Looking for a discrete encounter... again

Well... I am from NC, 35 years old female... in great shape with a great personality.
I've met one individual from here but ended up being not what i expect it... he was a nice educated gentleman but we just didnt click.
Now i am trying again... i know online meeting can take a while and patience is the key so if you are looking to get with someone fast i suggest you move on and look somewhere else please, i rather take my time and get to know the person and see if we can match and hopefully get to the more confortable side of things if you know what i mean :)
Thank you all!!