Is cuckolding a disease?

I am just wondering, when you feel like a cuckold or you want to share the wife. or do BDSM things. do you need to meet a psychologist? I am afraid of the whole idea to start controlling my real life, so i feel more down irl.

I don't think it is a disease but I do think a wide range of factors can lead to a cuckoldling lifestyle all ranging from both positive and negative variables.

Some people are born with alpha personalities and some more submissive. The lifestyle then becomes slightly more appealing to submissive types who would rather yield power to a more dominant *******.

Some cucks are pleasers. They are individuals who love nothing more than to please the ones they love and if that means finding another man who will take their own woman to a place of bliss that he can not he is more than willing to do that for her.

On the more sinister side some cuckolding can stem from traumatic experiences in childhood and adolescences. Bulling and abuse can make an individual feel less than those effects manifest themselves into a sexual lifestyle that reflects how the individual was made to feel back in their youth. In those cases I would say therapy might actually be a needed to flesh out the more deep rooted issue.

So I think cuckolds find themselves in the lifestyle through various routes and it is up to the cuckold to understand where his desire comes from.

Bulls are the same way we don't all get in the lifestyle because we see free pussy. Both Positive and traumatic experiences lead us here as well.
 
Can you stop it ? stop being cuckold ? in case ur wife meeting other, can u stop her and live with normal sex life ?
Once you start the lifestyle it is tough to stop! Some couples have but with one gf she couldn’t stop and wouldn’t stop. I think my ex would have stopped but we split for other reasons.

Now I’m in a normal relationship and yes I do miss the fetish lifestyle of Hotwife/cuckold but you can stop! It’s tough because you will miss it!
 
Once you start the lifestyle it is tough to stop! Some couples have but with one gf she couldn’t stop and wouldn’t stop. I think my ex would have stopped but we split for other reasons.

Now I’m in a normal relationship and yes I do miss the fetish lifestyle of Hotwife/cuckold but you can stop! It’s tough because you will miss it!

Nice, did you tell you new gf/wife about your fantasies or experience? if yes what was her answer ? or do you as person want to start again the same you did before with the first one ?
 
Nice, did you tell you new gf/wife about your fantasies or experience? if yes what was her answer ? or do you as person want to start again the same you did before with the first one ?
No my fiancée doesn’t know about me wanting to share her with others and black men. When we first started dating she would always say black men were constantly hitting on her (she has an body that black men want) so I would jokingly say that she was made for black men and she would reply that she wasn’t in to them and didn’t find them attractive. Occasionally she still brings it up but not as much! I do use black dildos in her and she enjoys them! So maybe some day but I’m not pushing it!
 
It is an addiction and this risky behavior jeopardizes families and couples. Even after logically knowing this, we still persist with this fetish?

How many wives did this to accommodate their husbands who said only one time and now the exception became the rule? Some wives resent their husband and feel that the husband only wants to so this to satisfy their twisted sexual fantasies

How many cuckolds thrive on the rush of endorphins to the brain? And are constantly trying for more and the next crazy or humiliating experience?

Can a cuckold go back to a monogamous relationship? Very few? Hence a pathological behavior that is probably incurable?

How many cuckolds are so damaged that they cannot get an erection unless watching their wives is involved?
 
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its all about size and contrast for us. me and my gf love to watch IR porn because it shows innocent looking white girls getting stretched and pounded hard the way a normal sized dick cant simply own a girl's pussy,hence the cuckolding desire is more of a desire for her to experience this lust and primal sexual pleasure with a man who is only there to provide that pleasure without getting in the way of the releationship
 
its all about size and contrast for us. me and my gf love to watch IR porn because it shows innocent looking white girls getting stretched and pounded hard the way a normal sized dick cant simply own a girl's pussy,hence the cuckolding desire is more of a desire for her to experience this lust and primal sexual pleasure with a man who is only there to provide that pleasure without getting in the way of the releationship
Can you get an erection if IR is not involved?
 
Any form of addiction is a disease. If this lifestyle starts to control you, then you might want to seek help just as you should with any other addiction.

Other than that, no I don't think it is a disease in a general sense.
 
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