Ok this is sort of a rant and i hope I don't upset anyone but here goes.
We belong to a couple of swinger sites our profile states that we are seeking BBC only. Recently we were contacted by a gentleman that did not have in non private pics.
This is how his PM started out
"I liked your profile. Would you be interested to meet a spicy, erotic man of color? " and this was my answer "well she likes the BBC i like to watch but some times i enjoy her being alone with them also turns me on just as much knowing she is with some one "
Now here is the problem we were very close to setting up a play date and this guy finally opened his private pic and the dude was whiter than I am. And well the color contrast is part of what gets my wife and I off. Now i know where we live there are a lot of dark skin Hispanic's and they like to say they have BBC and I don't really feel that way.
So the question is does the term BBC only belong to African Americans (I hate that term) was it wrong for my wife to politely decline this guy based on that alone? What would others have done
We belong to a couple of swinger sites our profile states that we are seeking BBC only. Recently we were contacted by a gentleman that did not have in non private pics.
This is how his PM started out
"I liked your profile. Would you be interested to meet a spicy, erotic man of color? " and this was my answer "well she likes the BBC i like to watch but some times i enjoy her being alone with them also turns me on just as much knowing she is with some one "
Now here is the problem we were very close to setting up a play date and this guy finally opened his private pic and the dude was whiter than I am. And well the color contrast is part of what gets my wife and I off. Now i know where we live there are a lot of dark skin Hispanic's and they like to say they have BBC and I don't really feel that way.
So the question is does the term BBC only belong to African Americans (I hate that term) was it wrong for my wife to politely decline this guy based on that alone? What would others have done