Something like this happened to me, I was seeing this Marine and he was being sent to another base. So we were together one last time (it wasn't too serious) and I didn't know he had put up a camera... about a month later, I got a text from him that he had done it, and he felt bad about it. So he sent me the file, and I was pretty pissed at first, but the video kinda grew on me after a little bit. One day my computer had issues and stopped working and it was the only place I had it, and I certainly wasn't taking it to Best Buy to have them stumble across my video, lol. I lost touch with him since, it was in 2015, and if he still has it he's being super cool about it as I've never seen it pop up on any porn sites.