Introducing My Wife to BBC Porn

: UPDATE: I think I`m going to try to buy Susan a black dildo soon. Should I just order her one from amazon? Or should I take her to the local adult mart and hope she picks out a nice black one to try?
Here's an idea. Talk to her rather than randos on the internet. She's pretty much showed you that she enjoys the sight of black man's naked bodies with white women. If you like that, and it certainly sounds like you do, tell her that it turns you on. That honesty with her will relieve her fears about opening up to you about it.

Then go slow. Suggest that you pick out a big black dildo for her. Tell her you'd really like to see her use it while both of you fantasize that she is with a black man. Pick out the one together, either online or at a local store.

Enjoy this stage. It might be best to not go past the it. The whole monogamous normative culture is practically screaming and shaming everyone to be exclusive for good reason. Relationships are hurt, hearts are broken, freedoms given then rescinded build restlessness and resentment.

But also suppressed passions fester. You both need to be able to communicate your fears as well as your desires openly and honestly. Before you proceed, you need to be prepared to let her go if that is best for her. However, being the best communicator and giving her more than she ever knew she wanted or dreamed she could have will make you an ideal partner. Trust and emotional intimacy is hard to come by.

So, unless she has told you to pick it out for her, buy her a big black dildo together.
 
Here's an idea. Talk to her rather than randos on the internet. She's pretty much showed you that she enjoys the sight of black man's naked bodies with white women. If you like that, and it certainly sounds like you do, tell her that it turns you on. That honesty with her will relieve her fears about opening up to you about it.

Then go slow. Suggest that you pick out a big black dildo for her. Tell her you'd really like to see her use it while both of you fantasize that she is with a black man. Pick out the one together, either online or at a local store.

Enjoy this stage. It might be best to not go past the it. The whole monogamous normative culture is practically screaming and shaming everyone to be exclusive for good reason. Relationships are hurt, hearts are broken, freedoms given then rescinded build restlessness and resentment.

But also suppressed passions fester. You both need to be able to communicate your fears as well as your desires openly and honestly. Before you proceed, you need to be prepared to let her go if that is best for her. However, being the best communicator and giving her more than she ever knew she wanted or dreamed she could have will make you an ideal partner. Trust and emotional intimacy is hard to come by.

So, unless she has told you to pick it out for her, buy her a big black dildo together.
could not agree with this post more. TALK TO HER and be honest. do it when you're both intimate/close without distractions.
 
Here's an idea. Talk to her rather than randos on the internet. She's pretty much showed you that she enjoys the sight of black man's naked bodies with white women. If you like that, and it certainly sounds like you do, tell her that it turns you on. That honesty with her will relieve her fears about opening up to you about it.

Then go slow. Suggest that you pick out a big black dildo for her. Tell her you'd really like to see her use it while both of you fantasize that she is with a black man. Pick out the one together, either online or at a local store.

Enjoy this stage. It might be best to not go past the it. The whole monogamous normative culture is practically screaming and shaming everyone to be exclusive for good reason. Relationships are hurt, hearts are broken, freedoms given then rescinded build restlessness and resentment.

But also suppressed passions fester. You both need to be able to communicate your fears as well as your desires openly and honestly. Before you proceed, you need to be prepared to let her go if that is best for her. However, being the best communicator and giving her more than she ever knew she wanted or dreamed she could have will make you an ideal partner. Trust and emotional intimacy is hard to come by.

So, unless she has told you to pick it out for her, buy her a big black dildo together.
Kate gives great advice here. Especially the parts about not rushing stages. Every stage is hot for different reasons. Consume it slowly and deliberately and the two of you can savor it longer. But first, just be honest. Tell her what she probably already knows by the way you keep choosing IR porn to watch and then asking her questions about it. Just tell her the truth, that you are so turned on by the idea of her getting aroused by black men. See how she responds. Go slow. Enjoy.
 
There isn't a too much, it's either you love it or you dont. These women didn't love their men the way they thought and the sex was more important to them than they had ever imagined. No safeguards are going to stop anybody from pursuing their burning desires. It's a game of Russian roulette, either the woman can manage her feelings or she can't.
In my experience typically no woman can manage those feelings. That's why it's better to be the bull.
 
Here's an idea. Talk to her rather than randos on the internet. She's pretty much showed you that she enjoys the sight of black man's naked bodies with white women. If you like that, and it certainly sounds like you do, tell her that it turns you on. That honesty with her will relieve her fears about opening up to you about it.

Then go slow. Suggest that you pick out a big black dildo for her. Tell her you'd really like to see her use it while both of you fantasize that she is with a black man. Pick out the one together, either online or at a local store.

Enjoy this stage. It might be best to not go past the it. The whole monogamous normative culture is practically screaming and shaming everyone to be exclusive for good reason. Relationships are hurt, hearts are broken, freedoms given then rescinded build restlessness and resentment.

But also suppressed passions fester. You both need to be able to communicate your fears as well as your desires openly and honestly. Before you proceed, you need to be prepared to let her go if that is best for her. However, being the best communicator and giving her more than she ever knew she wanted or dreamed she could have will make you an ideal partner. Trust and emotional intimacy is hard to come by.

So, unless she has told you to pick it out for her, buy her a big black dildo together.
I like this
 
I would be careful and set some guidelines. It is hot and personally love everything about black men but we had a couple that were friends of ours that he introduced her to being with black men. She loved it, of course but way too much. They had two small ******* and had been married 5 years. They had been seeing other men for only about two months, she wanted a divorce and left him. Happily married now with two more ******* and are still friends of ours! So the moral is bad for the man, great for her and new hubby!
That's the jackpot.Wife running away with black dick never to return. That's what every cuck craves. The humiliation is off the scale.
 
My wife Susan and I have been married about two years. She is a redhead 5' 2" tall and about 112 lbs. She is very shy and it`s hard to really know what she is thinking sometimes. I had been watching different kinds of porn for years before we met. I started to really get into interracial porn and started to sometimes picture her taking a big black cock. One good thing is that she enjoyed watching porn movies with me then would have sex it was great but it was always a white couple. So I wanted to see her reaction to white girls taking big black cocks. So One night I said lets watch something different. She said like what? I said you pick one between a black girl with a white guy. An all black couple having sex. Or a black man with a white girl. She thought about it for a second and said a black man with a white girl. I was a little surprised but exited. I clicked on a movie and she started watching it. Her eyes were kind of glued to the screen as a black guy with a huge cock started fucking this girl. I asked her what she thought, was it hot? She didn`t answer. So I asked her again. She just kind of laughed and said I don`t know. So I just let it go for a few months. Then we were about to have sex and I picked an all interracial movie. First scene was a black couple with a white girl. I asked her who do you want to see him fuck first? She said the white girl. I thought it was interesting, but we both enjoyed it. A few weeks later we were talking about our favorite scenes from movies that we had watched. I had asked her what her favorite threesome was and she said you remember then two black guys were fucking that white girl. I asked if she thought it was hot and she just king of went mmmmm. I said how would you like to be that girl with two black cocks in you. She said I`m sure I wouldn't be disappointed . So I think she is kind of into it but not sure how much. I did buy her a dildo about a year ago but it was not black. Not sure what my next steps are. The more I think about it the more I want to see her taking a black cock. Any of your input would be appreciated.
Any update?
 
an easy lesson/task for newbies:
After you've watched BBC porn with your girl and subsequently (later or immediately) got her off while
telling her how hot she'd look with her mouth getting BBC stretched, make this change: when watching BBC
from then on, tell her to take panties off and lift skirt (or pants down, etc). Then, make sure you keep
your pants ON and secured with a belt. Tell her this, "I just thought it'd be appropriate and respectful
of us, I think that when we've got BBC on our TV screen, you should keep your pussy exposed and I should
keep my pants on, you shouldn't be seeing or thinking about my cock, my white cock. We should both be
honest and admit we're thinking about big black cock, so let's show respect for BBC and for the girls
that worship BBC."
 
Also, newbies. I KNOW you want it (and want her) to be hardcore about BBC and about cuckolding...but KEEP THIS LIGHT and KEEP IT FUN, KEEP THINKING OF WAYS TO LEVERAGE IT IN A WAY THAT PUTS A SMILE ON HER FACE. Next time she and you are watching a BBC giving a hard face-fuck to a starlet wearing pigtails, while she's gagging and drooling, tell your girl that she has something very sexy in common with the starlet....and that is, neither your girl or the starlet is ever gonna ask you to face fuck them like that. And, further, tell your girl, "but I bet you'd let him do it, i bet you'd want him to do it to you." ...and then smile, laugh, tell her it's sexy, it's honest, it's fun !!! 4candiD.jpg
 
Also, newbies. I KNOW you want it (and want her) to be hardcore about BBC and about cuckolding...but KEEP THIS LIGHT and KEEP IT FUN, KEEP THINKING OF WAYS TO LEVERAGE IT IN A WAY THAT PUTS A SMILE ON HER FACE. Next time she and you are watching a BBC giving a hard face-fuck to a starlet wearing pigtails, while she's gagging and drooling, tell your girl that she has something very sexy in common with the starlet....and that is, neither your girl or the starlet is ever gonna ask you to face fuck them like that. And, further, tell your girl, "but I bet you'd let him do it, i bet you'd want him to do it to you." ...and then smile, laugh, tell her it's sexy, it's honest, it's fun !!! View attachment 6568852
The wife's "reluctance" to cuckold hubby is a clever psychological ploy. Your dumb husband will naively think all of the reservations you've overcome, all the doubts you've quashed all the fear you've conquered all because you love your husband.

All that BBC you'll be stretched out by. All the black dick you've agreed to take up your poop shoot! 😳 It's a one-way ticket to Orgasm City!! But you're not doing it for YOU, you're doing it for HIM! You're a brilliant wife who just wants to help facilitate your husband's happiness! He'll be forever indebted to you.

It's the biggest hustle since Van McCoy 😭😭😭 These cucks need a check up from the neck up. The wives just want to fuck fuck fuck. As soon as cuckold was floated she lit up like a Christmas Tree! This is what she's wanted forever.

Then the mind games, psyops, psych outs, lies, denials and gaslighting begin in earnest. And the cuck weasel is about to get devoured by the nympho. He doesn't stand a chance. He's been captured in her web of lies and will never escape.
 
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