CarlGA
Male
Hi I already made a thread asking about my lovely girlfriend but I believe I was very vague about the situation.
So I've been with Brittney for about 3 years. Our relationship is good tbf but some of her behaviours confuse me and make me have questions. First example is about her personal trainer at the gym. He is black. She chooses to go to the gym between the time his shift is up. Whenever he reschedules for the day, Brittney does the impossible to be there at the same time he'll be there. When I've asked her about this behaviour she's responded me that apparently the guy is very good at assisting her, knowledgeable, patient and his workouts gave her great results over the year. She even said to me that if he leaves the gym she would follow him at the other one he'll join. Overall she loves working out there and its very rare she misses a day. Another example is with one of her best friends boyfriend. Her friend is dating a black man and Brittney has high regards of him. Truthfully he's arrogant and I find it hard staying with him for more than 10 min but to her he is cool and enjoys talking to him (her words). I've noticed that she gets excited whenever she meets him and they seem to have some chemistry. Often when we gather with a lot more people they like separating from the rest to talk with each other. She kinda has the same relationship with this guy's brother too. There are other circumstances with other people where she is much more firendly with black guys than whites. Tbh I'm very confused about her behavior and I feel like not going into conclusions yet. Hopefully I get some better opinions from you.
P.S.
Btw she already told me she used to date a few black guys and that she was done with them in general without telling me the reasons.
So I've been with Brittney for about 3 years. Our relationship is good tbf but some of her behaviours confuse me and make me have questions. First example is about her personal trainer at the gym. He is black. She chooses to go to the gym between the time his shift is up. Whenever he reschedules for the day, Brittney does the impossible to be there at the same time he'll be there. When I've asked her about this behaviour she's responded me that apparently the guy is very good at assisting her, knowledgeable, patient and his workouts gave her great results over the year. She even said to me that if he leaves the gym she would follow him at the other one he'll join. Overall she loves working out there and its very rare she misses a day. Another example is with one of her best friends boyfriend. Her friend is dating a black man and Brittney has high regards of him. Truthfully he's arrogant and I find it hard staying with him for more than 10 min but to her he is cool and enjoys talking to him (her words). I've noticed that she gets excited whenever she meets him and they seem to have some chemistry. Often when we gather with a lot more people they like separating from the rest to talk with each other. She kinda has the same relationship with this guy's brother too. There are other circumstances with other people where she is much more firendly with black guys than whites. Tbh I'm very confused about her behavior and I feel like not going into conclusions yet. Hopefully I get some better opinions from you.
P.S.
Btw she already told me she used to date a few black guys and that she was done with them in general without telling me the reasons.
