We are a very happily married couple, 32 years to be exact. We are your average middle class white couple, he is retired from the USAF and she works for a major casino on the gulf coast. We have an empty nest now and look to step into a new lifestyle. We are dedicated to each other and have been that way since we met each other, true soulmates! However, after some discussion over the past several years we both came to the conclusion fidelity does not mean as much to us as it once did in our relationship. We have a new motto, "it's not cheating if my husband knows."
Our cuckold desire is to see her take well hung black man as a lover, plain and simple. We are open to a lot of arrangements, i.e. our house, hotel, husband watching, or in some cases her alone with her lover but husband present within the same facility. The personal qualities her lover must possess, and these are not open for debate, he must be respectful, kind, well mannered, clean, well groomed, trustworthy, patient and well spoken.
The physical attributes preferred by her were determined by our discussions and driven by her own desires to be with a black man, something she has never experienced. The following attributes are desired, someone who is 5' 10" or taller, big or muscular/in shape but not perfect, nice smile, groomed, nice feet, skin and finger/toenails. Based on that description you can see she has this image of being with someone large and strong who eclipses her own stature significantly and makes her rather diminutive in size when together.
We both are sexually compatible, but she now seeks a man she has yet to experience in her life and that is both someone who happens to be black and well endowed, size is important! Like we stated, this relationship she seeks is born out of the notion that fidelity is somewhat overrated and no longer important to neither of us since we are secure in our marriage, we only wish that would have happened long ago. She is now free to seek out whomever she wants and is no longer constrained by the pressures of societal norms nor a husband who feels the need to control her.
The matter of a virile black man came up early in our conversations once neither one of us felt inhibited by the mention of sex outside marriage and race. It was a mutual decision by both of us that her lover would be black and well endowed however, we arrived to the cuckold lifestyle choice at his request. We find the interracial cuckold lifestyle most erotic and she finds the apex of sexuality is that of a well endowed black man.
She is no longer looking for a unremarkable man because she does not have to live within any confines, therefore she desires a man who captures her imagination, sexually exceeds her current partnership and satisfies her wanton feelings. To do that she needs someone who clearly outshines all other men she has experienced, that person has to be sexually endowed greater than 8', does not exceed 9", and has considerable girth.
This idea of her having a well endowed black man as a lover is not a superficial notion for either of us, it's something we want and need. We are truly fascinated by a cuckolding experience which involves her being with a black man and she is even more fascinated by the prospect of being in a relationship with a black man where intimacy is involved. Black men were off limits to her in so many ways prior to marriage, so while she had one occasion when she was single to sleep with a black guy but did not take it, she never really considered what it would be like to be with a black man.
The introduction of a cuckold lifestyle has given her pause on everything when it comes to black men. We both love each other very much so she knows neither of us would talk of this if we were not serious. She knows how great the fall would be for others not as committed and the utmost confidence we have in her taking another man, we now have a level of trust and emotional commitment that allows her to redirect her thoughts to seeking out black men. She always thought black men were much different than white men but it was not until now she could be honest with herself about it.
She enjoys most black men's personalty's and is looking for one who is a Casanova. Other personality traits she enjoys about black men, that she previously never experienced with white men and is looking for, are confidence and swagger, and dominant but not overbearing. She did not come about these personality by way of stereotypes but by the interaction she now has with black men in public or at work. We have grown comfortable with the fact we are a cuckold couple for some time now and she interacts with black men differently now. Her interactions are not purely business any longer when it comes to black men, whether they be coworkers, patrons at her casino or a chance encounter at the grocery store.
She ingratiates herself with black men and is taken by how smooth they are once she does. She enjoys the swagger they have and in their candidness she has found herself compelled to be more charming to them. She views her conversations with black men more challenging and views them as a metaphorical dance where she acknowledges their flattery and reciprocates. However, the personality traits she finds the most compelling and the one she is intrigued about the most is those black men with dominant personality's.
Sexual dominance was the one thing she specifically discussed and admittedly it is something she wants, needs and would enjoy but has not experienced in her life either. We talked about dominance in the bedroom as it pertains to race and from her experience it has not happened for her during our marriage or with other white men. This is not about humiliation or pain, this is about passion and the way she actually wants to feel with a man so those reading this should not take it out of context, we do not do things that cause harm.
We know from 32 years of marriage anything we try that involves dominance will be fabricated because we are reserved and somewhat passive when it comes to intimacy, we enjoy the tender moments but realistically we have a situation where the male half cannot help her realize her potential in bed. The topic actually came up when we first started viewing a number of actual, and more tasteful, homemade videos of wives sleeping with black men and she literally saw the difference in how black men attended to the wives, it was something she identified with but never knew herself.
The videos only confirmed what she suspected about black men, they carried swagger into the bedroom and was innate in most she witnessed.
Her emotions about having a black man who makes love to her and transforms the bedroom into a place where she is existing in his world and has lost control are profound. That cannot be overstated, she liked what she saw in the videos and the decision to be with a black man is based on the confidence black men have with women and the control they exercise when making love to them.
We both are very candid about our choice, we admit her taking a well endowed black man as a lover actually suits her personality. Neither of us no longer talk of black men in abstract terms but of a distinct relationship she can have, separate from our own that is exclusively between them. She openly shows her affection black men in her presence and excitedly announces it in intimate detail without fear. We speak of her taking a black man as a lover and the unconditional passion she can share with him and the anticipation of her having a long term bond with him. She only seeks the affection of a black man because she wants the ******* only a black man can give her. She is straightforward too, she is seeking satisfaction from a well endowed black man because she needs them to reinforce just how it feels to be a woman.
Our cuckold desire is to see her take well hung black man as a lover, plain and simple. We are open to a lot of arrangements, i.e. our house, hotel, husband watching, or in some cases her alone with her lover but husband present within the same facility. The personal qualities her lover must possess, and these are not open for debate, he must be respectful, kind, well mannered, clean, well groomed, trustworthy, patient and well spoken.
The physical attributes preferred by her were determined by our discussions and driven by her own desires to be with a black man, something she has never experienced. The following attributes are desired, someone who is 5' 10" or taller, big or muscular/in shape but not perfect, nice smile, groomed, nice feet, skin and finger/toenails. Based on that description you can see she has this image of being with someone large and strong who eclipses her own stature significantly and makes her rather diminutive in size when together.
We both are sexually compatible, but she now seeks a man she has yet to experience in her life and that is both someone who happens to be black and well endowed, size is important! Like we stated, this relationship she seeks is born out of the notion that fidelity is somewhat overrated and no longer important to neither of us since we are secure in our marriage, we only wish that would have happened long ago. She is now free to seek out whomever she wants and is no longer constrained by the pressures of societal norms nor a husband who feels the need to control her.
The matter of a virile black man came up early in our conversations once neither one of us felt inhibited by the mention of sex outside marriage and race. It was a mutual decision by both of us that her lover would be black and well endowed however, we arrived to the cuckold lifestyle choice at his request. We find the interracial cuckold lifestyle most erotic and she finds the apex of sexuality is that of a well endowed black man.
She is no longer looking for a unremarkable man because she does not have to live within any confines, therefore she desires a man who captures her imagination, sexually exceeds her current partnership and satisfies her wanton feelings. To do that she needs someone who clearly outshines all other men she has experienced, that person has to be sexually endowed greater than 8', does not exceed 9", and has considerable girth.
This idea of her having a well endowed black man as a lover is not a superficial notion for either of us, it's something we want and need. We are truly fascinated by a cuckolding experience which involves her being with a black man and she is even more fascinated by the prospect of being in a relationship with a black man where intimacy is involved. Black men were off limits to her in so many ways prior to marriage, so while she had one occasion when she was single to sleep with a black guy but did not take it, she never really considered what it would be like to be with a black man.
The introduction of a cuckold lifestyle has given her pause on everything when it comes to black men. We both love each other very much so she knows neither of us would talk of this if we were not serious. She knows how great the fall would be for others not as committed and the utmost confidence we have in her taking another man, we now have a level of trust and emotional commitment that allows her to redirect her thoughts to seeking out black men. She always thought black men were much different than white men but it was not until now she could be honest with herself about it.
She enjoys most black men's personalty's and is looking for one who is a Casanova. Other personality traits she enjoys about black men, that she previously never experienced with white men and is looking for, are confidence and swagger, and dominant but not overbearing. She did not come about these personality by way of stereotypes but by the interaction she now has with black men in public or at work. We have grown comfortable with the fact we are a cuckold couple for some time now and she interacts with black men differently now. Her interactions are not purely business any longer when it comes to black men, whether they be coworkers, patrons at her casino or a chance encounter at the grocery store.
She ingratiates herself with black men and is taken by how smooth they are once she does. She enjoys the swagger they have and in their candidness she has found herself compelled to be more charming to them. She views her conversations with black men more challenging and views them as a metaphorical dance where she acknowledges their flattery and reciprocates. However, the personality traits she finds the most compelling and the one she is intrigued about the most is those black men with dominant personality's.
Sexual dominance was the one thing she specifically discussed and admittedly it is something she wants, needs and would enjoy but has not experienced in her life either. We talked about dominance in the bedroom as it pertains to race and from her experience it has not happened for her during our marriage or with other white men. This is not about humiliation or pain, this is about passion and the way she actually wants to feel with a man so those reading this should not take it out of context, we do not do things that cause harm.
We know from 32 years of marriage anything we try that involves dominance will be fabricated because we are reserved and somewhat passive when it comes to intimacy, we enjoy the tender moments but realistically we have a situation where the male half cannot help her realize her potential in bed. The topic actually came up when we first started viewing a number of actual, and more tasteful, homemade videos of wives sleeping with black men and she literally saw the difference in how black men attended to the wives, it was something she identified with but never knew herself.
The videos only confirmed what she suspected about black men, they carried swagger into the bedroom and was innate in most she witnessed.
Her emotions about having a black man who makes love to her and transforms the bedroom into a place where she is existing in his world and has lost control are profound. That cannot be overstated, she liked what she saw in the videos and the decision to be with a black man is based on the confidence black men have with women and the control they exercise when making love to them.
We both are very candid about our choice, we admit her taking a well endowed black man as a lover actually suits her personality. Neither of us no longer talk of black men in abstract terms but of a distinct relationship she can have, separate from our own that is exclusively between them. She openly shows her affection black men in her presence and excitedly announces it in intimate detail without fear. We speak of her taking a black man as a lover and the unconditional passion she can share with him and the anticipation of her having a long term bond with him. She only seeks the affection of a black man because she wants the ******* only a black man can give her. She is straightforward too, she is seeking satisfaction from a well endowed black man because she needs them to reinforce just how it feels to be a woman.
