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I’m 18, I’ve been w my gf for a year. She doesn’t know I’ve been addicted to bbc and interracial porn since I was 15 and I imagine one fucking her all the time. I love her w all my heart. But my mind has been fucked by bbc and interracial porn. I’m 6.5 hard but I like staying soft to feel inferior. The problem is sometimes I can’t even get hard to have sex with her, and that only makes my addiction worse can anyone help me???
 
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Just out of curiosity, you originally posted a pic of your dick. You also ask for help on here? How is asking or seeking help any more embarrassing?
 
Just out of curiosity, you originally posted a pic of your dick. You also ask for help on here? How is asking or seeking help any more embarrassing?
Bc I recognize I have a problem and I feel like a lot of other guys do too, and I wanted some insight on what to do. Embarrassing yes but it’s necessary Bc I want to be happy w my girl.
 
I’m 18, I’ve been w my gf for a year. She doesn’t know I’ve been addicted to bbc and interracial porn since I was 15 and I imagine one fucking her all the time. I love her w all my heart. But my mind has been fucked by bbc and interracial porn. I’m 6.5 hard but I like staying soft to feel inferior. The problem is sometimes I can’t even get hard to have sex with her, and that only makes my addiction worse can anyone help me???

Stop using porn as a means to manage your anxiety. Excessive jerking off will affect your erectile functions. And all the while you're fleeing an anxiogenic reality through porn, your mind is altered evermore every time. But don't worry. That thing fixes itself. Just quit it and find new hobbies. Do things that make you happy; genuinely happy. And undertake tasks and projects that will foster a sense of competence in you. It's your life. Porn addiction has worse effects than people generally think - and it's easier dealt with than you may think. Just be happy :)

And if you really must go on Internet to manage anxieties, I suggest watching videos of what Jordan Peterson might have to say on the topics that seem to preoccupy you.
 
Stop using porn as a means to manage your anxiety. Excessive jerking off will affect your erectile functions. And all the while you're fleeing an anxiogenic reality through porn, your mind is altered evermore every time. But don't worry. That thing fixes itself. Just quit it and find new hobbies. Do things that make you happy; genuinely happy. And undertake tasks and projects that will foster a sense of competence in you. It's your life. Porn addiction has worse effects than people generally think - and it's easier dealt with than you may think. Just be happy :)
So if I stop everything will return to normal? Even after constant bbc ******* porn ?
 
So if I stop everything will return to normal? Even after constant bbc ******* porn ?

Just do it.
If you want to foster a sense of pride, competence and self-worth, you need to sacrifice the pleasures you have come to enjoy through porn. I will tell you this: the genuine intimacy between a man and a woman is a whole other level of fulfillment - much higher than any PornHub video will ever bring you. Sacrifice the pale pleasures you know for the ones that are evidently calling you to become a higher verison of yourself.
 
If this is real and that what is happening to you, you need to fix it now, it seems impossible but its not trust me, porn is very unhealthy especially if you have a girlfriend, and addictions are horrible, combining the two is a recipe for disaster. I feel for you man I do, but heres the way out:

-Sleep earlier and wake up earlier
-Eat healthier and get all vital minerals
-Exercise everyday both cardio and weights
-Pick-up hobbies like reading and anything productive
-Enjoy and treasure your time with her and do the same with friends
-Try to take steps to further your potential career

Trust me if you do all these things you will not only get back to even better than normal with a much better outlook on life, but your girl will see you as even better than before too, you will be able to get and maintain erections perhaps even better than before, and truly enjoy love making with your girlfriend, you'll be healthier, happier and life will seem alot less confusing, Its all about forsing your body to realise that addiction doesn't control you, you do.
Tysm I needed this.
 
Tysm I needed this.
I’ve always struggled with addictions, I was addicted to xanax and lean for the better part of the last two years of high school, and I broke through that so I believe that it really is possible for me, although I am somewhat of an alcoholic right now, that is something I will deal with in time. Alcohol isn’t nearly as bad as the two I said so I don’t think this will be as bad as that as long as my body doesn’t become completely dependent on it.
 
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