My girl and I agreed that we would ease into this lifestyle with her being massaged by a fit black man. Guys that move to the front of the list: Disease free, muscular, well hung. If you meet this criteria, we are willing to take it to the next level. Meaning.......... if she is aroused by the massage, she is allowed to go all the way. This is a birthday present for her. She is very low mileage and has never had bbc. She is excited!