I have had a long-standing obsession in having my pretty mature wife blackened. I have not shared this kink with her. Of late, much to my surprise, she has been overt in commenting on sexy black guys she has encountered. We are now empty-nesters she perhaps is contributing to her current openness about her obvious physical attraction to some black men.How do I use this apparent attraction she has to an encouragement on my part to have her date a black guy?