My white wife has brought up Black Men..

Yes well put that's where i am at
. Then the easiest way is to " notice" the mixed couples and white women with mixed race ******* while shopping. Provides the perfect "innocent " intro to sex with black men. Some locations now have more people of different races and more I R mixing. However , sex with BM and sex with others may be two distinct topics for discussions. Some women have more sexual " experience" than others. Some women have a " history" and others do not. Some women are very aggressive sexually and others remain more reserved.
 
Load some porn. Play a little and then say. Here's a different idea I saw.... And load a BBC cuckold vid. Show her the hubby watching the wife get fucked good and hard and getting filled with that hot thick seed. And make sure it's one where the hubby cleans up the creampie. If shes interested in the vid. She'll love seeing him cum deep in the wife. But when he cleans up the wife make a comment that you'd do that for her if she wanted as long as u can at least watch. Maybe help her suck it. Let her know she can go big, u want to treat her. I bet she'll take the bait.

Your "load some porn" idea is a good one, and I've used it more than once. It answers a lot of questions. I'd go with standard IR porn first before loading up the cuck porn, even if that's what is really wanted. It is amazing when a girl's pussy gets soaked just watching IR porn.
 
Your "load some porn" idea is a good one, and I've used it more than once. It answers a lot of questions. I'd go with standard IR porn first before loading up the cuck porn, even if that's what is really wanted. It is amazing when a girl's pussy gets soaked just watching IR porn.
. Yes. Most women who watch the. I R porn are stimulated. Even those who throw things at you for suggesting she would do that. ( And then later sneak back to watch more of it until they have orgasms ). Always good if the woman / women in the porn have orgams too. Later , maybe after she has watched several porn videos and she is clearly turned on and perhaps had several orgasms , you can begin whispering about BBC in her hot wet pussy and see how she responses. Even better if she is riding you cowgirl and she has a big orgasms when you start taling about BBC in her pussy. Then you have a sign that she is hot for it even if she needs more time before she will entertain a black bull.
 
Of course she wants to have sex with black men, if she hasn't already. She probably thinks that if she allows you to push her further, she'll have to admit that she wants it more than anything... but is unsure about how you truly feel about it. You set the hook. Let it be for a while.
 
Of course she wants to have sex with black men, if she hasn't already. She probably thinks that if she allows you to push her further, she'll have to admit that she wants it more than anything... but is unsure about how you truly feel about it. You set the hook. Let it be for a while.
Great thoughts but how should i proceed
 
Great thoughts but how should i proceed
Don't push it, I did and we're hitting a dead end. If I could do it over I'd take her out to places where she could interact and figure out if she's interested. Work with her reaction, don't waste it. I'm taking mine out to a reggae band tomorrow and hoping we can get back on track.
 
Great thoughts but how should i proceed

It won't happen on its own. You have to DO something. Do you watch porn with her? If so, a good first step is to put on some IR porn. I she likes some romance in her porn, maybe some DFW Knight would be a good place to start, because he does a lot of kissing and foreplay with the white wife before fucking her and loading up her pussy.
 
Thanks for the thoughts.. You don't think i should bring it up at all?
I mean you could bring it up. Maybe after you guys just had sex or even better before, whenever you guys are just bs’ing with each other. First tell her to promise you that she won’t judge you or think different of you...make yourself kind of vulnerable and at her mercy. Then say something like “ can I ask you something babe? Is it weird that I got a little excited When we were talking in the car the other day.” And then gauge her reaction from there. More than likely it will go smooth, and the door will be even closer to opening and the subject can be brought up easier and easier. Plus she will appreciate your honesty... if she’s the type that values truth.
 
I mean you could bring it up. Maybe after you guys just had sex or even better before, whenever you guys are just bs’ing with each other. First tell her to promise you that she won’t judge you or think different of you...make yourself kind of vulnerable and at her mercy. Then say something like “ can I ask you something babe? Is it weird that I got a little excited When we were talking in the car the other day.” And then gauge her reaction from there. More than likely it will go smooth, and the door will be even closer to opening and the subject can be brought up easier and easier. Plus she will appreciate your honesty... if she’s the type that values truth.
Great thoughts, Thank you. I want to tell her so bad how i feel
 
Great thoughts, Thank you. I want to tell her so bad how i feel
I mean if you think about it, all you are doing is sharing a fantasy of yours with your spouse. You should be able to that without repercussion. It’s worth a shot to just mention the fantasy and get it out there. Maybe even let her see you get hard as you are telling her about it. This is kinda how I got the subject out there with my wife and looking back I think it all went pretty smooth. I had to ensure her that it wasn’t because I wanted the same freedom or that I was bored or tired of her
 
I wonder how common this is, and for the wife never to admit it through fear of upsetting her white husband..

I think it's very common -- that's why it's important for the white husband or bf to work on her to make her comfortable and let her know it's cool. Even watching IR vids and saying "that's hot" in front of her can relax her and let her know it's ok for her to express how good it looks watching a black man fuck a white girl. That's only the start.
 
great thread! and great replies by WillandSusn.

some personal questions (please ignore, if you prefer).

"I have tried bring it up again she doesn't seem to want to talk about it ... Sex is rare nowadays"

how often? less than once a week? less than once a month?

do you masturbate? how often? in her presence? alone? both?
 
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