Introducing Hubby
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Guess it depends on how your sex life is generally, is there role play etc, does he like to be sub, if active and interesting sex life then shouldn't be too difficult to incorporate it into some fantasy talk, most men seem to enjoy their wives with other cocks 
Are his needs something you could use to introduce BBC into the equation?, otherwise maybe you have to bite the bullet and have a frank discussion about your sex life and you feeling you want something more from it, it maybe that he wants the same, hence the decrease in your sex life as he really needs to be a cuck
You may find he would accept any increase in your sex life then if he doesn't particularly pressure you, does he view porn? can you see what he looks at? could already be enjoying cuck porn. No matter what it would look like it would have to start with a conversation around sex and what you both want from it, though would need to take it slowly unless he obviously got off on the thought, takes awhile to adjust your brain as a cuck to the reality of that lifestyle
That might be even harder then, most men, even cucks, do like to feel they are involved in the process. You would need to be in full control of him really, unless he has given up on sex all together. You are going to have to be very careful about how you approach the subject, ideally you need that sort of scenario to come from him
I'm tempted to say that if you have a good marriage, and you're able to fuck black guys on the side, don't risk spoiling it all, don't tell hubby.
But if you really want to, bring up the subject in general conversation 'mmm, look at this there are couples who's husbands like watching their wives with other men, black men' sort of thing. See his reaction, if he gets angry about it leave it. If he acts interested, push it along.
But if you really want to, bring up the subject in general conversation 'mmm, look at this there are couples who's husbands like watching their wives with other men, black men' sort of thing. See his reaction, if he gets angry about it leave it. If he acts interested, push it along.
Listen to her! My black wife knows i love sexy white milfs, doesnt want to know as long as i keep it away from home.
Ur hubby is better not knowing my milfs hubby doesnt know, im just her thick bbc , she constantly says she just blows him and let me fuck her when she needs it.
You have been lying and cheating long term, I would say damage is done. I am more than happy to let Lo get all the cock she wants but I never tolerate lying. You set up an impossible situation now you want a simple answer to make it work. You want to slut around, but you don't want to mess up your happy home. This probably can't be fixed. Tell him and hope for the best, stop cheating and hope he doesn't find out, or walk out on your family and put your desires first. I don't see other options. There are no magic bullets that allow you to make selfish choices and not have it affect your life.
oliver509
Couple
For what it's worth, I'll throw in my 2 cents.
It seems like there are a lot of people that are into this stuff, but that's just because we surround ourselves with like-minded people. In truth, I think we represent a very thin slice of the population. The chance to get him on-board with this, seem to me to be about as slim as winning the lottery. That doesn't mean it won't happen, and you can give it a shot.
But I'd say you should stop what you're doing right away. If two years go by and then he finds out, then you could say, yes I did that 2 years ago, I realized it was wrong and I stopped, and I'm sorry.
If you keep on doing this until he catches you, then please don't say you're sorry, because that will just make it worse for him. You're not sorry you did it, you're sorry you got caught doing it. There's a big difference.
Say you catch a robber in your house, stealing all your stuff. When you put the 44 mag up to his head, and he says, "I'm sorry." Is he really sorry he's robbing you, or is he really sorry that he's about to meet his maker?"
If you absolutely can't stop doing this, then you should confess to your husband. He deserves the right to be able to decide where it goes from here. If he ends the marriage, oh well. He wasn't the one who rolled the dice, you were.
It seems like there are a lot of people that are into this stuff, but that's just because we surround ourselves with like-minded people. In truth, I think we represent a very thin slice of the population. The chance to get him on-board with this, seem to me to be about as slim as winning the lottery. That doesn't mean it won't happen, and you can give it a shot.
But I'd say you should stop what you're doing right away. If two years go by and then he finds out, then you could say, yes I did that 2 years ago, I realized it was wrong and I stopped, and I'm sorry.
If you keep on doing this until he catches you, then please don't say you're sorry, because that will just make it worse for him. You're not sorry you did it, you're sorry you got caught doing it. There's a big difference.
Say you catch a robber in your house, stealing all your stuff. When you put the 44 mag up to his head, and he says, "I'm sorry." Is he really sorry he's robbing you, or is he really sorry that he's about to meet his maker?"
If you absolutely can't stop doing this, then you should confess to your husband. He deserves the right to be able to decide where it goes from here. If he ends the marriage, oh well. He wasn't the one who rolled the dice, you were.
From what I have read Ann has the best idea, That's along the lines of what I was thinking. But there is so much more to know like does your hubby like if you dress sexy/ sluty type thing . does he enjoy showing you off?
I think that tells a lot how a man feels about what his wife does
I think that tells a lot how a man feels about what his wife does
Peter Donaldson
Male
Most men watch porn on a daily/weekly basis.. Join and show him on Xhamster or Xvideos white chicks fucking black guys.. Say that you find it sexy. He might just allow you to keep on watching it with him than work in a fucking session.
hotcouple2233
Couple
Yes, by your own admission, you are selfish as well as a liar. You say you won't stop and you appear to be looking for a way to only take care of yourself. You are not a little girl: Stop acting liked one.
You have unilaterally changed the agreement of your marriage. Don't want to fuck things up? Then stop fucking other guys behind his back. Or come clean 100%, accept the consequences of your actions like an adult. Period.
One problem with people like you (i.e. Liars) is if tomorrow you found out he cheated on you ONCE you'd climb up on the nearest cross & play the victim without disclosing your own infidelities.
Want to fuck other people? Great! Work on your marriage first, rebuild intimacy with your husband and get to the point where you can be honest with him. From what you say sounds like he might liked to fuck other women. He'd probably like to have an open marriage, rather than just a lying, adulterous wife.
You have unilaterally changed the agreement of your marriage. Don't want to fuck things up? Then stop fucking other guys behind his back. Or come clean 100%, accept the consequences of your actions like an adult. Period.
One problem with people like you (i.e. Liars) is if tomorrow you found out he cheated on you ONCE you'd climb up on the nearest cross & play the victim without disclosing your own infidelities.
Want to fuck other people? Great! Work on your marriage first, rebuild intimacy with your husband and get to the point where you can be honest with him. From what you say sounds like he might liked to fuck other women. He'd probably like to have an open marriage, rather than just a lying, adulterous wife.
AWittolBitWrong
Male
If you don't mind me asking, is there a particular reason you want to introduce your husband to the lifestyle? Is it simply that you're afraid he'll eventually find out or is there more to it? Like freedom to engage in more risque behavior or possibly ween him off sex, for example.
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