Edin couple
Male
Hi all from Edinburgh! Just wanted to put our story out there to get opinions from you around where you think we’re at and whether it’s at the point of just accepting this is a fantasy.
me and my wife have been together since high school and married for 10 years. We’ve had some real tough times over the years as is the same with every relationship but feel we’re in the strongest place we’ve ever been. We’ve got busy lives with *******, work etc
sexually, things really opened up between us after I came out as bisexual. We’ve experimented with toys, pegging, role play and watching porn together.
I’ve seen the advice on here around watching IR porn together and using a BBC dildo - we already do that. We have hot dirty talk whilst playing this way too, me asking her if she could take what the women on the porn is taking and she always responds positively.
last week, after quite a few drinks we ended up getting the bbc dildo out and watching porn. Not sure if it was the right moment but I mentioned to her then about cuckolding and that I’d be open to her sleeping with another guy if that’s what she wanted. Her response was one of confusion, saying she doesn’t fully understand why I’d want to see that and generally I got negative vibes from her.
Since then, things have been totally fine between us and thankfully it’s like she hasn’t built up any resentment towards me for sharing my fantasy with her.
Should I just leave the ball in her court and leave it to her to bring the topic back up or her to suggest the role play with porn and the BBC dildo or would you try and bring up the subject again. Sorry for the long post and would appreciate some advice, thanks
me and my wife have been together since high school and married for 10 years. We’ve had some real tough times over the years as is the same with every relationship but feel we’re in the strongest place we’ve ever been. We’ve got busy lives with *******, work etc
sexually, things really opened up between us after I came out as bisexual. We’ve experimented with toys, pegging, role play and watching porn together.
I’ve seen the advice on here around watching IR porn together and using a BBC dildo - we already do that. We have hot dirty talk whilst playing this way too, me asking her if she could take what the women on the porn is taking and she always responds positively.
last week, after quite a few drinks we ended up getting the bbc dildo out and watching porn. Not sure if it was the right moment but I mentioned to her then about cuckolding and that I’d be open to her sleeping with another guy if that’s what she wanted. Her response was one of confusion, saying she doesn’t fully understand why I’d want to see that and generally I got negative vibes from her.
Since then, things have been totally fine between us and thankfully it’s like she hasn’t built up any resentment towards me for sharing my fantasy with her.
Should I just leave the ball in her court and leave it to her to bring the topic back up or her to suggest the role play with porn and the BBC dildo or would you try and bring up the subject again. Sorry for the long post and would appreciate some advice, thanks
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