I have been on this site for quite awhile. Like most members I guess, I had started skipping thru the forums as a guest first, then went on to register, then began to post a little something here and there. I thought about writing an introduction a long time ago already but never did. I thought many people here must have noticed the one or the other thing I have posted so there would be no need to late introduce myself anyway, right?
However recently I encountered a guy who seemed quite interested, even run a websearch for me in order to find me on other websites too. Not quite sure what his intent was as he never told me. - Maybe he was just hunting for white dick. *LOL* Anyway, for those who are interested...
I am a white man in his early forties from a German speaking country in central Europe, happily single and not looking to meet up with anyone from this site at this time.
I have been interested in human sexuality and especially alternative adult lifestyles for as long as I can remember. I thrive to understand the psychical and societal twists individuals and couples experience once they decide to start a different lifestyle than the socially promoted traditional monogamous one, and (to understand) the reasons behind their move toward the alternative. Also I wonder if there are biological functions or reasons for the great diversity of available/existing lifestyles people choose. - So much for the "theory".
On the other hand I am but a horny lad with a rather high sex drive.
In my personal life I have my job, family and friends, and a few ladies I turn to for the occasional o's before I begin to feel I am missing out. I absolutely love good sex, and I was always fascinated with and attracted to kinky playful ladies with a high libido and I still am.
Here are a few reasons why I am on this site (and keep coming back)...
Some things that distract, bother or annoy me (in no particular order)...
And now that someone had asked...
And yes, I also have fantasies. And I consider that important too! Without having ideas or pictures running in our heads noone would even have a sex life. Fantasies are a prerequisite to an adult lifestyle of whatever shape or form.
Anyone who has questions about me, myself and I, or anything else that came up your mind while reading this post... you are welcome and invited to ask/reply here.
C. U. & Keep on flirting, kissing, groping and fucking; and have a lot of o's (may they be physical or mental ones)!
However recently I encountered a guy who seemed quite interested, even run a websearch for me in order to find me on other websites too. Not quite sure what his intent was as he never told me. - Maybe he was just hunting for white dick. *LOL* Anyway, for those who are interested...
I am a white man in his early forties from a German speaking country in central Europe, happily single and not looking to meet up with anyone from this site at this time.
I have been interested in human sexuality and especially alternative adult lifestyles for as long as I can remember. I thrive to understand the psychical and societal twists individuals and couples experience once they decide to start a different lifestyle than the socially promoted traditional monogamous one, and (to understand) the reasons behind their move toward the alternative. Also I wonder if there are biological functions or reasons for the great diversity of available/existing lifestyles people choose. - So much for the "theory".
On the other hand I am but a horny lad with a rather high sex drive.
In my personal life I have my job, family and friends, and a few ladies I turn to for the occasional o's before I begin to feel I am missing out.
I absolutely love good sex, and I was always fascinated with and attracted to kinky playful ladies with a high libido and I still am.Here are a few reasons why I am on this site (and keep coming back)...
- I am already used to it. ( )
- It is well-programmed and easy-to-use. (Thanks to the B2w-crew for doing a pretty good job and the continuous improvements.)
- It is quite entertaining. (I cannot even count or remember how many times it made me laugh or shake my head. *SmH* )
- Real people having real discussions about topics related to adult lifestyles. (Unfortunately those are relatively rare. )
- Real people sharing their real lifestyle experiences. (Stories, interviews, pictures and short video flicks posted by REAL lifestylers, NOT porn productions you can find elsewhere in tons.)
Some things that distract, bother or annoy me (in no particular order)...
- Disrespectful and rude people
- Name-calling without being asked for
- Objectification of people
- Sexist and racist statements or undertone
- Assumptions made about unknown individuals
- Generalizations made about groups of people
- Fakes (= people impersonating someone who they are not) no matter verified or not
- Dick pics
- Media threads in a forum intended for discussion
- Porn (I like some of it but use other sites for that)
And now that someone had asked...
I had been involved in swinging with an ex girlfriend of mine (relationship of ~9 years, ~6 years of swinging); My previous relationship of six years included two years of occasionally sharing my ex with other men of all colors. I had been in other relationships, shorter ones, that had been monogamous for the most part; one had been long distance. Inbetween those I had been single and playing so, yes, I have a reasonable amount of experience in the real world.
And yes, I also have fantasies. And I consider that important too! Without having ideas or pictures running in our heads noone would even have a sex life. Fantasies are a prerequisite to an adult lifestyle of whatever shape or form.
Anyone who has questions about me, myself and I, or anything else that came up your mind while reading this post... you are welcome and invited to ask/reply here.
C. U. & Keep on flirting, kissing, groping and fucking; and have a lot of o's (may they be physical or mental ones)!
