New to the lifestyle *UPDATE*

Since my last post, we have had alot more time to talk out the fantasy and how we would want it to go. She has grown more and more willing to try it out. Once we have more time to devote to it, I can see it actually becoming a reality. We have listened to the Venus Cuckoldress podcast several times, she is learning how diverse and loving a cuckold relationship can be.

When I originally presented it to her, my only experience with cuckolding was porn, she didn't care for how degrading it was and how much shame is involved. She only wanted to support something that was positive for both of us. Now, we both have learned it can be any way we set it up to be.

She is going to go out with some girlfriends of her's and flirt with some guys and see how that feels. It's coming together very organically and I'm surprised at how much our relationship has deepened and intensified since chastity and our discussions.

Anyone else who is nervous about sharing it with your wife, you should just go for it. Don't push just be open. If nothing else it will stop being a shameful secret you hold inside. I feel so much better about myself now that its not just a hidden porn fantasy. Hell porn doesn't interest me much at all now. I'd much rather have an intimate talk with my wife. Good luck to the fellow wannabes!
 
Sidenote: she still doesn't care much about the interracial aspect in the way that I do. She just hasn't really thought of race as a important factor in her attraction to men. Which, as we talk more and more, I'm starting to give up my infatuation with IR. I still would like that but I want her to feel free to explore her own desires.
 
Sidenote: she still doesn't care much about the interracial aspect in the way that I do. She just hasn't really thought of race as a important factor in her attraction to men. Which, as we talk more and more, I'm starting to give up my infatuation with IR. I still would like that but I want her to feel free to explore her own desires.
Has she explored and had fun please tell
 
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