Is it socially acceptable to be a real man, and still enjoy watching your wife in action?

[jd08]

I am pretty alpha, good with women and very, very dominant in bed. And yet I want to have my girl (well i'm single atm so future girl) have sex with someone else. It's a loss of power thing for me, that's what excites me, getting with some hottie and being normal 99% of the time but occasionally she goes and does something like that. The sexual jealousy part turns me on. Having her tease me, recount the experience etc. Only realised when I was seeing this girl who had a mmf threesome with two black guys in college. She'd tell me that story to make me cum! But annoyingly had no desire to sleep with anyone. Fair enough. So yeah i'm not into watching (bar dancing together etc) nor humiliation, if someone tried it wouldn't be too pretty! But sex with her post fucking with another guy and getting teased? Fuck yeah. Having a girl appear one thing to friends/family and another to me is exciting as well. Also a girl fulfilling her every fantasy, living a life where she has total freedom turns me on But the generic ''cuckold'' stuff does fa for me.

Oh and I've also been a bull. My friend is a bit of a wimp and I dated a friend of his ex who told her what I was like and then he was fine with me screwing her and being incredibly rough and degrading her (which is what she found lacking in him btw) So I've had it from that perspective and it is hot but now I want the other side you know?

 

[Dan&Debbie]

I am pretty alpha, good with women and very, very dominant in bed. And yet I want to have my girl (well i'm single atm so future girl) have sex with someone else. It's a loss of power thing for me, that's what excites me, getting with some hottie and being normal 99% of the time but occasionally she goes and does something like that. The sexual jealousy part turns me on. Having her tease me, recount the experience etc. Only realised when I was seeing this girl who had a mmf threesome with two black guys in college. She'd tell me that story to make me cum! But annoyingly had no desire to sleep with anyone. Fair enough. So yeah i'm not into watching (bar dancing together etc) nor humiliation, if someone tried it wouldn't be too pretty! But sex with her post fucking with another guy and getting teased? Fuck yeah. Having a girl appear one thing to friends/family and another to me is exciting as well. Also a girl fulfilling her every fantasy, living a life where she has total freedom turns me on But the generic ''cuckold'' stuff does fa for me.

Oh and I've also been a bull. My friend is a bit of a wimp and I dated a friend of his ex who told her what I was like and then he was fine with me screwing her and being incredibly rough and degrading her (which is what she found lacking in him btw) So I've had it from that perspective and it is hot but now I want the other side you know?

Glad I'm not alone. I think the tinge of jealously is plenty enough humiliation, without having to be in a cage.

 

[Idowives0763]

First off, fuck society and it's views of anybody that wants to enjoy consenting adult fun in their bedrooms. Second, to each their own because somebody somewhere doesn't get a man wanting his wife to fuck another guy period. If we're just here to judge we're all fucked and doing something wrong.

In short, enjoy your kinks and let others enjoy their. At the end of the day, it's the couples or adults playing together that count.

This is certainly an interesting thread and off all the responses that I've read, this is the one that resonates with me the most.The most important thing about this lifestyle is that, at the end of the day, you have found something that both you and your partner enjoy. With everything going on nowadays, that is something you should really be happy to have because trust me, the average couple out there would love to have something that they both have fun doing that doesn't involve family or decorating.

What I do find cringe worthy is the amount of judgement I see directed towards those who enjoy cuckolding by those who either do not practice it or do not understand it. Tbh, there is really nothing to understand. If it's not your thing, let those who do enjoy it enjoy it and keep it moving. The same way that you point your finger at them (by you I mean those who judge) there is a vanilla couple behind you doing EXACTLY THE SAME THING TO YOU. If anything, non cuckold couples should feel a sense of camaraderie with cuckold couples for this reason alone.."hey great that you guys found something that you can both share and bring you great satisfaction and happiness. We don't practice that particular activity, but we both love what we share as well. Best of luck to you". Wouldn't it be nice if things were this simple?

Ok, climbing off my soapbox..I now return you to your regularly scheduled programming..lol

 

[SecretPlayWife]

I find there's a rapidly growing trend for non-cuckold hotwifing.

I think the reason is because hotwifing is going mainstream, and the more it moves from fantasy to you actually trying to find a person, the more you want to be able to easily determine if the hookup is just male-female sex or if the person is into a fetish.

Stag is the term for husbands or boyfriends who share their lady without being themselves into bi, sissy, or humiliation play. (contrast with cuckold)

Stallion is the term for the guys who seek to have sex with taken ladies without any intent of demeaning the husband or boyfriend. (contrast with bull)

Vixen is the term for a taken lady to who is shared but doesn't deny or humiliate her man (contrast with hotwife)

No offense to those who are cuckold (some of our good friends prefer that fetish), but my husband and I are stag/vixen and seek black stallions.

I have a lot of couples who are fans of my tumblr and one of the most common private messages I get is from couples who play with non-BBCs because they misperceive every BBC hookup as being highly fetishized because of pervasive black-superiority porn, and they want to avoid that while gaining the benefit of the animalistic sex, large cocks and allure of sex with good looking black men. I assure them they won't have any trouble finding black stallions.

 

[KeikoandSarge]

If you let other men fuck a woman you are married to, you are not a real man. Period.

Then why are you on this site if you feel that way? im Guessing then you are hard core cuck then?

 

[IROCCouple]

I find there's a rapidly growing trend for non-cuckold hotwifing.

I think the reason is because hotwifing is going mainstream, and the more it moves from fantasy to you actually trying to find a person, the more you want to be able to easily determine if the hookup is just male-female sex or if the person is into a fetish.

Stag is the term for husbands or boyfriends who share their lady without being themselves into bi, sissy, or humiliation play. (contrast with cuckold)

Stallion is the term for the guys who seek to have sex with taken ladies without any intent of demeaning the husband or boyfriend. (contrast with bull)

Vixen is the term for a taken lady to who is shared but doesn't deny or humiliate her man (contrast with hotwife)

No offense to those who are cuckold (some of our good friends prefer that fetish), but my husband and I are stag/vixen and seek black stallions.

I have a lot of couples who are fans of my tumblr and one of the most common private messages I get is from couples who play with non-BBCs because they misperceive every BBC hookup as being highly fetishized because of pervasive black-superiority porn, and they want to avoid that while gaining the benefit of the animalistic sex, large cocks and allure of sex with good looking black men. I assure them they won't have any trouble finding black stallions.



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[SpecificTastes]

I think you have it wrong. You see, I like it. I love watching a black guy literally own a cute white girl in front of him while he jacks off. I think it's hot when white women don't want to do this, at first, but once they feel a black cock in their mouth...

Let's be honest. She's used up at that point, never to return. It's hot when they realize what they've signed up for and have no control.

No, man, you have it wrong.

 

[poundcake26]

I think you have it wrong. You see, I like it. I love watching a black guy literally own a cute white girl in front of him while he jacks off. I think it's hot when white women don't want to do this, at first, but once they feel a black cock in their mouth...

Let's be honest. She's used up at that point, never to return. It's hot when they realize what they've signed up for and have no control.

No, man, you have it wrong.

There is no "wrong". Everyone has their individual taste. As long as what they're doing doesn't effect you in any way, there's no need to pass judgment.

 

[Beachescouple]

I just don't get it. I'm not judging wimps, but shouldn't there be more of a balance?

Play time and real life are two different things. I don't see mixing the two as being a very wise decision.