I want to cuck my husband
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Just talk to him and tell him that you need more sex and better sex.
My suggestion is...start watching more cuckold porn, express to him during sex what you would like to do and how much you crave bbc. Tell him you had a dream where he was completely at the bbcs mercy... start infiltrating him mentally
Thank you. I’ll try this!
I'd start with IR porn like blacked. A lot of cuckold porn may be too extreme to start off with. The first step is just sharing porn togeather that excites you both. See how comfortable he is talking to you about other men being sexy or well endowed. Many men do fantasze about their wives being with other men. But more are probably open to a hot wife situation tan a cuckold situation (female in charge power dynamic). You could get BBC by just shooting for an open relationship, unless like me you only want your side open.
Jerry45tobe
Male
Do you know or work with any black men? You might try mild flirting or conversation with them. Nothing heavy, just mild flirting. Tell hubby about it at the right time, maybe before sex. Feel hubby while you relate this. See how he responds.
If all goes well, then maybe next time go a bit farther. Maybe a stolen kiss or feel. Again tell a little and see how it goes.
Just be honest, but don’t cheat! The most important thing is communication. Be prepared if he isn’t willing to go further to accept what you are getting now, and enjoy it even more. Absence makes the orgasm stronger
We already have an open marriage but I had hoped cucking him would allow me more access to BBC. We are on a “ask permission” type of open marriage and a lot of times when I want sex I feel bad asking for a play date because I don’t want him to think I don’t want him sexually. We just never have time because of his work schedule.
Then start regularly asking him and have him say not available them sit down with him and say its not that i don't want to have sex with you i just need it more. Use that to change the agreement
Thanks for the additional clarification in your later posts. Getting more BBC and cuckolding are different paths. Cuckold is generally a power dynamic at various intensities. From his participation as part of a MFM (some argue if this is or is not cuckolding) to full on degradation and making him prep your bull and related male/male interaction. That is much different than just wanting to get fucked more. Cuckold is something he should want.
This all comes down to open communication. It sounds like he already supports your open play, but just wants to have some input in the process. This can be for many reasons. First is your safety. Next might be some over watch to ensure emotional attachments don’t become an issue. BBCs can be a strong power! It sounds like you may have some internal guilt and it may stem from your perception of an unbalanced play situation. You might be very very wrong! I wish my wife would get fucked more. He may too. In our situation, I only ask for a video of the play. She’s my porn star and it makes our sex better and my desire for her more intense. I love knowing my wife is still sexually thirsty and open w her own desires. I play separately as well as a bull. I feel guilty when I seem to be playing more often than her. But, she routinely tell me that her sex drive and mine are at different points. It’s still hard for me to accept she’s actually happy for me, but I also make the effort to remind her that she is my wife and first priority. Use that advice and you and your husband could be off to a new fun chapter.
This all comes down to open communication. It sounds like he already supports your open play, but just wants to have some input in the process. This can be for many reasons. First is your safety. Next might be some over watch to ensure emotional attachments don’t become an issue. BBCs can be a strong power! It sounds like you may have some internal guilt and it may stem from your perception of an unbalanced play situation. You might be very very wrong! I wish my wife would get fucked more. He may too. In our situation, I only ask for a video of the play. She’s my porn star and it makes our sex better and my desire for her more intense. I love knowing my wife is still sexually thirsty and open w her own desires. I play separately as well as a bull. I feel guilty when I seem to be playing more often than her. But, she routinely tell me that her sex drive and mine are at different points. It’s still hard for me to accept she’s actually happy for me, but I also make the effort to remind her that she is my wife and first priority. Use that advice and you and your husband could be off to a new fun chapter.
You are absolutely correct with the guilt thing. Being a woman, it is natural that I would get more sex than my husband because there is 9 men to every 1 woman in the world. It is very hard for men to find lovers. It frustrates me when he starts talking to a new woman only for her to turn out to be a scammer etc. I want him to get as much sex as I do but right now I am the only one in the relationship that is needing sex often.
ChristyandJake
Couple
Oh maybe give your old friend another chance I'm so confused
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In your case it may require him really getting off on you getting fucked. My wife has lovers but I don’t. Not because I can’t hookup (although it’s naturally easier for a woman in almost all cases) but because I get off on her fucking other guys. The idea of going out and hooking up for me just isn’t that appealing. Too much work. So I’m fine with this arrangement. If your husband is hell bent on getting as much side as you then I don’t see a promising future for your arrangement. It’s just the laws of nature.
Nah he really isn't hell bent on getting as much as I do. He likes the attention from ladies but it is few and far between because 99% of them are fake.
In a way, you're already cucking him if you can find more sex than he can. Since you are allowed to request sex, make requests to change the relationship in the cucking way you like?
- Ask him to take time off from seeking sex while you have your current pattern
- Ask him for a period of time (say for one month) where you have open permission without needing to ask each time
- Ask him to use his time to help you find lovers instead of for himself
- Ask him for a period of time (say one month) where you are exclusive to other men and not him because he never has time for you
- Any combination of the above
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