Reluctant wives: how did you go from cold to hot?

Wives who love the lifestyle now but at first were lukewarm… what happened to change you from take it or leave it to Love It? Interested in what obstacles or things that turned you off that you initially perceived (time/effort/etc) to seeing it as a ton of fun and then making it a normal part of your life.
 
Started out with a long-term friend who I've known since I was younger. He was such a good fit for my first ever experience. Fast forward, I met another person & hit it off. With each new experience, from ghosting, meeting for drinks, exploring etc. I've learned a little more each time & am at a point where I want to meet people that can provide new experiences for me. I'm here to have fun, & I know what I want :)

Sitting here drinking morning coffee, browsing B2W lol ... guess I'm into this lifestyle more than I thought..
 
Started out with a long-term friend who I've known since I was younger. He was such a good fit for my first ever experience. Fast forward, I met another person & hit it off. With each new experience, from ghosting, meeting for drinks, exploring etc. I've learned a little more each time & am at a point where I want to meet people that can provide new experiences for me. I'm here to have fun, & I know what I want :)

Sitting here drinking morning coffee, browsing B2W lol ... guess I'm into this lifestyle more than I thought..
welcome. personally, i love hearing from the wives.
 
Started out with a long-term friend who I've known since I was younger. He was such a good fit for my first ever experience. Fast forward, I met another person & hit it off. With each new experience, from ghosting, meeting for drinks, exploring etc. I've learned a little more each time & am at a point where I want to meet people that can provide new experiences for me. I'm here to have fun, & I know what I want :)

Sitting here drinking morning coffee, browsing B2W lol ... guess I'm into this lifestyle more than I thought..
i viewed your madia & tried sending you a message, but was denied. hat is the purpose of the syringe in one of your pictures?
 
Here's my story..........
My boyfriend and I used to talk about our fantasy's and the subject of swinging would always come up.
We thought about meeting up with a guy, my boyfriend wasn't bothered about meeting another couple, he just wanted to watch having fun.
I wasn't bothered who it was as long as I found them attractive and we hit it off.
We started watching porn DVD's that he borrowed off a friend and alot off the DVD's were interracial, he used to play with my pussy while watching these DVD's and my pussy always got really wet watching these DVD's.
Looking at the size of these cocks and what pleasure they are giving to theses girls got me so turned on.
My boyfriend said he'd love to watch me with a black guy, I still wasn't that bothered if the guy was black or white we just wanted to try swinging.
We went to a swinging club a few times but no black guys where there, then one Saturday night there was a black guy in the club, we got chatting and decided to go in a private room with him !
That night my sex life was changed forever ! I've never been fucked by white guys like I have with black guys, they are on another level.
Their stamina, bodies, cocks are fantastic, they make me feel so dirty and slutty but I love It.
I have only ever been with black guys ever since that night except for my boyfriend.
I've now been with more black guys than white guys and I'm completely hooked.
 
I had always been a shy nervous prude then I just decided to get out of my comfort zone and try it out and see if I like it and I loved it
My wife is a total prude. Not really a fan of porn or the black dildo I bought her. But she's attracted to black men. I've tried like crazy to get her to go black. She's in her 60s but hot as fuck. Pretty with C cup tits and great legs. I'm frustrated but not giving up.
 
Wives who love the lifestyle now but at first were lukewarm… what happened to change you from take it or leave it to Love It? Interested in what obstacles or things that turned you off that you initially perceived (time/effort/etc) to seeing it as a ton of fun and then making it a normal part of your life.
Such a good question! Ladies please share your insight with us. It could be helpful with those in the early stages of talking about it with their wives/gf’s
 
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