Milking the hubby

Agreed 100%. Hubby 100% loses interest after orgasm. I do NOT let him orgasm apart from wet dreams and a very occasional HJ. I mean rare. But before a date, never. Not even a consideration as far as I am concerned. He is there (not always) to watch me get services by a stallion or two. Not to orgasm during my enjoyment. Exactly like this evening.
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so speaks the real QUEEN of Chastity. poor Michael married to the woman of his dreams
and ruled by his QUEEN of a Bitch of chastity.
love this girl
 
Looks amazing. All hubbies need to be milked before the date so that they don't cum in the middle of action and lose their interest. As soon as hubby cums he wants to end the session and leave. It is like getting this guilt feeling and getting uncomfortable watching me getting fucked and moaning. When he has not cum, he stays very horny and does everything including eating creampie out of my pussy and even fluffing the bull if the bull feels comfortable with it.
This is very true x
 
Hubby will not get any releases before or after my dates, I meet my black lover two to three times a week and hubby will get a release max. once per month, I call it release because it is cum dribbling for health reasons and no sex, I strictly separated any sexual activities from it. It should be as short and less pleasurable as possible, ideally with a semi-erect penis only. I don't like the view of a erect small penis, it is like he would say" I want to use your pussy for masturbation " (thanks god this is over for ever) while the erect penis of my lovers says "I want to give you fantastic orgasms".
Since hubby is in chastity (even before I started cuckolding) he had to learn that orgasm are for the wife only, he had to learn to enjoy my orgasms like and instead his own ones in his brain (not with his penis any more) and he can have a lot of these orgasms (from licking me, playing with toys and sex machines....)
 
I was a wannabe for a long time, so I sincerely don't mean for this to sound like a mean-spirited or judgmental post. I totally get that some people haven't found what they're looking for yet, and they still have lots of fantasies in the meantime. They probably see lots of porn and only see the same type of scene over and over again, and have thus developed an idea of what it must look like to live this kind of life. But to me it seems like so many single men looking for a female led and/or cuckold relationship REALLY want there to be strict rituals and universal laws to this kind of play. How many threads start with:
"Should all white men have to _______?”

Don't statements like, "Milking should ALWAYS take place at _______ time, and take _______ long, and be done like _______,” take all the fun out of the fantasy? Why does anyone want a woman who follows rules set by horny, single, lonely would-be slaves? Especially if they're saying the woman should be in charge!

My wife has kept me in chastity for over ten years and goes on playdates with black bulls whenever she wants, sometimes with me and sometimes without. Know when she milks my cock? I'll give you a hint. It's the same time she does anything else having to do with our sex life together: whenever she damn well feels like it. No more, no less.

I understand needing discipline and rules as a submissive. My wife has some, and everyone's are different. But to us, chastity would be SO boring if I knew when I'd be getting a release. For my wife, the fun is in the fact that SHE has the control. For me, what makes me feel submissive is knowing I am 100% at her mercy. I don't know when she will unlock me next. When she does, I don't know if she'll have me shower and then put a cage back on immediately, or if she'll have me edge for her first, or if she'll lather up her hands and tease my dick until I'm a whimpering, raw nerve. I don't know if she will have sex with me, or dry hump me, or tickle the tip of my dick with the light touch of a single fingernail for a while before locking me back up and shifting our attention to her pleasure. If she does choose to play with my dick, I don't know how long it will last. If she decides to let me cum, I don't know until the moment arrives whether I'll get a real orgasm or just another ruined one, being left wanting to scream in frustration and desire when she withdraws her touch and my throbbing hard-on just bobs around in the air for a few seconds before leaking a pathetic and unsatisfying dribble on my belly, the shower floor, or wherever we happen to be when she decides this would be a fun way to spend some time with her horny, denied cuck.

Not only does she enjoy having real control over me, rather than just enforcing rules based on scripted scenes she knows I'll learn to predict, I truly believe that most of the time SHE doesn't know the answer to any of those questions ahead of time either. She enjoys spontaneously doing whatever feels good to her, and decides what feels good whenever it occurs to her.

The last point I'll make is that seldom is she going to waste time performing some kind of ritual with me before going on a playdate. In real life, schedules are busy. If I'm going to be able to join her, she might tell me which cage to wear, but that's about it. Otherwise I'm taking the ******* to wherever they're being looked after. Whether I'm joining her or not, she's putting on makeup and sexy clothes as quickly as possible so she has as much playtime with her bull as she can squeeze into the night. She can tease my dick whenever she wants. Why waste time doing it before a date with someone else?

I'm not saying our way is the one right way. If the weird cuckold bylaws and rituals single men talk about in forums work for you, by all means, knock yourselves out. It's just really strange to live this lifestyle 100% of the time and come into a forum supposedly dedicated to it, only to find out we're apparently doing it wrong. I hope it doesn't ruin anyone's fantasy to hear this, but most real people I've met who engage in this style of play don't spend their actual lives acting out porn scripts the exact same way every day. They spend the time they can carve out for play trying new things and pushing their boundaries and being creative with the partners that really get their juices flowing. That's just my experience. YMMV.
 
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White hubbies need milking regular to keep them submissive and empty while black bulls takes their wives
Yeah, I read that the first time, and totally disagree, as you can read above. No need to repeat yourself.

I am submissive when I'm aroused and obedient when I'm told to do things. I don't "need milking regular," I need to be kept in whatever state of arousal my keyholder wants me to be in. In fact, I'd argue that getting any kind of release, "milking" or otherwise, is far more likely to make most men LESS submissive, not more. I'm not trying to argue with whatever works for you, but the general idea behind tease and denial is that you're at your most submissive when you're aroused but don't get any release.

But I digress. My whole point was that universal rules that use language like "white hubbies need ______" seem silly to me. To me, the whole point is for the Dom(me) to decide the rules of play for her/his sub her/himself. In the kink world, when subs and wannabes start trying to insist on certain rules, that's called "topping from the bottom," and is typically something an inexperienced sub is quickly trained not to do.

So by all means, fantasize about whatever you like, and play however floats your boat. But maybe try to refrain from telling people with long-term working D/s relationships that yours is the only correct way to do things, especially after logical reasons for doing it another way have been offered? Or maybe at least address why you think we're incorrect?

To us, doubling down on this kind of universal point just says, "I've never actually gotten to try living this stuff out, but if I were my own Dom, I'd make this the rule." Are we wrong about that?
 
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