles are evolving and changing, and also influenced by the era and stage of your introduction to them. I've only been a hotwife for four years and a swinger a year before that with our lifestyle introduction being Reddit where we are regular contributors. It's all personal perceptions on what we feel fits our lifestyle and we have to accept that not all experiences and perceptions are shared
 
HotwifeofOhio said:
I am curious as to what everyone thinks the difference is between Stags/Vixen and being Swingers?

I think we all know what a Cuckold relationship is and the Hotwife lifestyle is centralized around the Females wants and needs.
But the Stag/Vixen lifestyle seems like a Swingers lifestyle to me.
Thoughts? :lips:
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Since cuckold porn portray cucks like they were taken straight out of an asylum the hotwives and their cucks started calling themselves something else.
 
HotwifeofOhio said:
I am curious as to what everyone thinks the difference is between Stags/Vixen and being Swingers?

I think we all know what a Cuckold relationship is and the Hotwife lifestyle is centralized around the Females wants and needs.
But the Stag/Vixen lifestyle seems like a Swingers lifestyle to me.
Thoughts? :lips:
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I did an episode on this very topic. You should check it out https://www.keysandanklets.com/episodes/5
 
HotwifeofOhio said:
I disagree that the Hotwife lifestyle is the same as the Stag/Vixen lifestyle.

Hotwife is geared around the lady.

Stag/Vixen is geared around the couple which is the same as Swingers. ?
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Although I agree with your disagreement, but, being a Stag/Vixen couple, disagree that we are on par with swingers. That is not entirely the same.
 
UKCpl4Girth said:
Although I agree with your disagreement, but, being a Stag/Vixen couple, disagree that we are on par with swingers. That is not entirely the same.
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What is different about the two? Both parties are present and neither one plays separately.
Stag/Vixen is an updated name for swingers.
 
We were swingers for a number of years, but the couples were predominantly white, with average husbands and super hot wives. Great for me but not so for my wife. As my wife’s fun is my biggest turn on, eventually we rethought our naughty fun. We tried MFM and it was much, much easier. No drama. My wife had long told me that she was primarily attracted to BBC and once we adopted the hot wife lifestyle, it was MFM, bbc for us. Her pleasure is our focus, we both love it, and I’m not in a true cuckold in the sub sense. So the stag moniker is most fitting.
 
HotwifeofOhio said:
I am curious as to what everyone thinks the difference is between Stags/Vixen and being Swingers?

I think we all know what a Cuckold relationship is and the Hotwife lifestyle is centralized around the Females wants and needs.
But the Stag/Vixen lifestyle seems like a Swingers lifestyle to me.
Thoughts? ?
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Why do we as humans get hung up on naming and categorizing everything? Especially with sexual relationships, where baskins 32 flavors probably isn't enough to articulate all the varied interests and dos and don't of any relationship, not to mention whether the man, woman, or couple are feeling a particular thing in that moment or with that or those partners. There are soooo many dynamics, and all of them can have labels that can be debated as there really isn't a right or wrong answer unless you're restricting a certain type of play from a party or a get together....it seems like the best course of action is to talk about it in some level of detail before you play...and communicate often and regularly throughout play...

This is how we roll...always checking in, so
Does that feel good, s
Do you want me to....can I...what about...that's great, omg that's amazing do more of that....tons of talk...

Maybe it's a turn off to some, but we find communication sexy, and it helps us ensure we all have a fantastic time!

Swinger, cuckold, hotwife, slutwife, stag/vixen - it's all good! We have played in so many different dynamics over the last 25 years of playing together...I would guess that we don't really represent the same dynamic in all experiences anyhow...so it's best to talk through it!

Love this topic though! And yes - I just listened to a great podcast on the topic last week!!
 
Agree with some previous comments, labels can be confusing at times. For us, we're not into the "humiliation" of my husband but as a couple we enjoy me playing but husband doesn't. We do enjoy him watching or licking me after, etc, so we may be a cuckold or a stag/vixen couple....the label doesn't matter, it's what the couple wants, enjoys, and feels comfortable with!
 
brunettewife said:
Agree with some previous comments, labels can be confusing at times. For us, we're not into the "humiliation" of my husband but as a couple we enjoy me playing but husband doesn't. We do enjoy him watching or licking me after, etc, so we may be a cuckold or a stag/vixen couple....the label doesn't matter, it's what the couple wants, enjoys, and feels comfortable with!
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Would you give your permission to your husband to play with other women?
 
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