In a quandary

[Needbbcinfl]

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[Kurt 2]

I'd listen to her and drop it.

 

[Kevin333]

Sounds like this is a wake-up up call and your wife recognizes it. You should as well

 

[Kevin333]

We were both extremely ******* and unfortunately didnt take the necessary precautions that we normally take

You're making excuses to justify continuing something that only you want.